George Goulburn has spent the last three years helping women feel seen, desired, and celebrated. Today, he's sharing what male companionship really looks like—and what every man can learn from it.

This week on Come Talk with Aimee, I'm sitting down with George Goulburn, a male companion, escort, and intimacy coach based in Australia. After a 25-year corporate career, George made the leap into this work and he's never looked back. We get into the rise of women seeking male companions, the difference between a companion and an escort, and why so many women feel invisible after 50. Plus, George shares his go-to tips: creating safety, the three-minute game, and the five types of touch that will change the way you experience pleasure.

We talk about:

• Why more women are seeking male companionship

• The story of a 55-year-old virgin and the profound experience they shared

• What George has learned about humanity through this work

• What men can learn from the male companion lens

• The importance of taking orgasm off the table

  
  

If you've ever wondered what male companionship is really like, wanted to feel more seen and desired, or wanted to bring more presence, play, and pleasure into your life, this episode is your invitation to start listening.

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https://www.instagram.com/georgegoulburnofficial/

https://www.georgegoulburn.com

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Jeff Abraham has spent over a decade helping people have better sex through education and innovation. Today, he's sharing the truth about premature ejaculation and why lasting longer is about so much more than ego.

This week on Come Talk with Aimee, I'm sitting down with Jeff Abraham, CEO of Promescent, a sexual wellness brand focused on premature ejaculation and better intimacy. We get into the science behind PE, why the clinical definition is too narrow, and the truth about SSRIs, lidocaine, and what actually works. Plus, Jeff shares why communication is the ultimate sex skill, why every man should watch his partner masturbate, and the one thing he wishes everyone knew about lasting longer.

We talk about:

• ​The truth about Promescent
• ​The physiological reasons for premature ejaculation
• ​The vibrator stigma and why it's an addition, not a replacement
• ​The importance of relaxing before intimacy
• ​The many benefits of intimacy-enhancing supplements

If you've ever wondered about premature ejaculation, wanted to last longer, or wanted to improve your intimacy and communication, this episode is your invitation to start listening.

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https://www.instagram.com/promescent/

https://www.facebook.com/Promescent/

https://www.linkedin.com/in/technicalresources/ https://www.promescent.com/aimee15

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Jill Lissner has built a platform teaching millions about sex education, one viral video at a time. Today, she's sharing how social media is changing the game and what's at stake.

This week on Come Talk with Aimee, I'm sitting down with Jill Lissner, a sex educator, PhD student in human sexuality, and the content creator behind Sex Ed Princess. Jill is on a mission to make accurate, shame-free sex education accessible to everyone - not just the people who can afford it or live in the right zip code.

We get into the science behind social media and sexual health, why censorship is getting quieter (and more confusing), and how to become a researcher of your own body. Plus, we talk about the attack on sex education funding and why we all need to pay attention.

We talk about:

• Why rural and urban communities want the same things (and why polarization is a lie)

• Why you should never use AI to search for abortion information

• The intersection of social media, sex education, and censorship

• The data behind what people are saving and sharing online (hint: edging and communication)

• Why social media is a lifeline for queer, trans, and vulnerable populations

• How to consume sex education content critically and intentionally

• Why media literacy and sex education should work together

  
  

If you've ever wondered how to find accurate sex education online, felt frustrated by censorship, or wanted permission to explore your own body, this episode is your invitation to start researching.

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www.instagram.com/sexedprincesss/

https://jill-lissner.com

https://www.linkedin.com/in/jlissner01/

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Sir Marvelous has been a requested guest since his first appearance, and he's back to take us deeper. Today, he's sharing what really happens in a dungeon and how to bring its wisdom into your bedroom.

This week on Come Talk with Aimee, I'm sitting down with Sir Marvelous, professional dom, educator, and season one favorite, for a conversation that picks up where the foreplay left off. We get into the truth about dungeons, why BDSM and sex are not synonymous, and how impact play is really about rhythm and blood flow—not pain. Plus, Sir Marvelous breaks down the orgasm gap and explains why you shouldn't rush to the nut.

We talk about:

• Why most dungeons don’t allow sex at all

• The magic of turning everyday objects into kink tools

• The art of negotiation: hard limits, soft limits, and everything in between

• How to know if you're with a trusted partner

• Why sex doesn't end when the man comes

• Why scheduling sex and setting intentions makes it better

  
  

Connect with Sir Marvelous:

https://www.instagram.com/sirmarvelouskinks/

https://www.sirmarvelous.com

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Erica Smith has helped countless people heal from purity culture and rebuild their relationship with sex. Today, she's sharing how to drop the shame and finally enjoy and own your pleasure.

