In this episode of The Legacy Edit, we address a conversation that refuses to stay quiet.

The idea that trauma has to meet some invisible threshold to count.
That survival only “qualifies” if it looks extreme enough from the outside.

We’re unpacking why that belief is not only inaccurate—but harmful.

Drawing from psychology, neuroscience, and trauma research, this episode explains a grounded truth: trauma is not defined by the event itself, but by how the nervous system experienced threat in that moment. It is shaped by age, context, power, perceived safety, and access to support—not by comparison.

You’ll hear why two people can live through the same experience and carry it differently. Why children, siblings, and even adults in the same household do not store stress the same way. And why acknowledging trauma is not about claiming victimhood—it’s about understanding how your body learned to survive, so you can choose how to live now.

This episode is for anyone who has ever questioned whether what they went through was “bad enough.”
For anyone whose life looked fine on paper, but whose body stayed braced anyway.
For anyone ready to stop arguing with their own nervous system—and start listening to it.

No ranking.
No gatekeeping.
Just clarity, science, and responsibility.

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