I'm your host, Sekina Yakub, and in this episode of The Hearts Connect Podcast, I sit down with Rumaanah Rameez for a heartfelt conversation about faith, identity, representation, purpose, love, and navigating life as a young Muslim woman in the West.

Rumaanah shares her journey from studying law and politics into policing, while pursuing her passion for writing and storytelling. We explore connection through faith, the Qur’an, prayer, reflection, and the importance of creating representation for Muslim women and ethnic minorities.

We also talk about the ups and downs of faith, comparison, hijab, cultural identity, giving yourself grace, and finding your way back to Allah when life feels overwhelming. Rumaanah shares the inspiration behind her book Not Your Expected Hijabi and reflects on love, identity, culture, and the experiences that shape us.

At the heart of this conversation is a reminder that faith is a journey — and whenever we lose our way, we can always return to Allah.

Takeaways

• Finding connection through faith, relationships, and self-reflection
• Using storytelling to create representation and challenge stereotypes
• Finding purpose through your career, creativity, and passions
• Staying grounded through salah, the Qur’an, journaling, and reflection
• Navigating the ups and downs of faith with grace and patience
• Letting go of comparison and the pressure to be “perfect”
• Balancing faith, culture, identity, and personal goals
• Navigating life as a Muslim woman in the West
• Understanding love beyond romance — including love for Allah, ourselves, family, and others
• Remembering that faith is a journey and we can always return to Allah

Chapters

00:11 Introduction to Unique Journeys

01:22 Romana's Background and Passion for Writing

03:40 The Meaning of Connection

08:02 Defining Moments and Personal Growth

11:06 Misunderstandings and Societal Expectations

15:27 Daily Rituals and Productivity

20:42 Challenges in Faith and Purpose

23:51 The Journey of Self-Reflection and Growth

30:21 Navigating Identity and Spirituality

37:57 Understanding Love in Its Many Forms

About the Podcast

The Hearts Connect Podcast is rooted in authentic storytelling and spiritually grounded self-development. Inspired by the book Hearts Connect, which documents the lived experiences of African and Afro-Caribbean converts to Islam in the UK, this podcast continues meaningful conversations around faith, healing, identity, and building healthy relationships — with ourselves, with Allah, and with others.

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I'm your host, Sekina Yakub, and in this episode of The Hearts Connect Podcast, I sit down with Diana Alghoul for a powerful conversation about self-knowledge, faith, identity, healing, emotions, the subconscious mind, tawakkul, and love. Diana shares her journey from journalism into hypnotherapy, reflecting on how her experiences shaped her understanding of herself, her faith, and the deeper beliefs that influence how we show up in the world. She explores what it means to truly know yourself, let go of identities that no longer serve you, and trust what is already within you. We also talk about emotional healing, learning to listen to the body, creating safe spaces to process difficult emotions, and moving beyond “good vibes only.” Diana reflects on her journey back to Islam, the importance of seeking knowledge, daily spiritual practices, solitude, self-love, people-pleasing, and learning to trust yourself.

Throughout the conversation, we return to the importance of keeping Allah at the centre — and remembering that whatever we face, Allahu Akbar.

Takeaways

• Understanding what it means to truly know yourself
• Letting go of identities and beliefs that no longer serve you
• The relationship between the subconscious mind, beliefs, and behaviour
• Faith, questioning, seeking knowledge, and returning to Allah
• The importance of emotional awareness and healthy emotional processing
• Listening to your body and learning to trust yourself
• Creating safe spaces for healing and self-reflection
• Solitude, introversion, and reconnecting with yourself
• Self-love, people-pleasing, rejection, and healthy boundaries
• Balancing personal goals with spiritual values
• Understanding hypnotherapy and the subconscious mind
• Keeping Allah at the centre through tawakkul and surrender

Chapters

• 00:12 Introduction to Diana's Journey
• 01:21 The Deep Connection Between Subconscious and Faith
• 03:01 Memory and Its Impact on Behavior
• 04:18 Defining Self: Spirituality, Rationality, and Lightheartedness
• 04:41 Knowing Yourself to Know Allah
• 07:12 The Facets of Self and Contextual Behavior
• 07:49 A Defining Moment During COVID
• 09:15 Letting Go and Trusting Allah
• 11:09 The Expanding Universe and Self-Development
• 12:04 Light Within: Bringing Out Inner Potential
• 14:51 Misunderstandings About Diana’s Practice
• 18:29 Daily Practices for Spiritual and Mental Well-being
• 25:22 Rediscovering Faith and the Power of Allah
• 33:52 The Role of Solitude and Reflection
• 39:13 Love, Self-Love, and Conditioning
• 43:25 Final Words and Advice from Diana

About the Podcast

The Hearts Connect Podcast is rooted in authentic storytelling and spiritually grounded self-development. Inspired by the book Hearts Connect, which documents the lived experiences of African and Afro-Caribbean converts to Islam in the UK, this podcast continues meaningful conversations around faith, healing, identity, and building healthy relationships — with ourselves, with Allah, and with others.

