On this episode of the You Can Mentor podcast, Zach Garza sits down with Aaron Parrott of Mentor Kids USA to explore how relationships rooted in faith can transform kids and communities. Aaron shares how his experiences growing up as a missionary kid shaped his leadership and mentoring philosophy, along with lessons learned from building sustainable, Christ-centered mentoring programs. Together, they discuss leadership development, measuring impact, and staying humble and faithful while serving kids from hard places in the name of Jesus.

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In this episode of the You Can Mentor podcast, Zach sits down with Matt McGill—a veteran ministry leader with 30+ years of experience serving in roles like youth pastor, teaching pastor, and executive pastor. Matt is also a husband, a dad to five boys, and a volunteer youth football coach, and he brings a ton of real-life perspective on what it looks like to build trust with kids and help them mature in faith and life.

Matt shares a practical framework for mentoring that goes beyond simply “hanging out.” He explains that strong mentoring has three key pieces: relational (life-on-life connection and authenticity), informational (sharing wisdom, guidance, and truth), and preparational (helping a young person build independence instead of becoming dependent on the mentor).

From there, Zach and Matt unpack four tensions every mentor has to learn to navigate: friend vs. leader, destination vs. journey, asking vs. answering, and directing vs. discovering. They talk about why mentoring isn’t a clean “A + B = C” formula—relationships are dynamic, and mentors have to learn discernment in the moment.

You’ll also hear helpful encouragement for mentors who feel stuck or discouraged—how to celebrate small wins, stay patient when progress feels slow, and remember you can’t fix or control a mentee (only God can change hearts). Matt offers practical insight on earning the right to be heard, learning to ask better questions (and getting comfortable with silence), and staying Spirit-led before and during meetups. Whether you’re new to mentoring or you lead volunteers, this conversation will equip you with clarity, perspective, and actionable tools to show up well... because you can mentor.

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On today’s episode of You Can Mentor, we’re joined by special guest Bobby Lopez from Passion SoCal, who shares his heart for mentoring youth in Los Angeles communities impacted by drugs, gangs, and homelessness. Bobby reflects on moments from his own life and how God used mentors to shape his journey. This encouraging conversation reminds mentors that even small acts of presence and love can spark light and hope through Jesus in the lives of the kids they serve. Please make sure to follow @bobbylopez.jr on his socials!

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