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  • 243 – Hot and Knot

    243 – Hot and Knot
    Oct 13 2026

    What makes rope hot — and when should you knot?

    Jon and Craig are joined by internationally renowned kink educator, author and authenticity instigator Lee Harrington for a deep dive into rope bondage, Shibari and the connections we create when we tie — or get tied.

    Forget the idea that rope is only for impossibly bendy Instagram models dangling dramatically from ceilings. Lee explores rope as communication: a way to play, connect, be vulnerable, get creative and discover what works for the body actually in front of you.

    Along the way, we unpack the difference between Shibari and rope bondage, how to negotiate a scene, adapting rope for different bodies and abilities, recognising nerve and circulation issues, planning for when things go wrong, and why a safeword isn’t always enough when it might take ten minutes to untie the human pretzel you’ve created.

    Then we loosen the ropes and talk aftercare, top drop, finding teachers who actually know what they’re doing, and why confidence isn’t necessarily the same thing as competence.

    Whether you’re an experienced rigger, an enthusiastic bottom, or you’ve never tied anything more complicated than a tarp to the back of a ute, this episode is your invitation to get curious, communicate — and maybe get a little tied up.

    Resources and Further Reading

    Lee Harrington / Passion & Soul
    Lee’s home for writing, education, classes, appearances and other kink and sexuality resources.
    https://www.passionandsoul.com/
    https://www.passionandsoul.com/kink

    Evie Vane
    Author of Better Bondage for Every Body, with a focus on adapting bondage for different bodies, mobility and flexibility.
    Shay Tiziano
    Author of Tying & Flying: Bondage for Self-Suspension, covering self-bondage, self-suspension and safer practice.
    Jake Ernst — Routes of Safety
    Creator of the Routes of Safety framework, exploring different ways people regulate, reconnect and return to a sense of safety.
    Kinky Sam Jones
    YouTube resources including kink and submissive homework exercises.

    Related Hide and Seek Episode

    242 – Ruff Guide to ShowDogs
    This week’s news item announces the winners of the 2026 Australian Pup and Handler Competition, which was the subject of last episode!

    Follow Jon instagram.com/barbarylion/

    Follow Joenas instagram.com/thisisjoenas/

    Follow Craig instagram.com/white.dragon.339/

    Follow Tim instagram.com/beatzradio/

    This episode was recorded on the lands of the Yalukut Weelam clan of the Boon Wurrung peoples. We pay our respects to their elders, past, present and emerging, and acknowledge that sovereignty was never ceded.

    Find other JOY podcasts at joy.org.au
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    56 min
  • 242 – Ruff Guide to ShowDogs

