We often think of listening as something we do naturally. Someone speaks, we hear their words, and we respond. But how often are we already forming an answer before the other person has finished speaking?

In my work with leaders, I've noticed how easily our greatest strengths can become habits we don't question. For those of us who are skilled at solving problems, the temptation is to hear everything as something that needs fixing. And sometimes, that means missing what matters most.

A conversation with a finance executive brought this into focus. One word he used to describe his company's ambitions opened up a much deeper discussion about opportunity, identity, and the choices that shape an organization's future.

I've come to believe that listening asks more of us than simply paying attention. It asks us to notice which part of ourselves is present, what assumptions we're bringing into the room, and whether we're allowing enough space for curiosity.

In this episode, I explore what becomes possible when we listen with more of ourselves, and why knowing who's doing the listening can change the conversations we have as leaders.

✅ Why our instinct to solve problems can interfere with genuine listening.

✅ How different parts of ourselves influence what we hear and how we respond.

✅ What a single word can reveal about a company's ambitions and values.

✅ The role of curiosity, self-awareness, and full-body listening in leadership.

✅ How leaders can recognize opportunities without losing sight of who they are.

🔑 Listening begins with recognizing the assumptions and habits we bring into a conversation.

🔑 Being good at solving problems doesn't always mean we're listening to the right problem.

🔑 Curiosity creates space for understanding before we rush toward an answer.

🔑 The way leaders listen influences how comfortable others feel sharing uncertainty.

🔑 Greater self-awareness helps us make decisions that reflect our values rather than simply chasing opportunity.

If this episode resonates with you, I invite you to subscribe and share it with someone who might find value in the conversation. And perhaps take a moment to ask yourself: Who is doing the listening when you're in a room where it matters?

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Steven Morris, CEO of Matter Consulting is an ever-curious life-seeker, brand and culture building expert, advisor, author, and speaker.

With over 27 years of entrepreneurial experience, he has served as a trusted advisor to over 3,000 business leaders and evolved more than 250 brands and cultures, including Google, Habitat for Humanity, Samsung, and Disney.

His best-selling book, "The Beautiful Business," and his widely read Insights blog are a testament to his consulting expertise in creating unignorable, magnetic, and sustainable companies.

His diverse interests, including meditation, fine art painting, surfing, and beekeeping, infuse his work with creativity, soul, and a deep understanding of the human experience.

You can find more podcasts and join 30,000+ other brilliant and soulful readers of his weekly INSIGHTS blog at MatterCo.