If this episode resonated with you, share your reflections below.

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I'm your host, Sekina Yakub, and in this episode of The Hearts Connect Podcast, I sit down with Rukayat Yakub for a powerful conversation about belonging, faith, identity, community, anti-blackness, heart work, and love. Rukayat shares her journey between the UK, Nigeria, and the US, reflecting on how different communities, mentors, unexpected encounters, and periods of solitude shaped her relationship with Islam. She discusses the difference between fitting in and truly belonging, and the importance of creating spaces where people feel safe to be their authentic selves. Rukayat also explores her work around anti-blackness and the Islamic concept of tazkiyah — purifying the heart and examining the beliefs and biases we carry. She reflects on history, systems of oppression, asking who benefits, and approaching difficult conversations with curiosity rather than blame. We also talk about loneliness, spiritual growth, aligning personal goals with faith, and the transformative power of love.

Takeaways

• The difference between belonging and simply fitting in
• Creating safe spaces where people can be authentic
• The role of community and connection in strengthening faith
• Migration, identity, loneliness, and finding belonging
• Understanding anti-blackness and the systems that uphold it
• Tazkiyah and the importance of heart work and self-reflection
• Challenging inherited beliefs with curiosity
• Aligning personal goals with spiritual values
• The transformative power of love and its role in building community

Chapters

00:12 Introduction to Hearts Connect

• 01:56 The Meaning of Connection
• 04:51 Defining Moments and Belonging
• 07:50 Creating Safe Spaces
• 09:15 Understanding Anti-Blackness and Belonging
• 11:15 Misunderstandings and Stereotypes
• 12:48 Daily Habits and Spiritual Practices
• 14:27 Rediscovering Faith and Purpose
• 21:29 Navigating Disconnection and Solitude
• 23:53 Heart Work and Spiritual Growth
• 24:45 Aligning Personal Goals with Spiritual Values
• 25:20 Understanding Heart Work and Anti-Blackness
• 30:54 The Impact of Anti-Blackness on Society
• 37:26 Recognizing the Powers That Be
• 42:24 The Essence of Love in Life

About the Podcast

The Hearts Connect Podcast is rooted in authentic storytelling and spiritually grounded self-development. Inspired by the book Hearts Connect, which documents the lived experiences of African and Afro-Caribbean converts to Islam in the UK, this podcast continues meaningful conversations around faith, healing, identity, and building healthy relationships — with ourselves, with Allah, and with others.

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I'm your host, Sekinat Yakub, and in this episode of The Hearts Connect Podcast, I sit down with Aiysha, a Muslim boxer and journalist, shares her journey into boxing and the impact of wearing hijab on her life. She discusses the importance of self-defense for women and the misconceptions about hijabis. A defining moment for her was the decision to wear hijab, leading to a deeper connection with her faith and a shift in her family's perception. Aiysha shares her experiences with balancing her day job, boxing, and spiritual growth. She emphasizes the importance of reflection, lists, and grounding oneself in faith. Aiysha also discusses the lessons she has learned about love and the significance of not being too attached to the material world.

Takeaways

• Boxing as a form of self-defense and empowerment
• The impact of wearing hijab on personal identity and perceptions
• The importance of intention and the misconceptions about hijabis Balancing work, boxing, and spiritual growth
• Importance of reflection and grounding in faith
• Lessons about love and detachment from the material world

Chapters

• 00:00 Defining Moment: Wearing Hijab and Deepening Faith
• 25:14 Balancing Work, Boxing, and Faith
• 27:23 Reflection and Grounding in Faith
• 28:21 Lessons About Love and Detachment

About the Podcast

The Hearts Connect Podcast is rooted in authentic storytelling and spiritually grounded self-development. Inspired by the book Hearts Connect, which documents the lived experiences of African and Afro-Caribbean converts to Islam in the UK, this podcast continues meaningful conversations around faith, healing, identity, and building healthy relationships — with ourselves, with Allah, and with others.

