This Week, Elle and Vee chat with Leandra Petroff, Somatica-certified sexologist and sex & intimacy coach, and pick her brain about everything from narcissism in relationships, the perspective of a switch, and building real intimacy in modern relationships. They break down what “somatic” actually means and how to radically deepen connection. From the psychology of dominance and submission to core desires, hottest sexual movies, and spotting narcissism in ENM and polyamory, this episode is packed with sex education and relationship insight.

Somatic Work vs. Talk Therapy: overcoming religious guilt to become a sex educator, and What the hell does "somatic" mean? (1:30)

What is intimacy and how can people start feeling intimacy, getting out of their heads and into their bodies? (6:32)

Appreciation Game: showing appreciation for your partner to create love and intimacy in your partnership. (9:19)

What's more intimate: Eye Contact or Pegging? (12:09)

Eye Contact While Fucking? Going through the 3 dimensions of sex. (14:06)

“Hottest Sexual Movie”: What’s a Hottest Sexual Movie, What’s a Core Desire, and how do they feed into your hottest fantasies? (20:07)

The Switch Perspective: WHY you might like to explore both dominance and submission. (23:08)

Figuring out your Core Desires: What do you want to feel when you have sex? (26:59)

Bottoming vs Being Submissive. (30:39)

Narcissism: how narcissists can be manipulative in ENM relationships. The five different types of narcissism. (34:18)

How do you know you're dating a narcissist? (40:40)

What to do after dating a narcissist. (46:33)

Red Flags to Look Out For. (47:52)

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Fisting isn’t about going hard — it’s about going slowly, intentionally, and deeply connected.

In this episode Elle and Vee sit down with Jamie Joy and Riley Ocean to take the shame, fear, and mystery out of fisting and talk about what actually makes it powerful, pleasurable, and safe. Together, they explore anal and vaginal prep, communication, pacing, and aftercare, breaking down what it really takes to explore deep penetration — emotionally, mentally, and physically.

Fisting: first fisting experiences and why we love it! (00:41)

Leaving something to look forward to: anal, DP, double fisting in one hole. (10:29)

What’s so great about fisting? Elle has a great fisting experience post-pregnancy. (12:02)

Fisting Prep: What to do beforehand, for the front and the back holes. (20:44)

Lube: The best fisting lubes, the “lube test”, and what to do before fisting. (28:11)

Anal Fisting Prep: stretches for tops and bottoms, and turning the bottom on (bonus points if they orgasm first!). (35:21)

Inserting the Fist: three methods of insertion: corkscrew, short pumps, and sustained pressure. (38:14)

Pain vs. Discomfort: it's ok to stop. (43:52)

As the top: how do you read the bottom and know when to push; how do you know when to back off? (49:38)

Techniques for opening as the bottom: bearing down, and clenching and releasing. (53:33)

Fist or “duck” hand formations: pros and cons. (55:06)

Hand Techniques for maximum pleasure! (56:37)

Double Fisting Orgasm: whatd does it feel like to have two fists in you and a wand on you? (1:01:57)

Removing the Fist: slow, and with the breath. (1:05:29)

Aftercare: what to do for the bottom and the top afterwards. (1:11:30)

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In this episode, Vee and Elle answer listener questions from the @girlsgonedeeppod instagram.

Chapters

How Do You Find a Unicorn or a 3rd? (See Episode 81 for more tips) (00:00)

What Was Your First Girl on Girl Experience? Was It a Friend or Random?

What’s the Largest Orgy You’ve Been In? Defining Two Types of Orgies. (31:00)

Condoms in Mouths and Ureaplasma.(37:06)

What Do You Do To Make Your ENM Partnership Work? (43:45)

Why Do This Lifestyle And How You Know It's For You? (01:01:57)

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In this episode, Elle and Vee recap their Joy Family holiday party, aka the Naughty Snowball, at which LOTS of naughty fun was had! This is a revisit from January 2025, and still holds up as one of the naughtiest most exploratory parties they've been at together.

