In this episode, Carla Romo breaks down the realities of modern dating — from choosing the right first date outfit to being labeled "intimidating," navigating today's dating epidemic, and having honest conversations about sex. Carla explores how emotional intelligence, presence, and clear sexual communication impact attraction, intimacy, and relationship satisfaction. This episode offers clarity around shifting dating dynamics and empowers listeners to communicate their needs without shame.

What You'll Learn

• First date outfits can set the emotional tone

• A go‑to outfit helps reduce dating anxiety

• Being called "intimidating" often reflects others' insecurities

• Dating dynamics are rapidly changing

• Emotional intelligence is essential for healthy relationships

• Sexual communication improves satisfaction

• Presence, foreplay, and enthusiastic consent matter

Work with me:

1:1 Coaching program

Ask Me Anything - 30 Min Session

Dating Profile Makeover - 30 Min Session

Proven Dating Courses:

Swipe Match Spark: The Ultimate Dating App Guide

No Filter: The Sex Guide Every Dater Needs

Book:

Contagious Love: Break Free From Codependency for Damn Good

Tiktok: @iamcarlaromo

Instagram: @iamcarlaromo

Youtube: @iamcarlaromo

FREEBIE: 20 Best First and Second Date Questions

Rate, Review, & Follow, Carla Turned On

Sound Bites

• "You're intimidating."

• "Clear consent is sexy."

• "You just need to be present."

Chapters

00:00 — What to Wear on a First Date

04:52 — "You're Intimidating"

14:14 — The Dating Epidemic and Carla's Viral TikTok

28:57 — No Orgasm? Here's What's Actually Going On

Disclaimer: Carla Turned On content has been made available for informational, entertainment, and educational purposes only. Carla Turned On is distinctly different from coaching, counseling, psychotherapy, or psychoanalysis and does not deal with the diagnosis or treatment of emotional problems. Carla Turned On does not constitute medical consultation or treatment.