If this episode resonated with you, share your reflections below.

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I'm your host, Sekinat Yakub, and in this episode of The Hearts Connect Podcast, I sit down with Nina Alexia Brazzo, also known as Nusaybah — a fitness instructor, personal trainer, artist, and photographer — for a powerful conversation about holistic healing, breath, movement, emotional awareness, spirituality, self-discovery, and intentional living.

The conversation delves into the connection between the mind, body, and spirit, exploring how breath, movement, meditation, and emotional regulation can support healing and deeper self-awareness. Nusaybah shares her personal journey and holistic approach to health, as well as practical techniques for using breath and movement to reconnect with ourselves.

We explore the healing power of movement and dance, the importance of emotional awareness, feminine energy and balance, spiritual journeys, sacred spaces, and the connection between breath and dhikr. The conversation also reflects on culture, faith, diversity, and how intentional living can help us become more present and connected.

Takeaways

• Holistic approach to health and healing
• The power of breath and breathwork
• Emotional awareness and regulation
• Movement as a tool for healing and expression
• Connecting mind, body, and spirit
• Spirituality, dhikr, and intentional living
• Dance, culture, and self-expression
• Feminine energy and balance
• Self-discovery and personal empowerment

Chapters

• 00:00 Introduction to Hearts Connect and Guest Introduction
• 01:42 Nusaybah's Journey and Holistic Approach to Health
• 03:57 The Importance of Breath in Healing
• 10:25 Meditation Techniques and Self-Discovery
• 19:17 Emotional Awareness and Regulation
• 22:56 The Role of Movement in Healing
• 31:36 Programs for Empowerment and Healing
• 42:58 Breath Control and Movement Techniques
• 45:34 Healing Through Breath and Movement
• 47:56 Connecting Mind, Body, and Spirit
• 52:28 Spiritual Journeys and Sacred Spaces
• 57:27 Exploring Feminine Energy and Balance
• 01:02:31 Dance as a Form of Expression and Healing
• 01:25:08 Cultural Connections Through Dance
• 01:31:49 The Healing Power of Movement
• 01:33:36 Breath and Dhikr: A Spiritual Practice
• 01:39:31 Intentional Living and Self-Awareness
• 01:51:09 Embracing Diversity in Faith and Culture

About the Podcast

The Hearts Connect Podcast is rooted in authentic storytelling and spiritually grounded self-development. Inspired by the book Hearts Connect, which documents the lived experiences of African and Afro-Caribbean converts to Islam in the UK, this podcast continues meaningful conversations around faith, healing, identity, and building healthy relationships — with ourselves, with Allah, and with others.

If this episode resonated with you, share your reflections below.

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I'm your host, Sekinat Yakub, and in this episode of The Hearts Connect Podcast, I sit down with Nadia - Manager of a Youth Referral Unit - for a powerful conversation about self-discovery, the impact of cultural upbringing and identity, seeking fulfilment and purpose, life in Jordan and community connection, and grounding habits and the impact of education.

The conversation delves into the themes of education as a tool for unlocking potential, the journey of rediscovering faith and purpose, the process of healing and growth through adversity, and the profound lessons of love, gratitude, and spiritual reflection. Each chapter provides a deep exploration of these themes, offering valuable insights and personal experiences.

Takeaways

• Journey of self-discovery
• Impact of upbringing and cultural diversity Education as a Tool
• Rediscovering Faith
• Healing and Growth
• Love and Gratitude

Chapters

• 00:00 The Journey of Self-Discovery
• 05:59 Cultural Upbringing and Identity
• 11:59 Seeking Fulfillment and Purpose
• 20:05 Life in Jordan and Community Connection
• 28:09 Grounding Habits and Impact of Education
• 30:07 Unlocking Potential Through Education
• 33:16 Rediscovering Faith and Purpose
• 36:06 Healing and Growth Through Adversity
• 49:30 Love, Gratitude, and Spiritual Reflection

About the Podcast

The Hearts Connect Podcast is rooted in authentic storytelling and spiritually grounded self-development. Inspired by the book Hearts Connect, which documents the lived experiences of African and Afro-Caribbean converts to Islam in the UK, this podcast continues meaningful conversations around faith, healing, identity, and building healthy relationships — with ourselves, with Allah, and with others.