Themes/dressing for body confidence (especially after having a baby). (2:23)

Prostate play with Daddy: Elle gets a lesson in best practices for milking the prostate, and snowballing cum between five people. (5:22)

Rope 101: Vee uses her beginner rope tying skills on Elle! Finding something to do with your hands during the party, and unlocking your inner domme. Reverse Tension; Square Knot Single Column Tie; attaching rope to rope. (11:55)

Edging scene while being bound. (18:40)

Fisting tips: Vee uses her takeaways from a recent fisting workshop to get wrist-deep with M, two nights in a row. (20:23)

Elle: year of the pussy! Double ended dildo strap-on play. Why Elle loves reverse cowgirl. (29:38)

Anonymity in a large orgy: at small orgies it feels like there's a spotlight on certain scenes. (40:14)

The best sexy white elephant gifts: nipple clamps, penis pumps, ejaculating dildo, sexy art, bed straps. (44:11)

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This week Elle and Vee discuss all the ways they've been exploring pleasure recently: including BDSM scenes with vibrators, flogging and five orgasms, achieving sub space, mushroom-fueled connection, cervical orgasms while pregnant, knife play, cock warming, and that very specific moment when you yawn on a dick and keep going anyway.

Halloween Night BDSM Scene Gone Wrong: Vee and Mister A are stranded in a spooky AirBnB. (1:37)

Pain/Pleasure Cycling: Vee has five orgasms during a BDSM scene with Mister A. (4:32)

Sub Space: Vee finds surrender when she wears her collar. The difference between letting go and being objectified. (12:00)

Psilocybin Sex: sex gets super intense and connected with magic mushrooms. (17:08)

Cervical Orgasms and Third Trimester Sex: Elle stimulates her cervix, gets juicy and talks about which positions she can and can’t do while she’s super pregnant. (18:44)

Hotel Ambience Hacks: How to set the mood and get the right mood lighting in your hotel room. (26:32)

Knife Play Bondage Scene: Mister A uses bondage tape, a knife and a wand on Vee. The surprising upside to having an STI. (28:50)

Knife Play with Strangers at the Nude Beach: Elle talks about the time she let a guy on a nude beach pretend to shave her pussy with a knife. (38:32)

Cock Warming: WTF is cock warming? What’s the point? (42:53)

Gentle Face Fucking and Yawning During Blow Jobs: a gentler version of face fucking, and yawning due to air hunger during head. (45:22)

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In this Guys Gone Deep episode, Elle and Vee chat with Magnum of Naughty Disco to talk about being a parent in the lifestyle, navigating non-monogamy, and finding genuine community in sex-positive spaces. This convo meanders from the vibe of Naughty Disco, to the truth about sex party etiquette, how to approach people without being creepy to handling rejection with maturity, and what men and women really need to know about each other in the lifestyle.

Getting into non-monogamy: divorce, Feeld, and sex parties. (1:30)

Naughty Disco! "NYC's sexiest curated dance party." (9:15)

How sexy does it get on the dance floor at Naughty Disco? (14:22)

Playing together vs separately at parties. (18:48)

Re-negotiating agreements, and working through the challenge of one partner having more opportunities to date than the other. (21:10)

Being a parent in the lifestyle. (25:24)

Being sober in the lifestyle. (26:02)

Finding your community, going early to sex parties, and is the play party scene cliquey? (27:15)

What is your biggest turn off in a sex positive space? (31:26)

What should women know about men in the lifestyle? (33:52)

What should men know about women in the lifestyle? How to reject and accept rejection gracefully. (37:16)

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This week, Vee and Elle sit down with Tash Doherty — a British-Irish-American writer, creator of Misseducated (the blog and podcast helping the world become shamelessly sexy), and author of These Perfectly Careless Things, her spicy coming-of-age debut novel. She is a bold, candid, and deeply reflective sexuality writer who holds nothing back. We discuss Tash’s latest project, The Intimacy Journal, which invites readers into deeper erotic self-reflection through writing.

