Loren Lomme, LPC, RPT, child and teen therapist discusses recognizing emotional challenges in kids, distinguishing defiance and dysregulation, co-regulation with kids, using reflection with kids, managing chaotic mornings and meltdowns, advocating for neurodivergent children, supporting emotional wellness after school, and building connection with teachers. The takeaways include recognizing emotional challenges and co-regulation with kids.

Takeaways

• Recognizing emotional challenges
• Co-regulation with kids

Chapters

• 00:00 Recognizing Emotional Challenges
• 01:38 Distinguishing Defiance and Dysregulation
• 02:26 Co-Regulation with Kids
• 04:16 Using Reflection with Kids
• 05:14 Managing Chaotic Mornings and Meltdowns
• 06:24 Advocating for Neurodivergent Children
• 08:05 Supporting Emotional Wellness After School
• 10:00 Building Connection with Teachers

The conversation delves into the importance of shared language and understanding in navigating ADHD in relationships, the impact of ADHD traits on relationship dynamics, coping mechanisms, effective communication, systems and strategies for relationship success, perspective taking, mutual effort, advice to past and future self, and the most misunderstood aspects of neurodiverse partnerships.

Takeaways

• Shared language is crucial
• Understanding and curiosity are key to navigating ADHD in relationships

Chapters

• 00:00 Shared Language and Understanding
• 03:02 ADHD Traits and Relationship Dynamics
• 07:47 Coping Mechanisms and Communication
• 11:08 Systems and Strategies for Relationship Success
• 13:29 Perspective Taking and Mutual Effort
• 17:01 Advice to Past and Future Self
• 18:33 Misunderstood Aspects of Neurodiverse Partnerships

Special thanks to Alyssa Vanlopik, LCSW at Just Mind Counseling.

The conversation explores ADHD as an optimization problem and the challenges of task prioritization. It delves into practical applications of optimization, the importance of flexibility and self-care, and the significance of task prioritization and impact assessment.

Takeaways

• ADHD as an optimization problem
• Task prioritization challenges

Chapters

• 00:00 ADHD as an Optimization Problem
• 00:58 Practical Application of Optimization
• 02:09 Flexibility and Self-Care
• 03:10 Task Prioritization and Impact Assessment

The conversation explores the topic of over-functioning in relationships, discussing the reasons why over-functioning can make the problem worse, the challenges faced by over-functioners, and the process of stopping over-functioning. It also delves into the feelings associated with stopping over-functioning and the impact on the relationship dynamics.

Takeaways

• Over-functioners tend to perpetuate the cycle of over-functioning by doing everything silently and not vocalizing their needs.
• Stopping over-functioning requires open communication, recognizing the need for help, and practicing the 'good enough' in the way that your partner does things.

Chapters

• 00:00 The Cycle of Over-Functioning
• 02:05 Challenges Faced by Over-Functioners
• 02:54 Stopping Over-Functioning
• 04:58 Feelings Associated with Stopping Over-Functioning
  
  A special thank you to our guest, Andrea Oberhauser, LPC Associate at Just Mind Counseling

The conversation delves into the emotional barriers of coming out later in life, the impact of being closeted on adulthood, and strategies for coming out at work. It explores the nuances of identity, trauma, and the therapeutic support needed for navigating these experiences. Additionally, it addresses the challenges of maintaining professional authority and coping with rejection and workplace bias.

Takeaways

• Emotional barriers in coming out later in life
• Impact of being closeted on adulthood
• Strategies for coming out at work

Chapters

• 00:00 Emotional Barriers in Coming Out Later in Life
• 01:11 Navigating Identity and Trauma
• 02:38 Therapeutic Support and Witnessing
• 03:33 Established Life and Dysregulation
• 04:04 The Ideal of Not Having to Come Out
• 05:00 Navigating Authenticity and Self-Discovery
• 07:02 Internal Signs of Readiness to Come Out
• 23:14 Impact of Being Closeted on Adulthood
• 20:33 Maintaining Professional Authority and Leadership Presence
• 26:07 Coping with Rejection and Workplace Bias
  
  A special thank you to our guest, Adam Maurer, LPC from Moontower Counseling

Eric Robertson, a therapist and former divorce attorney, shares insights on the warning signs of troubled marriages and the importance of intentional maintenance. He emphasizes the need for emotional connection, communication, and understanding in relationships.

Takeaways

• Emotional disconnection and lack of communication are warning signs of troubled marriages.
• Regular intentional maintenance is crucial for a healthy marriage.

A special thank you to our guest, Eric Robertson, JD, LPC Associate, LCDC-I at Just Mind Counseling

The conversation covers the necessity of psychological testing for children and adults, the impact of formal diagnosis, the value of feedback sessions, and the importance of a neuro-affirming approach to psychological testing.

Takeaways

• Psychological testing for children often focuses on school-related challenges and behavior.
• Adults seek testing for neurodivergent conditions due to changes in diagnostic criteria and self-identification.
• A formal diagnosis from psychological testing provides validation and relief for individuals.
• Feedback sessions following psychological testing provide valuable recommendations and accommodations for individuals.
• High-quality psychological testing takes a neuro-affirming view, emphasizing strengths and positives in the individual.

Chapters

• 00:00 Psychological Testing for Children
• 02:24 Testing for Adults
• 05:35 Impact of Formal Diagnosis
• 09:05 Feedback Sessions and Recommendations
• 17:05 Neuro-Affirming Psychological Testing

A special thank you to our guest, Dr. Scott Allen, Director of Neurodiversity at Just Mind Counseling.

The conversation delves into the multifaceted aspects of sexting, exploring its psychological, emotional, and relational implications. It also addresses the importance of setting boundaries, navigating comfort levels, and the potential risks associated with sexting. Additionally, the discussion highlights the various forms and mediums of sexting and the potential for recovery and repair of trust in the event of a breach or misunderstanding.

Takeaways

• Sexting allows for the exploration of sexuality in a safe and imaginative way.
• Clear boundaries, communication, and collaboration are essential for healthy and respectful sexting practices.

Chapters

• 00:00 Exploring the Depth of Sexuality
• 03:08 Healthy Sexting and Setting Boundaries
• 05:20 Psychological and Emotional Benefits
• 06:23 Risks and Clear Boundaries
• 08:59 Navigating Comfort Levels
• 15:06 Different Forms and Mediums of Sexting
• 19:02 Recovery and Repair of Trust
  
  A special thank you to our guest, Adam Maurer, LPC from Moontower Counseling