This week, Elle and Vee are joined by their friend Dean, partner of repeat guest Aphrodite, for a conversation about navigating non-monogamy with emotional intelligence. From sexy Renaissance Faire costumes and play party debriefs to having tough conversations when you're already emotionally depleted, they explore how to push your growth edges without pushing past your limits. Dean opens up about being demisexual in the lifestyle, why labels can both help and hold us back, and shares some very sexy adventures from Burning Man. Plus, a simple 30-second intimacy exercise to reconnect with your partner when you're both running on empty.

Intro & Meeting Dean. (00:00)

Sexy Costumes, Renaissance Faire & Role Play. (04:55)

The Invite vs. The Overnight. (13:55)

Having Tough Conversations & Relationship Debriefs. (22:43)

Going to a Sex Party in a Weird Headspace. (35:00)

The Emotional Intelligence Echo Chamber. (39:45)

Demisexuality, Desire & Sexual Labels. (43:15)

Burning Man, Orgy Domes & Sexy Adventures. (50:50)

Final Nugget: A 30-Second Intimacy Exercise. (59:45)

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This week, Vee and Elle chat with Jordana Ezra, aka The Queer Sex Coach, about redefining what counts as sex, navigating bisexual awakenings, and why curiosity beats technique when it comes to eating pussy. From tribbing vs. scissoring to pussy worship, self-pleasure, and unlearning shame around smells, juices, and our bodies, they explore how sexual literacy and nervous system safety can transform pleasure. Plus, Vee shares takeaways from Jordana's tantric-inspired massage workshop, and the conversation takes an unexpectedly vulnerable turn into anal pleasure, emotional triggers, and aftercare.

Tantric massage: workshop takeaways. (02:11)

The art of receiving pleasure. (07:53)

What counts as sex? (11:17)

Tribbing vs. scissoring. (14:22)

Redefining sex beyond penetration. (16:47)

Baby bisexuals: exploring queer sexuality. (18:32)

Sexual literacy: curiosity over technique. (24:29)

Pussy devotion & worship. (27:59)

Pussy shame: smells, juices & body image. (30:46)

Self-pleasure as an antidote to shame. (34:05)

Nervous system regulation & healing core wounds. (39:57)

Unlearning internalized homophobia. (44:55)

Queer sex myths & clit preferences. (49:57)

Anal queen: positions & pleasure. (51:49)

The emotional side of anal sex & aftercare. (54:01)

Jordana Ezra:

Instagram: @thequeersxcoach

Website: jordanaezra.com

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This week, Vee and Elle revisit a Halloween favorite from 2023: a whirlwind trip to a lifestyle party filled with group sex, spanking, strap-ons, sensory deprivation, and a six-person orgy. Vee shares what she learned about navigating a big sex party—from confidently saying no and understanding orgy etiquette to creating privacy, leaning into novelty, and surrendering control while blindfolded. They also get into how sex can feel different with strap-ons, moving together during penetration, a deeply connected threesome, and ways to recover after a very sexy, very late weekend.

Inside a lifestyle Halloween party. (01:16)

Novelty, desire and saying no at a sex party. (07:40)

Starting a six-person orgy and navigating group play. (13:20)

Spanking, blindfolds and sensory deprivation. (18:56)

Strap-ons, penetration and sex as a dance. (23:58)

A mindful threesome and post-party recovery. (30:30)

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— support the pod while you stock up on your favorite pleasure essentials.

🪄 WAANDS™: Crystal Pleasure Products HERE. Get 15% off with code GIRLSGONEDEEP

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