They also wander into taboo territory like:

• vibrators in one-night stands
• the shame around “needing” toys
• fatphobia, feeder porn, and being praised for the parts of you you’ve been taught to hate
• being “born-again monogamous” versus non-monogamous and craving freedom
• whether shameless sexuality is about saying yes more, saying no more, or adding nuance instead of binary answers

By the end, this episode feels like a permission slip: to write about your sex life, to admit your kinks (even the ones you’d never act out), to take up space in your pleasure, and to use tools like The Intimacy Journal to get better at sex.

Chapters

Meet Tash Doherty: From Rule-Following Schoolgirl To Shameless Sex Writer. (00:00)

“Unattached Sex”. (5:15)

What Does It Mean To You To Have Sex With One Person For The Rest Of Your Life? The Importance Of Having One Night Stands: The Human Desire Buffet And Freedom Vs. Restriction. (9:12)

Why Journal? Does It Create A Better Sex Life? (18:11)

Taking Up Space: Café Tables, Crosswalks & Orgasm Gaps Vs. Equality. (20:56)

What Is Shamelessly Sexy? Is It Saying Yes More, No More Honestly… Or Something Else? Curiosity? Boundaries? (25:51)

Toys In The Bedroom: Vibrators During One Night Stands or Fear of Toys? (33:39)

First Time, Worst Time, Most Alive: Journaling Prompts IRL. (40:33)

Feeder Porn / Weight Gain Kink, Fatphobia, Erotic Reclamation & Control. (59:55)

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🔥 Guest Info:
Substack: Misseducated https://misseducated.substack.com
Website: https://www.tashdoherty.com
(Articles, book info, the Intimacy Journal updates)

The Intimacy Journal
A guided, sensual self-reflection journal blending poetry, erotic memory, desire-mapping, and introspective prompts to deepen your relationship with your sexuality. The journal also includes a QR code linking to a community space where readers can anonymously share their stories.

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Have you been naughty or nice? Either way, Vee and Elle are serving up the ultimate sexy gift guide to help you heat up your season.

We’re sharing the toys, experiences, and books we actually love… and several come with special discount codes just for GGD listeners. Happy HOlidays, naughty snowballs!

Vee is bedridden from a sex injury, and Elle has pelvic girdle pain.

Our fave toys - why are we doing this? (Answer: because we helpful, good girls :) (5:55)

Best Couple Toy: Sex Swing. (7:36)

Best G Spot Flapping Vibrator. (14:20)

Best Vibrator: Hitachi Magic Wand. (16:14)

Best G-Spot/P-Spot Stimulator: njoy. (18:55)

*Sensory Play sexy eye mask: Purple Passion

Experiental = Vee’s #1 combo gift: Rope and a workshop or BEDucated. (23:34)

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Best for Witchy Sluts: Waands Crystal Pleasure Wands, Cervix Wands, yoni eggs, and butt plugs. (27:37)

What’s the point of a yoni egg? (32:27)

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Best Personalized Experience: Hiring a professional: coaching, dominatrixes, yoni massage, shibari session… (34:32)

-Priestess Francesca

-Rina Trevi

-Magda Kay

-Leola Watkins

-Briana Cribeyer

-Work with Vee! (email or DM GGD)

Best Ergonomic Sexual Experience: Sex Wedge Pillow. (37:43)

Best For Easy Cleanup After Squirting: Waterproof Blanket. (39:50)

Best Electroplay Experience: Violet Wand, mixed with conductive shibari rope. (40:37)

Best Sexy Accessory: Nipple Clamps with chain. (41:37)

Best Party Experience: Sex Parties! (42:45)

Best At-Home Unique Experience: Love is Art Kit! (43:30)

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Best Icebreaker Game: WHOREible Life. (46:11)

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BOOKS: (47:20)

Unbound by Kasia Urbaniak

Polywise by Jessica Fern

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