What if the end of your marriage is actually the beginning of your best sex life?

In this episode, I sit down with Amber Joy Simon, founder of QUIVR, for a real, funny, and deeply validating conversation about sex after divorce and what it actually means to choose pleasure over pressure. We talk about how so many women leave long-term relationships disconnected from their bodies, stuck in routine, and performing instead of actually experiencing pleasure. Amber shares her own journey from being in a formulaic sex life to rediscovering desire, safety, and curiosity, and why divorce can be the moment where everything finally opens up.

We also talk about:

• why your pleasure is your responsibility, not your partner’s

• moving out of “pick me” energy and into self-worth and boundaries

• how to rebuild confidence and feel safe receiving pleasure again

• the difference between performing in bed and actually experiencing pleasure

• why nervous system safety is required for real intimacy and connection

• how to listen to your body and trust what it is telling you

If you are navigating life after divorce, feeling unsure about intimacy again, or ready to experience sex in a completely different way, this episode is your reminder that this is not the end, it is a reset. You get to rewrite the script, choose yourself, and build a sex life that actually feels good in your body.

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What if the most important shift in your life is not the big, dramatic moment but the decision to start choosing yourself?

In this episode, I sit down with certified holistic sexuality educator and embodied intimacy coach Lauren Elise Rogers for a deeply honest, slightly unhinged in the best way, and incredibly validating conversation about the invisible season of becoming and what it really means to own your pleasure. We talk about what it looks like to slowly wake up inside a life that no longer fits, the conditioning that teaches women to abandon their desires, and the moment you realise that your pleasure is not someone else’s responsibility, it is yours.

Lauren shares her journey through a misaligned marriage, religious conditioning, and deep disconnection from her body, and how small, almost invisible choices helped her rebuild her sense of self, desire, and agency.

We talk about:

• the invisible season and why nothing feels like it is happening when everything is shifting

• how purity culture and societal scripts disconnect you from your desires

• losing yourself in roles and learning how to come back to who you are

• moving out of the martyr mindset and into self-led desire

• grief, loss, and rebuilding your life after everything falls apart

• learning how to choose yourself without guilt

• why becoming “selfish” might actually be the most aligned thing you do

If you are in a season where things feel unclear, slow, or quietly uncomfortable, this episode is your reminder that becoming does not always look dramatic. Sometimes it looks like choosing yourself in small ways, over and over again, and learning that your pleasure, your desires, and your life are yours to own.

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Opening your relationship is not a shortcut to better sex or fewer problems. If anything, it will expose every single communication issue you have been avoiding.

In this episode, I sit down with licensed clinical social worker and certified sex therapist Dr. Lee Phillips for a real, funny, and refreshingly honest conversation about ethical non-monogamy. We break down what ENM actually is, why it is not just about having more options, and how it requires way more communication, clarity, and emotional awareness than people expect. Dr. Lee shares his own experience navigating an open marriage, the realities of jealousy, and why most people get into trouble when they try to open a relationship from a place of disconnection instead of stability. We also get into dating apps, emotional availability, boundaries, and the difference between fear and caution when navigating new connections.

We talk about:

• what ethical non-monogamy actually means and the different forms it can take

• why opening a relationship will not fix communication problems, it will amplify them

• the importance of having a strong foundation before exploring ENM

• emotional bandwidth, time, and attention as boundaries people forget to set

• how different partners can have completely different approaches to non-monogamy

• why communication needs to be proactive, not reactive

• dating apps, red flags, and what emotional availability actually looks like

• fear versus caution when navigating vulnerability and new connections

If you have ever been curious about ethical non-monogamy, already exploring it, or questioning whether it could work for you, this episode will give you a much more honest picture of what it actually requires. It is not about more people, it is about more honesty, more communication, and a whole lot more self-awareness.

Connect with Dr. Lee Phillips

https://www.drleephillips.com/

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