Have you lost contact with your child? What about your parent, or grandparent, sibling, or any other family member? You might be experiencing estrangement, alienation, or erasure. All of these terms speak to the trauma and dysfunction that so many families face.

A family is a complex living and breathing system. Each member plays a role in the family dynamic. When families carry generational trauma and/or experience new trauma, challenges, or dysfunction, this can result in a break in the family system.

These reaction strategies are habitual and very often interwoven into every aspect of how our family interacts.

Hi! I´m Lawrence Joss and I’ve learned that I need to cultivate a spiritual, emotional, and physical relationship with myself in order to have healthy relationships with others and everything in my life. It is my mission to help you create and nurture that relationship with yourself first and provide you with tools that might help you heal and strengthen family relationships.

This podcast is an opportunity to explore our healing journey together through the complexities of our families.

Welcome to the FAMILY DISAPPEARED podcast.

For more information, visit my website: www.familydissappeared.com

This podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team:
Anna Johnson- Editor/Contributor/Activist/Co-host
Glaze Gonzales- Podcast Manager

Connect with Lawrence Joss:
Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/
Email- familydisappeared@gmail.com

Have you ever experienced the feeling of dysregulation – and lashed out at a child or loved one because you were in a highly emotive state?

Dr. Mandy Cisler is a somatic therapist, coach, and founder of the ‘Healing Framework’. She is an expert on a mind/body integration approach that supports you in regulating your nervous system. In this episode of “Family Disappeared”, she will share the tools of the somatic approach so that you can learn to check in with your body before reacting to a trying situation.

Through learning about the invaluable work of Dr. Cisler, you will be able to identify behavioral patterns from your family of origin. This, in turn, will allow you to discover how you can learn to listen to your body before speaking and reacting. This will allow you to model and teach a new way of being to your children.

Please come along and learn how to start the journey of healing yourself to heal your life.

In This Episode:

• Learning to make better decisions with a somatic approach.
• Check-in with your body to identify how you are feeling.
• What effect will it have on a child if you show up in a highly emotional state?
• Understanding how we 'arrive' with some form of dysregulation.
• What are the key markers when looking for emotional dysregulation in a child?
• When is it okay to reinforce a boundary with a child?
• Dr. Mandy showcases a simple breathing exercise.
• Understanding the concept of ‘mirroring’ as it relates to dysregulation.

And more…

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Resources
PLEASE SUBMIT YOUR ART WORK TO THE FAMILY HOPE PROJECT:
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• Free training sign-up: https://pa-a.mykajabi.com/drmandyfreetraining
• Dr. Mandy Instagram: @thehealingframework
• G.R.A.C.E Training - https://www.upaya.org/program/g-r-a-c-e-training-in-cultivating-compassion-based-interactions-online-2022/?id=2451
• Byron Katie’s ‘The Work’ - The Work of Byron Katie
• NVC feelings and needs list
• PDFs and printouts for NVC
• links for meditation

This podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team:
Anna Johnson- Editor/Contributor/Activist/Co-host
Glaze Gonzales- Podcast Manager

Connect with Lawrence Joss:
Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/
Email- familydisappeared@gmail.com

As an alienated father, I've walked the rocky path of connecting with my daughters through the thinnest of threads, and that's where I discovered the healing balm of Nonviolent Communication (NVC). With my guest, Mary Mackenzie, we unravel my journey, and offer you the tools to mend and deepen the bonds within your family, even when the waters of communication seem unnavigable. My story is one of listening, not just to the words of my daughters, but to the emotions and needs that drive us all, and it's a story I'm eager to share with you.

Through the lens of empathy and patience, especially in the turbulent teen years, we examine how to manage our own emotional tempests, and extend a bridge of understanding. I'll recount the surprising advantages of 'making wrong guesses' when attempting to empathize, a tactic that invites clarity and connection rather than distance. It's not just about weathering the storm, but learning the dance steps to move in harmony with the resistance of a blossoming young adult, respecting their pace and space.

In our heart-to-heart discussion, we pivot to the ripple effects of NVC in all facets of life, highlighting it's role in personal stress relief and enhanced communication. Mary and I also explore the channels of support such as the NVC Academy and community groups that offer solace to parents feeling the ache of estrangement. Glean wisdom from our open conversation, and consider this your invitation to practice NVC for more authentic, compassionate interactions that extend far beyond the family tree.

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If you wish to connect with Lawrence Joss or any of the PA-A community members who have appeared as guests on the podcast:

Email- familydisappeared@gmail.com

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Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/


PLEASE SUBMIT YOUR ARTWORK TO THE FAMILY HOPE PROJECT:
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“Family Disappeared” podcast survey:
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Mary Mackenzie : www.marymackenzie.net
NVC : www.nvcacademy.com
"Taste of Compassionate Leadership" - nvcacademy.com/media/_live-nvc-courses/TOCL/index.html
"Non Violent Communication: A Language of Life" Marshall Rosenberg
Feelings and Needs sheets and local NVC trainers: cnvc.org
International Intensive Training: cnvc.org/learn/iit

This podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team:
Anna Johnson- Editor/Contributor/Activist/Co-host
Glaze Gonzales- Podcast Manager

Connect with Lawrence Joss:
Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/
Email- familydisappeared@gmail.com