Calling off an engagement is not a plot twist, it is a clarity test. We sit down and talk honestly about what happens when you have built a full life, a growing business, and the kind of independence that once felt like safety, then realize it has also kept you from the closeness you actually want. I share why I stepped back from being public, how that distance created a disconnect between me as a human and me as a businesswoman, and why coming back to conversation feels like coming home.

From there, we get real about attachment styles, especially avoidant attachment, and how two people can care about each other yet still be completely misaligned on intimacy, time, and emotional presence. I walk through the mindset shift that came from deep self-exploration, including ayahuasca as a catalyst, and the longer path of building self-compassion. The biggest change is learning I deserve unconditional love without needing to earn it through looks, success, or what I can provide.

Then we take it into modern dating: the moment I stopped dating for validation, the “filet mignon at Taco Bell” mistake of asking the wrong source for the right thing, and how I am testing alignment now by letting men lead and seeing who shows up with care. We talk feminine energy, masculine energy, being sapiosexual, and real-world tools like The League, Hinge, Bumble, and even matchmaking. If you are navigating dating after a breakup, rebuilding confidence, or trying to move toward secure attachment, you will leave with language and permission to raise your bar.

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