What if fear was never meant to control you…

but to lead you somewhere deeper?

In this episode of Impact Over Influence, we unpack a powerful truth:

fear of the Lord isn’t something to run from—it’s something that transforms us.

“I know that I know”… but do we really?

Scripture warns us in 1 John not to be deceived—and yet so many of us are walking in a version of faith that’s missing the awe of God.

When fear is misplaced, it produces:

➡️ Anxiety

➡️ Confusion

➡️ Control

But when fear is rightly placed—in the Lord—it produces:

➡️ Wisdom (Proverbs 9:10)

➡️ Surrender

➡️ Transformation

This episode dives into:

• The difference between worldly fear vs. fear of the Lord

• How blind spots can quietly open doors to the enemy

• Why unity and purity matter in your walk (Psalm 139)

• The role of the Holy Spirit (Isaiah 11:2) in shaping us into Christ

• What it really means to be in the Potter’s hands (Jeremiah 18)

You’ll hear real moments where things didn’t go as planned…

rooms double booked, pressure rising…

BUT GOD stepped in.

Because sometimes when we don’t have it all figured out,

that’s the exact moment God begins to move.

🔥 “God is making a vessel.”

🔥 “Lean into the Potter.”

🔥 “Are you waiting on God… or is He waiting on you?”

This episode is a call to:

✔ Examine your heart (Psalm 19:12)

✔ Lay down pride and selfish ambition

✔ Walk in truth, humility, and repentance

✔ Sit still long enough to hear His voice

Because when fear turns into awe,

you don’t just believe in God…

you revere Him—and everything changes.

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“The Destructive Nature of Comparison” is here and it’s one you don’t want to miss.

In a world where everything is visible and everyone seems to be “winning,” it’s easy to fall into the trap of comparison… but at what cost?

This episode dives deep into:

✨ How comparison steals your identity and purpose

✨ The root issues of jealousy, pride, and discontentment

✨ Why what we “gain” in comparison always comes with a trade-off

✨ How it impacts our marriages, parenting, and spiritual walk

✨ What we are unintentionally teaching our kids through our own habits

✨ The freedom found in humility and focusing on what God has uniquely given YOU

📖 “Each one should test their own actions… without comparing themselves to someone else.” – Galatians 6:4

Comparison isn’t just harmless thinking—it disconnects us from gratitude, distorts our calling, and keeps us striving instead of surrendering.

It’s time to stop looking side to side… and start looking up.

🎧 Tune in now and be encouraged to walk confidently in who God created you to be.

Join Shelli as she breaks down scripture and personal testimony to show us how scripture is real, relevant and relatable.

So much can change in a single year. Plans shift. Roles change. What once felt significant may suddenly feel empty. In this episode, we unpack a downward stretch, the holy tension where God begins redefining what truly matters.

We talk about community and unity, success versus significance, and the realization that survival and achievement alone will never satisfy the soul. When “it’s not working” anymore and we’re tired of just keeping our head above water, God often invites us to surrender, not strive.

Through Scripture, reflection, and honest evaluation, we explore what it means to live a life that outlasts us. From Moses the murderer to Moses the leader… from David the shepherd to David the king—God is not afraid of changing our plans when it leads to purpose.

This episode challenges you to examine:

• What you’re building professionally, personally, physically, mentally, and spiritually

• Who is shaping your life?

• Where your trust truly lies when God changes the plan

Because things will not outlast us, but faith will.

And in the end, one thing remains.

Emmanuel: God With Us (Yesterday, Today, Tomorrow)

At Christmas, we often celebrate the story—but do we live in the reality of His presence?

In this episode, we unpack the powerful truth behind the name Emmanuel—God with us—not as a memory or a moment, but as a present-tense promise. From fulfilled prophecy to the supernatural faith required to believe the Christmas story, we’re reminded that we don’t serve a distant God or a seasonal Savior. We serve a God who came near, dwelled among sinners, and still lives within us today.

We’ll explore:

• Why presence matters more than preference

• The fulfillment of prophecy in Jesus’ birth

• What it truly means to believe in the supernatural

• Emmanuel as God with us then, now, and forever

• Why God is who He is—not who we want Him to be

Jesus didn’t just come to be admired, He came to save His people from their sins. And He is still with us.

If you’ve ever celebrated His birth but forgotten His nearness, this episode is for you.

In this Thanksgiving episode, we dig into something most of us don’t think about, but everyone around us feels: our countenance! How we carry ourselves, the look on our face, and the posture of our heart all reveal who we’ve been with… and where our hope rests.

Using scriptures like Ezekiel 36:26, Exodus 33–34, Mark 6:56, 1 Corinthians 13, and Mark 1:35, we explore how God shapes our attitude and expression when we spend time in His presence. Moses’ face literally changed after meeting with God, and ours can too.

We talk about:

• Why Jesus is relational and knows everything about us

• Showing up during the holidays—even when it feels uncomfortable

• Praying Scripture over people you’re believing God to reach

• How your presence at a family gathering might be someone’s answered prayer

• Why forgiveness is supernatural and why God empowers us to actually forget

• How to guard your witness from holiday offenses

• The quiet power of setting the tone for your day by meeting with the Father

This episode is your reminder: you can do this. Someone is praying for one more moment with you this holiday season. Let your countenance reflect who you’ve been with. Let it shine with the goodness of God.

Happy Thanksgiving! 🧡

Let’s be real, fear shows up in a lot of ways. Sometimes it sounds like doubt. Sometimes it’s confusion. And other times, it’s the quiet “what ifs” that make us hesitate when God says go. But here’s the truth: we’re in a spiritual battle every single day, and God has already equipped us with everything we need to stand firm.

In this episode, we’re talking about what it looks like to exchange fear for faith. How we can even use failure for God’s glory! How Paul’s thorn wasn’t a setback, but a setup for God to show His strength. And how prayer is your true power source when you feel weak or unsure.

If you’ve ever struggled with the fear of man, insecurity, or the pressure to please others, this one’s for you. God is reminding you, you are in His army, you’re not defenseless, and your faith has made you well.