If this episode resonated with you, share your reflections below.

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#HeartsConnect #Marriage #MuslimPodcast #FaithJourney #SpiritualGrowth #HealingJourney #SelfDiscovery #Mindfulness #IntentionalLiving #Gratitude #TrustAllah #InnerWork #Islam #Identity #SelfAwareness #Mercy #PersonalGrowth

I'm your host, Sekinat Yakub, and in this episode of The Hearts Connect Podcast, I sit down with Karimah for a powerful conversation about identity, healing, self-discovery, and the spiritual battles that can take place within us.

Together, we explore what it means to look beneath the masks we wear and become more aware of the thoughts, patterns, and whispers that can pull us away from Allah. Karimah shares honest reflections on self-sabotage, mindfulness, gratitude, mercy, and learning to recognise the subtle ways we can become disconnected from ourselves and our Creator.

This conversation is a reminder that the greatest battle isn't against yourself — it's against the whispers trying to pull you away from Allah. Through greater self-awareness, intentionality, gratitude, and trust in Allah's mercy, we can begin to break unhealthy patterns and reconnect with who we truly are.

• Understanding who you are beneath the masks you have learned to wear.
• Recognising self-sabotage and the patterns that keep us stuck.
• Becoming more mindful of our thoughts, emotions, and actions.
• Learning to recognise the whispers that can pull us away from Allah.
• Practising gratitude and recognising the blessings Allah has already given us.
• Remembering Allah's mercy when navigating mistakes and personal growth.
• Choosing intentional responses instead of allowing our impulses to control us.
• Healing through greater self-awareness and reconnection with Allah.

00:11 Introduction to Journeys and Identity

01:36 The Multifaceted Identity of Karima Vince Daoud

02:14 Understanding Slavery and Freedom in Islam

05:19 The Importance of Connection and Dialogue

07:34 Facing Inner Demons and Self-Reflection

15:17 The Transformative Experience of Motherhood

21:38 Navigating Parenthood and Personal Growth

23:05 Building a Team Mentality in Family Dynamics

26:27 Navigating Menstrual Health and Self-Care

29:01 The Importance of Prayer and Seeking Support

30:13 Understanding Neurodiversity and Communication

34:02 Morning Rituals for a Productive Day

37:53 The Journey to Embracing Islam

43:19 Reconnecting with Faith After Disconnection

46:45 Finding Focus Through Faith

49:27 The Power of Solitude

52:10 Navigating Relationships with Allah

56:00 Balancing Personal and Spiritual Goals

01:00:04 Lessons on Love and Compassion

01:04:49 Understanding Temperaments and Their Impact

01:07:55 Dynamic Personalities in Relationships

The Hearts Connect Podcast is rooted in authentic storytelling and spiritually grounded self-development. Inspired by the book Hearts Connect, which documents the lived experiences of African and Afro-Caribbean converts to Islam in the UK, this podcast continues meaningful conversations around faith, healing, identity, and building healthy relationships — with ourselves, with Allah, and with others.

If this episode resonated with you, share your reflections below.

Who are you beneath the mask you've learned to wear?

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I'm your host, Sekinat Yakub, and in this episode of The Hearts Connect Podcast, I sit down with Nathan, CEO of the Muslim Wealth Management Group.

The conversation with Nathan explores his journey of faith, connection, and self-discovery. From defining moments to the importance of connection and the impact of autism, Nathan shares his experiences and challenges. He also discusses the significance of morning rituals and the discovery of faith, highlighting the emotional journey of feeling disconnected and finding his way back.

Takeaways

• Connection is deeply personal and essential for human development.
• Understanding and awareness of autism are crucial for effective communication and interaction.

Chapters

• 00:00 Child of God
• 01:31 The Meaning of Connection
• 03:05 The Importance of Connection
• 06:14 Defining Moment
• 09:44 Misunderstandings
• 10:25 Understanding Autism
• 18:44 Morning Ritual
• 26:26 Discovering Faith
• 32:29 Feeling Disconnected

About the Podcast:
The Hearts Connect Podcast is rooted in authentic storytelling and spiritually grounded self-development. Inspired by the book Hearts Connect, which documents the lived experiences of African and Afro-Caribbean converts to Islam in the UK, this podcast continues meaningful conversations around faith, healing, and building healthy relationships—with ourselves, with Allah, and with others.

If this episode resonated with you, share your reflections below.

What are you consuming—and how is it shaping you?

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