Apparently, the theme this fall is the fall of civilization. So naturally, we’re talking about men.

This week, we’re officially retiring “not all men” and asking a much more important question: what are the good men actually doing about the bad ones?

We get into the culture that teaches women to protect themselves instead of teaching men not to harm them, what it means to raise boys who understand consent and emotional responsibility, the way men and women are socialized completely differently—and why we’re done rationalizing, explaining away, or making excuses for harmful behavior.

Plus: female intuition, dysfunctional relationship playbooks, throwing emotional spaghetti at your friends, and why sometimes being a good man means being willing to make other men uncomfortable.

Season 3 said the gloves were coming off. We meant it.

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Season 3 is here—and the gloves are officially off.

After two seasons of processing our family dynamics in real time, we get honest about accountability, intent vs. impact, the mythology of “family will always be there,” and what happens when you finally stop doing the emotional labor required to keep dysfunctional relationships alive.

If you’re new here, you can start here. In a lot of ways, we are too.

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