Have you ever felt like something wasn't quite right in your relationship, but couldn't explain why? Maybe you're walking on eggshells, constantly keeping the peace, or wondering whether you're overreacting. When does uncomfortable become unsafe?

In this episode of Shrinks on Tap, Dr. Lauren Fisher sits down with Jeannie Mullane, a Domestic Violence Probation Officer with nearly three decades of experience, to explore the often-overlooked warning signs of emotional abuse, coercive control, and domestic violence.

Not every unhealthy relationship is abusive. But abusive relationships often begin with subtle behaviors that are easy to excuse, rationalize, or overlook.

Together, Lauren and Jeannie discuss:

• The relationship red flags we often miss
• The difference between unhealthy and abusive relationships
• How emotional manipulation, isolation, and financial control develop
• Why walking on eggshells can signal something deeper
• How coercive control gradually erodes confidence and independence
• Why leaving an abusive relationship isn't as simple as "just leave"
• Trauma bonding and the complicated emotions that keep people connected
• How to trust your instincts and find support

Whether you're questioning your own relationship or concerned about someone you love, this conversation offers compassionate insight into recognizing harmful patterns and understanding when to seek help.

You don't have to wait for physical violence to take your concerns seriously. And you don't have to figure everything out alone.

🥂 JOIN US IN OLD TOWN ALEXANDRIA!

The Old Town Alexandria Women's Crawl + Dance Party is happening Saturday, October 24, 2026, from 1–8 PM!

Join Shrinks on Tap and Del Ray Psych & Wellness for a day of friendship, wellness, connection, and community. A portion of ticket proceeds supports The Breast Cancer Collective.

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❤️ DOMESTIC VIOLENCE SUPPORT

If you or someone you know is experiencing domestic violence, confidential support is available through the National Domestic Violence Hotline.

Call: 800-799-SAFE (7233)
Text: START to 88788
Visit: https://www.thehotline.org/

If you're in immediate danger, call 911.

ABOUT SHRINKS ON TAP

Join Dr. Lauren Fisher and Dr. Eleni Boosalis for honest conversations about relationships, mental health, personal growth, and the complicated realities of being human.

Grab your favorite drink, pull up a chair, and join the conversation.