Whether it’s food, beauty products, or the state of our home, describing something as ‘clean’ also implies there is ‘dirty’, an idea that carries a lot of guilt and shame. In this week’s episode, Brooke and Ben dig into a new duality by looking at food, home, green-cleaning and more.

Ben talks about the brosphere — specifically the rise of ‘clean eating’ and its impact on boys and young men — and Brooke talks about her conflicted feelings on individual responsibility versus industry accountability. Ben also shares his honest take on Brooke’s hardcore green-cleaning and no-shampoo hippie eras, the tidiness of their house as a barometer of mental well-being, and why the internet will never agree on how often to clean the walls.

They also talk about:

• dropping their standards
• why kids can be a balancing influence on all-or-nothing thinking
• using righteous anger to fuel our enoughness
• making small changes in the face of systemic problems
• quality versus quantity and how a bit of fussiness isn’t a bad thing
• the painful gap between the why and how of things
• knowing when a fight is worthwhile and when it’s not
• the importance of language around food and health and why men and women experience it differently
• what it means to be ‘houseproud’
• QUIZ: how often do you need to clean a ____?

Thanks for listening!

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• Theme music is Edgar Allan Poe by Modern Aquatic

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