This week on Come Talk with Aimee, I'm sitting down with Erica Smith, a sex educator, consultant, and the purity culture expert when it comes to all things sex. Erica is the author of "The Purity Culture Recovery Guide: The Shame-Free Sex Education You Deserve," and she's on a mission to give people the accurate, shame-free sex education they were kept from.

We get into the science behind purity culture, why it injects fear into the most natural human experiences, and how to rebuild your relationship with desire, pleasure, and play. Plus, we talk about porn literacy, the truth about “porn addiction," and why it's never too late to explore your sexuality.

We also talk about:

• What purity culture actually is and how it controls people through shame

• The difference between intellectual deconstruction and nervous system healing

• Why your body still carries shame even after you've left the beliefs

• How to bring play and laughter back into the bedroom

• How to explore fantasy without judgment

• Why erotica and romance novels can help you discover what turns you on

  
  

If you've ever felt broken by purity culture, wondered if you'll ever feel normal about sex, or wanted to reclaim your pleasure and play, this episode is your invitation to start healing.

Connect with Erica Smith:

https://www.instagram.com/ericasmith.educates/

https://purityculturedropout.com

https://www.ericasmitheac.com/read-my-book

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Shadeen Francis helps people get clear on what they actually want. In this episode, she shares how to reconnect with your desire, why play matters to our nervous system and capacity for pleasure, and what might be getting in the way of knowing what you want.

Shadeen Francis is a licensed psychotherapist, certified sex therapist, and cultural strategist who helps people understand their desires, deepen their relationships, and create more space for peace and pleasure. She’s also the president of AASECT (American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists), and she brings a deeply embodied approach to the question at the heart of this episode: What do you actually want?

This week on Come Talk with Aimee, we’re getting into the science and psychology of desire, why “I don’t know what I want” may be more complicated than it sounds, and how play can help expand our capacity for pleasure. Shadeen also walks us through her Desire Style Quiz, a tool for exploring the different ways we experience and express desire.

We talk about:

• What it means to say “desire is embodied wanting”

• Why your relationship to desire affects every connection you have

• Shadeen’s Desire Style Quiz and what it can reveal about how we experience desire in the current moment

• The story arc of desire: who, what, where, when, why, and how

• How AI is impacting our relational skills, connection, and desire

• Why it can be especially difficult for moms and people of color to name their own desires

• How play connects to our nervous system and our capacity for pleasure

• The role of vulnerability in experiencing desire

• Why orgasm is all about surrendering

If you've ever felt disconnected from your desires, wondered why "fun" feels so hard, or wanted to bring more play into your life and your pleasure, this episode is your invitation to start exploring.

Take Shadeen’s Desire Style Quiz: https://shadeenfrancis.com/quiz

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https://shadeenfrancis.com

https://www.linkedin.com/in/shadeenfrancis/

https://www.instagram.com/shadeenfrancis

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April Davis of Haus of Vagina has spent years teaching people about vulva anatomy and body literacy. Today, she's here to tell you why your vagina is normal.

This week on Come Talk with Aimee, I'm sitting down with April Davis, a sex and menstrual cycle educator, founder of Haus of Vagina, and host of the Haus of Vagina Podcast. We get into what body literacy means and how the lack of it leads people to labiaplasty, vaginal bleaching, and a lifetime of shame about bodies that were never abnormal to begin with. We also dive into period sex, tampons, free bleeding, and why prioritizing pleasure is just as worthy as every diet you've ever tried.

We also dive into:

• The difference between the vulva and the vagina

• Vulva myths about smell, tightness, and appearance

• Tampons vs. cups vs. discs vs. free bleeding

• Why prioritizing pleasure is a worthy pursuit

• How to talk to your kids about anatomy and protect them from grooming

• Why you should never fake an orgasm again

  
  

If you've ever worried about how your vulva looks, smells, or functions, this episode is your permission slip to let that go and learn what you were never taught.

Connect with April Davis

http://www.instagram.com/hausofvagina

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Let's settle this once and for all: does size actually matter? Find out in this episode!

Welcome back to Come Talk with Aimee. This season, we're bringing you a Q&A series for our quickies, and for the first one, I went straight to Instagram to find out what you wanted to talk about. The top question? Does size matter?

I'm taking that question to Reddit, to the research, and into the exam room for a vital sign check. We're looking at the anatomy of both penises and vaginas, what the science actually says about length versus girth, and the 4 techniques that over 3,000 women that identified they use to make penetration more pleasurable!

I also talk about:

• The pleasurable techniques: angling, rocking, shallowing, and pairing

• Why the 2022 literature review found limited and inconsistent evidence on size

• The public health issue hiding underneath the size question

• Why technique, arousal, communication, and anatomy matter more than size

• The better question to ask: what are you doing with what you've got?

  
  

If you've ever wondered whether size really matters, or if you've been anxious about it, this episode is your vital sign check. Let's break down the myths and get to the truth.

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