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Why Are Mixed Race People Always Asked to Pick a Side?

Why Are Mixed Race People Always Asked to Pick a Side?

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 We return to a conversation that never really settled.After the unexpected response to Season 2’s “Episode 19: Are Mixed Race People ‘Properly Black’?”, we sit with what lingered; the comments, the discomfort, the language policing, and the familiar demand that mixed race people either ‘pick a side’ or ‘play the bridge’.This isn’t a debate about identity labels. It’s a reflection on what mixedness is asked to do in a world structured by racial hierarchy.We begin with language: the push to abandon the word “race,” the claim that naming it only entrenches division, and the exhaustion - especially among Black and mixed communities - of being told that silence equals progress. We ask what gets lost when language is policed, and why refusing to name race never seems to dismantle racism.From there, we move into the deeper fault lines. The recurring pressure to “pick a side.” The temptation to claim a separate category. And the seductive pressure and idea that mixed race people are uniquely positioned to mediate, reconcile, or soften conflict - to ‘be the bridge’ in a divided world.Drawing on personal experience, online responses, and psychological frameworks, we unpack the emotional labour hidden inside that phrase. The shapeshifting. The code-switching. The quiet expectation to absorb tension so others don’t have to sit with it themselves, and the discomfort of racial anxiety.Along the way, we name a distinction that matters: being asked to pick a side is not the same as being asked to pick a politics. Identity does not determine values - but values do determine what we refuse to excuse, paper over, or explain away.This episode is about exhaustion, refusal, and integrity. About belonging everywhere - and what it costs. And about the possibility that wholeness does not require neutrality, mediation, or silence.In this episode:Language policing and why refusing the word “race” doesn’t end racismThe pressure on mixed race people to “pick a side”, and why that framing sometimes failsIdentity vs politics: why values matter more to Tamanda than categoriesThe burden of being the bridge: emotional labour, mediation, and being “walked over”Shapeshifting, code-switching, and the hidden cost of adaptability as told by Jamilla AnderssonWhy mixedness is often welcomed only when it is quiet and non-disruptiveRefusing the bridge as an act of integrity: when standing for something leaves you feeling most wholeWhat staying whole looks like in a world that keeps asking you to split🎧 Listen wherever you get your podcasts 🎥 Watch the full episode on YouTube 🔁 Share with someone navigating mixedness, mediation, or the cost of belonging ☕ Want to support the show? Buy us a coffee: https://buymeacoffee.com/rigourandflowPlease rate, review and subscribe for weekly episodes.Connect with us on:TikTokInstagramLinkedInAiAi StudiosRoots & RigourThis is an AiAi Studios Production©AiAi Studios 2025 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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