In this deeply honest episode, Carol talks about a truth most women are scared to admit — the moment you look at your relationships, your patterns, your marriages, and realize:

“I’ve been the common denominator.”

Not in a way that blames yourself…

Not in a way that shames you…

But in a way that finally brings clarity.

Carol opens up about why she stayed, why she tried so hard, why she kept giving chances, and how her desire for love, stability, and partnership led her to ignore red flags and overextend herself in relationships that didn’t pour back into her.

She shares how being the “common denominator” doesn’t mean you were the problem — it means you were the one trying to fill a void that no partner ever could. It means you were seeking love without having fully given it to yourself first.

This episode is for every woman who keeps asking,

“Why does this keep happening to me?”

and finally realizes…

it wasn’t because she was unworthy —

it was because she kept choosing people from a place of unhealed hope.

Carol walks listeners through the freedom that comes when you stop carrying shame and start carrying awareness. Because once you recognize your patterns, you can finally break them.

This is the episode where accountability meets self-compassion…

and healing meets truth.

Take a breath, sis…

Clock that tea… and sip on THAT. 💜🔥