    242 – Ruff Guide to ShowDogs
    Sep 29 2026
    From one night at a club to a national pup institution — this week, Hide and Seek goes back to where the Australian Pup and Handler Competition began. Jon and Joenas are joined by Pup Tycho, founder of the Australian Pup and Handler Competition, researcher, community organiser and one of the people who helped shape Australia’s modern pup and handler scene. Ahead of APHC’s return to Boorloo/Perth, Tycho takes us back to the beginning: discovering pup play, stepping into community leadership and creating a national competition with little more than one leather contest, one book about IML and a determination to do things differently. We unpack the ideas that became central to APHC — transparency, accessibility, affordability, safety and the belief that inclusion has to be something you do, not something you simply claim. Tycho reflects on wheelchair access, sensory spaces, keeping events financially accessible and why taking APHC around the country matters. Then we follow the competition through its evolution: the frantic first year, its first interstate outing at Gear’d, Tycho receiving the inaugural Nipper Award from International Puppy and Handler Weekend, the uncertainty of the lockdown years, APHC’s post-pandemic return and the growth of an increasingly diverse Australian pup community. And with APHC now owned and run by the community itself, we ask what comes next. What should an Australian titleholder actually do? Where does inclusion still fall short? And if APHC is still going strong another ten years from now, what should its legacy be? As Tycho puts it: inclusion is an active process. Links and resources mentioned in this episode Visit PupPlay.info for Tycho’s pup-play resourcesAustralian Pup & Handler Competition / Australian Pups and Handlers Australian Pups and Handlers / APHC The current national APHC site, including the 2026 Boorloo/Perth program, contestants, judges and competition information.APHC history Australian Pup & Handler Competition history Useful alongside this episode for the year-by-year competition history. Past Episodes 2016 — Tycho’s first Hide and Seek appearance2018 — “Diamond Dogs” Jon, Groucho and Schism talk pup play and the results of the Community Survey2022 — Ep 105: The Power of the Dog Thefirst on-location APHC coverage, from Meanjin/Brisbane — outgoing titleholders and the 2022 contestants. Listen: Ep 105 – The Power of the Dog Ep 109: Shaggy Dog Stories (at APHC) The second half of the Brisbane coverage, focusing more broadly on what pup play means to community members and what they wish they had known when they started. Listen: Ep 109 – Shaggy Dog Stories2023 — Ep 145: Up To Scratch Your coverage from APHC in Boorloo/Perth, including Pup Garrett and the Puppy and Handler contestants. Listen: Ep 145 – Up To Scratch – Side A The aftermath: Australian Puppy Luca, Australian Handler Bowser and outgoing Puppy Jaxx. Listen: Up To Scratch – Side B2025 — Ep 211: Best In Show – APHC 2025 Your Melbourne APHC broadcast, with Tycho and Handler James, the 2025 contestants and the crowning of Lycan and Kitty Katastrophy. Listen: Ep 211 – Best In Show – APHC 2025 Sextra: Breast In Show – Meet the Winners! The follow-up with Australian Puppy Lycan and Australian Handler Kitty Katastrophy, including their speeches and post-win interviews. Follow Jon instagram.com/barbarylion/ Follow Joenas instagram.com/thisisjoenas/ Follow Craig instagram.com/white.dragon.339/ Follow Tim instagram.com/beatzradio/ This episode was recorded on the lands of the Yalukut Weelam clan of the Boon Wurrung peoples. We pay our respects to their elders, past, present and emerging, and acknowledge that sovereignty was never ceded. Find other JOY podcasts at joy.org.au
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    50 min
  • 241 – The Kink Di-It

    241 – The Kink Di-It
    Sep 29 2026

    Sex, disability and a little bit of first aid — because sometimes the “ooh” becomes an “oops”.

    Craig and Jonas are joined by CJ from EthiKink to talk about disability, desire and why disabled people deserve far more than assumptions about what their sex lives look like. From accessibility and communication to autonomy, consent and finding creative ways to make sex work for different bodies, CJ explains why “wonky bonkers have more fun”.

    Then things get practical. What happens when someone gets hurt during sex or kink? We get into sexual first aid, safer play, when it’s time to call for help, and why embarrassment should never stop you getting the care you need.

    Expect singed pubes, unconventional safe signals, accessible sex, kink wisdom and a reminder that good sex is often about adaptation, communication and knowing what to do when things don’t quite go to plan.

    Links and resources mentioned in this episode

    • EthiKink
      Sex-positive and kink-positive first aid education from CJ.
      https://www.instagram.com/ethikink_/
    • CJ / @cjarteleartist
      Kink, first aid and sex-positive education.
      https://www.instagram.com/cjarteleartist/
    • SXhibition Melbourne
      Sexuality, kink and adult education events, including CJ’s “Wonky Bonking” presentation.
      https://sxhibition.com/2026/melbourne
    • Lifeline Australia
      24/7 crisis support. Call 13 11 14, text 0477 13 11 14, or use online chat.
      https://www.lifeline.org.au/get-help/
    • Triple Zero (000)
      For life-threatening or serious emergencies requiring ambulance, police or fire services.
      https://www.triplezero.vic.gov.au/making-triple-zero-000-call

    Follow Jon instagram.com/barbarylion/

    Follow Joenas instagram.com/thisisjoenas/

    Follow Craig instagram.com/white.dragon.339/

    Follow Tim instagram.com/beatzradio/

    This episode was recorded on the lands of the Yalukut Weelam clan of the Boon Wurrung peoples. We pay our respects to their elders, past, present and emerging, and acknowledge that sovereignty was never ceded.

    Find other JOY podcasts at joy.org.au
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    57 min
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