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Why You Don't Need to Fake It Till You Make It — Borrow Belief Instead | Ep #55

Why You Don't Need to Fake It Till You Make It — Borrow Belief Instead | Ep #55

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 🎙️ Welcome back to Leadership Beyond the Title Podcast! 📜 Summary If you've ever been told you're powerful, brilliant, poised, or a natural leader — but you don't always feel that way on the inside — this episode is for you. In this grounding solo episode, I'm sharing why so many Women of Color experience a gap between how others see us and what we've been conditioned to believe about ourselves — and why you do NOT need to "fake it till you make it" to close that gap. We'll explore the idea of Borrowed Belief — allowing the people who see you clearly (mentors, sponsors, leaders, friends, coaches) to hold the truth about your capability while your nervous system gently catches up. Because doubt isn't a flaw — it's a protection response that forms when you've spent years navigating comparison, bias, invisibility, and scrutiny in corporate systems that weren't built with you in mind. You'll hear: ✨ the real reason praise can feel uncomfortable in your body ✨ why "imposter syndrome" is often really imposter treatment ✨ the difference between Fake It Till You Make It vs Borrowed Belief ✨ how your nervous system protects you — even from opportunity ✨ healthy ways to receive affirmation & advocacy without shrinking ✨ who you should NOT borrow belief from — and how to choose safe people ✨ how to build self-trust gently — instead of forcing confidence This episode is a soft place to land — especially if you're tired of being told to "be more confident" or "just believe in yourself." Because your leadership isn't wishful thinking. Other people already see it. And while your nervous system learns that it's safe to be seen — you're allowed to borrow belief. 📖 Chapters 00:00 If People See Your Power Before You DoWhy capable women still experience self-doubt — and why nothing is "wrong" with you. 04:00 Why I Don't Believe in "Imposter Syndrome"Understanding imposter treatment — and how systems shape self-doubt. 09:00 Your Brain Is Wired for Safety — Not SpotlightHow your nervous system responds to visibility, risk, and opportunity. 12:30 What Borrowed Belief Really MeansLetting trusted people reflect truth back to you — without pretending. 14:30 My Story: Becoming a CoachHow someone else's belief opened a door I wouldn't have walked through alone. 19:30 Fake It Till You Make It vs Borrowed BeliefThe emotional, psychological, and spiritual difference between the two. 23:00 Reflection Questions to Gently ExploreWho already sees your capability? And what truth are they reflecting? 26:00 How to Practice Borrowed Belief — SafelySimple relational practices that build grounded confidence over time. 27:30 Who Not to Borrow Belief FromProtecting yourself from ego-driven validation or manipulation. 29:00 You Are Not BrokenConfidence grows in healthy community — not isolation. 31:00 Final Reflections — Let Belief Hold YouYou don't have to rush. Your nervous system gets to catch up. If this episode supported you, don't forget to like, subscribe, and share it with another Woman of Color who deserves support on her leadership journey — without performance, pressure, or pretending. Because you don't need a title to lead. And you don't need to fake confidence to deserve opportunity. Because you don't need a title to lead. And you don't need to fake confidence to deserve opportunity. 🔗 Work With Me: 1:1 Leadership & Career CoachingIf you're a woman of color who wants to grow your career without shape-shifting, overperforming, or silencing yourself — my 1:1 leadership coaching is designed for you. We'll get clear on the kind of leader you are (and want to be), create simple ways for you to be seen at work that don't require you to be loud or "on," and strengthen the relationships that actually influence decisions — so opportunities come to you instead of you waiting to be picked. 🔗 Apply for 1:1 coaching by booking a call here:BOOK A CALL HERE Where to Find TaSheenaSign up for "A Seat At The Table," my Weekly Newsletter that empowers WOC leaders and their teams to build their own seats at the table. LinkedIn | Instagram | Website | TikTok
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