What if the words you're speaking over yourself are keeping you from becoming the woman God created you to be? The thoughts we repeat matter. Whether it's "I'm not qualified," "I could never do that," or "It's too late for me," negative self-talk can quietly influence our confidence, decisions, and willingness to take the next step.In this episode of the Flourish Podcast,

Stephanie welcomes sisters Jenny Dunkin and Shelley Haisman, founders of Abundantly Favored, authors, and podcast hosts who are passionate about helping women renew their minds and replace negative thinking with God's truth. Jenny and Shelley share how an unexpected speaking opportunity led them to write their first book, launch a podcast, and build a faith-centered mission together. Their journey is a reminder that God can use the experiences, skills, and even the ordinary seasons of our lives to prepare us for what's ahead.

Together, we explore the power of our words, the importance of recognizing limiting beliefs, and practical ways to flip the script when negative thoughts begin to take over. We also talk about navigating new seasons of life, overcoming comparison, inviting God into business decisions, and discovering that confidence often develops as we take those first faithful steps.

In this episode, you'll discover:

- Why the words you speak over yourself can influence your mindset and actions.

- How to recognize negative self-talk and replace it with thoughts grounded in biblical truth.

- Why comparison and fear of others' opinions can keep you from moving forward.

- Simple strategies for flipping the script and building healthier thought patterns.

- How God can use previous seasons of life to prepare you for new opportunities.

- Why prayer, obedience, and small steps matter when building a faith-led business.

Whether you're navigating a new season, building a business, or simply learning to see yourself through the lens of God's truth, this conversation will encourage you to be more intentional with your thoughts, trust God's guidance, and take your next step with faith.

Remember: You don't have to know how everything will unfold before you begin. Sometimes the next faithful step is where confidence starts to grow.

Chapters

00:00 Welcome & Meet Jenny and Shelley

02:30 Sisters, Marriage & Empty Nest Life

04:17 How Abundantly Favored Began07:57 Writing the Book & Devotional

10:57 God Uses the Motherhood Seasons

14:12 Common Lies Women Believe

19:17 Practical Steps: Flip the Script

24:50 Retraining Your Brain & the RAS

27:43 Faith in Business & Entrepreneurship

32:12 Confidence Comes in the Movement

36:55 Final Messages to Listeners

40:17 Where to Find Abundantly Favored

Connect with Jenny & Shelley | Abundantly Favored

Website: https://abundantlyfavored.com

Facebook: Abundantly Favored

TikTok: @AbundantlyFavored

Books & Devotional:

WAIT, Did I Say That? Faith, Mindset & Why Your Words MatterWAIT, Did I Pray That?* — A 30-Day Devotional

Podcast: Abundantly Favored Podcast Visit their website to explore their books, podcast, speaking opportunities, and upcoming events.

Connect with Stephanie

Stephanie Book is a God-Led Leadership Coach who equips faith-led women entrepreneurs to grow in their identity, master their mindset, and become the woman God envisioned them to be. Through faith-centered teaching, practical strategies, and meaningful conversations, Stephanie encourages women to move beyond what's holding them back and lead their lives and businesses with greater confidence, intention, and faith.

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