You are in a relationship you cannot escape. You wake up with her. You go to bed with her. You live inside her thoughts every single day. And the quality of that relationship quietly shapes how you relate to God, to others, and to yourself. If your inner relationship is harsh, critical, or distrustful, it will leak into every other relationship you have. This episode is about changing that from the inside out.

February is all about relationships, and we are starting at the foundation. In this episode, we talk about your relationship with yourself. Not self obsession. Stewardship. How your thoughts create your emotional climate. How identity drives behavior. And why you cannot shame yourself into becoming the woman God created you to be. You will learn how to recognize unhelpful self talk, how to filter your thoughts through truth and love, and how to intentionally decide the kind of relationship you want with yourself.

• Your relationship with yourself is formed by your thoughts, not your circumstances

• How you treat yourself reflects who you believe you are and what you believe you deserve

• You cannot hate yourself into transformation

• Shame is not a motivator, it is a blocker

• Thoughts are the most powerful determiner of every relationship in your life

• Truth without love leads to harshness, love without truth leads to drift

• You get to decide the tone of your inner relationship and practice it daily

You are not broken. You are not a problem to be fixed. You are a daughter of the King learning how to lead herself with truth, grace, and responsibility. This work takes practice, humility, and intention, and it is worth it.

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