Summary:

Erica Coffey is a teacher, coach, and people leader with two decades of experience helping schools, companies, and nonprofits build cultures of inclusion, equity, and belonging. She creates brave spaces for real dialogue so people feel seen, valued, and able to grow.

This one starts with a gut punch: “I don’t trust you, and I’m not sure about your commitment.” Erica walks us through how she absorbed that hit, recalibrated, and then flipped the power dynamic—without nuking her career. We dig into stalled promotions, performative optics, sponsor/mentor strategy, and a simple decision tree that saved her sanity: recalibrate or exit.

Chapters:

00:00 – Recalibrate or Exit? The framing that sets the tone.

03:00 – The Stall After a Master’s Checking every box and still stuck.

06:00 – No One-on-Ones, No Plan Owning development when leadership won’t.

12:00 – “I Don’t Trust You” The meeting that changed everything.

16:00 – The Retreat & The Three M’s External fuel for an internal shift.

19:00 – Doors Open, Perspective Shifts From “stuck” to trajectory.

30:00 – Lessons & Limits Knowing when it’s them, not you.

33:00 – My Wrap Action bias, non-negotiables, next steps.

Host Dr. Jim: linkedin.com/in/drjimk

Guest Erica Coffey: linkedin.com/in/erica-coffey-ba862917

Executive Producer Shannon Cornelison: linkedin.com/in/shannon-cornelison-9aa8b8248

Creative Advisor Dr. Jim Kanichirayil: linkedin.com/in/drjimk

Music Credit: "Lost in Dreams" by Kulakovka