We often think of listening as something we do naturally. Someone speaks, we hear their words, and we respond. But how often are we already forming an answer before the other person has finished speaking?

In my work with leaders, I've noticed how easily our greatest strengths can become habits we don't question. For those of us who are skilled at solving problems, the temptation is to hear everything as something that needs fixing. And sometimes, that means missing what matters most.

A conversation with a finance executive brought this into focus. One word he used to describe his company's ambitions opened up a much deeper discussion about opportunity, identity, and the choices that shape an organization's future.

I've come to believe that listening asks more of us than simply paying attention. It asks us to notice which part of ourselves is present, what assumptions we're bringing into the room, and whether we're allowing enough space for curiosity.

In this episode, I explore what becomes possible when we listen with more of ourselves, and why knowing who's doing the listening can change the conversations we have as leaders.

✅ Why our instinct to solve problems can interfere with genuine listening.

✅ How different parts of ourselves influence what we hear and how we respond.

✅ What a single word can reveal about a company's ambitions and values.

✅ The role of curiosity, self-awareness, and full-body listening in leadership.

✅ How leaders can recognize opportunities without losing sight of who they are.

🔑 Listening begins with recognizing the assumptions and habits we bring into a conversation.

🔑 Being good at solving problems doesn't always mean we're listening to the right problem.

🔑 Curiosity creates space for understanding before we rush toward an answer.

🔑 The way leaders listen influences how comfortable others feel sharing uncertainty.

🔑 Greater self-awareness helps us make decisions that reflect our values rather than simply chasing opportunity.

If this episode resonates with you, I invite you to subscribe and share it with someone who might find value in the conversation. And perhaps take a moment to ask yourself: Who is doing the listening when you're in a room where it matters?

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Steven Morris, CEO of Matter Consulting is an ever-curious life-seeker, brand and culture building expert, advisor, author, and speaker.

With over 27 years of entrepreneurial experience, he has served as a trusted advisor to over 3,000 business leaders and evolved more than 250 brands and cultures, including Google, Habitat for Humanity, Samsung, and Disney.

His best-selling book, "The Beautiful Business," and his widely read Insights blog are a testament to his consulting expertise in creating unignorable, magnetic, and sustainable companies.

His diverse interests, including meditation, fine art painting, surfing, and beekeeping, infuse his work with creativity, soul, and a deep understanding of the human experience.

You can find more podcasts and join 30,000+ other brilliant and soulful readers of his weekly INSIGHTS blog at MatterCo.

Ambition moves us forward. It encourages us to grow, achieve, and pursue new opportunities. But what happens when we reach the goal we've been chasing and discover that the satisfaction doesn't last?

Behind our professional aspirations often lie deeper desires for security, recognition, belonging, and purpose. Understanding these motivations invites us to examine what we're truly seeking through our achievements.

Ambition and calling serve different purposes. Ambition gives us the energy to act, while calling provides the direction that makes our efforts meaningful. When the two work together, achievement becomes more than a measure of external success.

For leaders, this inquiry extends beyond personal growth. The motivations we bring into leadership shape our presence, our relationships, and the conditions we create for others to flourish.

Join me as I explore:

• ✅ The deeper desires behind our professional ambitions
• ✅ How compensation, recognition, and approval influence what we pursue
• ✅ The difference between ambition driven by unmet needs and ambition guided by calling
• ✅ Why achievement alone rarely satisfies our deeper longing for belonging
• ✅ How self-awareness helps leaders create environments where others can flourish

Key Takeaways:

• Ambition gives us energy, while calling gives us direction.
• External achievement cannot always satisfy internal needs for belonging and approval.
• Understanding the want behind the want helps us distinguish meaningful growth from endless striving.
• A calling is better understood as a direction to follow than a fixed destination to reach.
• The quality of a leader's self-awareness and presence shapes the experience of those they lead.

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#Leadership #Ambition #SelfAwareness #PersonalGrowth #Purpose

Steven Morris, CEO of Matter Consulting is an ever-curious life-seeker, brand and culture building expert, advisor, author, and speaker.

With over 27 years of entrepreneurial experience, he has served as a trusted advisor to over 3,000 business leaders and evolved more than 250 brands and cultures, including Google, Habitat for Humanity, Samsung, and Disney.

His best-selling book, "The Beautiful Business," and his widely read Insights blog are a testament to his consulting expertise in creating unignorable, magnetic, and sustainable companies.

His diverse interests, including meditation, fine art painting, surfing, and beekeeping, infuse his work with creativity, soul, and a deep understanding of the human experience.

You can find more podcasts and join 30,000+ other brilliant and soulful readers of his weekly INSIGHTS blog at MatterCo.

Experience teaches us to recognize patterns, anticipate problems, and offer answers. But somewhere along the way, knowing can become a barrier to discovering something new.

After decades of working with leaders, I found myself drawn back to questions about human behavior, imagination, and the lifelong process of becoming. Those questions eventually led me to pursue another master's degree, this time in depth psychology.

The experience reminded me that curiosity is more than gathering information. It's the willingness to question our assumptions, listen with genuine attention, and allow what we learn to change us.

In this episode, I explore why curiosity matters as much to experienced leaders as it does to beginners, and why becoming who we are remains unfinished work.

Join me as I explore:

✅ How expertise can quietly discourage curiosity.

✅ Why curiosity is an essential leadership meta-skill.

✅ The difference between finding answers and asking deeper questions.

✅ How curiosity becomes a form of care.

✅ The value of becoming a beginner again.

Key Takeaways:

• Expertise can narrow our perspective when we stop questioning what we know.
• Curiosity shapes how we learn, lead, and understand others.
• Meaningful questions don't always require immediate answers.
• Genuine listening creates opportunities for connection and growth.
• Becoming is a lifelong process, regardless of our experience.

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#Leadership #Curiosity #LifelongLearning #PersonalGrowth #DepthPsychology

Steven Morris, CEO of Matter Consulting is an ever-curious life-seeker, brand and culture building expert, advisor, author, and speaker.

With over 27 years of entrepreneurial experience, he has served as a trusted advisor to over 3,000 business leaders and evolved more than 250 brands and cultures, including Google, Habitat for Humanity, Samsung, and Disney.

His best-selling book, "The Beautiful Business," and his widely read Insights blog are a testament to his consulting expertise in creating unignorable, magnetic, and sustainable companies.

His diverse interests, including meditation, fine art painting, surfing, and beekeeping, infuse his work with creativity, soul, and a deep understanding of the human experience.

You can find more podcasts and join 30,000+ other brilliant and soulful readers of his weekly INSIGHTS blog at MatterCo.