Kids learn a tremendous amount from their own mistakes, but they can learn just as much from the world happening around them. In this episode of What I Want My Kids to Know, Mykayla shares how to help children reflect on other people’s choices, behaviors, and mistakes to build integrity, emotional intelligence, and strong decision-making skills.

• Why reflection builds integrity and how kids learn from observing others’ behavior
• How to help kids process real-world situations so the lesson sticks
• The brain science behind why reflection matters, not just experience
• Practical ways to turn everyday moments, after school stories, playground drama, even Target trips, into teachable opportunities
• How to support impulsive kids who struggle with reflection and self-awareness
• Conversation starters that build emotional intelligence and help kids deepen their understanding of choices and consequences

It’s natural to want to protect our kids from mistakes and discomfort, but those moments are often the best teachers. In this episode of What I Want My Kids to Know, Mykayla shares how letting kids experience natural consequences can build real-life skills like responsibility, problem-solving, and self-control.

You’ll learn how to step back with empathy, support reflection without rescuing, and help your kids develop the executive functioning skills they’ll need for independence and confidence later in life.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode

• What natural consequences are and why they matter for your child’s emotional and cognitive development
• How the brain learns through experience, not just explanation, and why that’s essential for building executive functioning
• Real-world examples of natural consequences for kids of all ages, from forgotten homework to oversleeping for school
• Why it’s so hard to let go as a parentm and how to reframe “stepping back” as an act of trust and love
• How to support without rescuing, using calm, empathetic communication and reflection
• Conversation starters to help kids process mistakes and turn them into growth moments

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• Visit the website: www.whatiwantmykidstoknow.com

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Parenting through busy or exhausting seasons can leave us feeling stretched thin and disconnected. In this episode of What I Want My Kids to Know, Mykayla shares how to stay emotionally connected to your kids when your energy is running low.

You’ll learn practical, grace-filled strategies for keeping communication open, finding small moments of connection, and showing your kids that love and presence don’t disappear just because your capacity has shifted.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode

• How to use what’s already in your routine to create meaningful connection moments without adding more to your plate
• Simple ways to add a small touch of “special” that make kids feel seen and loved, even in busy seasons
• Why honest communication matters, and how naming your limits actually builds trust and emotional safety
• How to release perfection and focus on presence over performance when you’re feeling burned out
• Conversation starters to spark connection when energy or motivation is low

Resources & Links

• Free guide: 5 Ways to Create Time for Connection with Your Kids
• Follow on Instagram: @whatiwantmykidstoknow_pod
• Visit the website: www.whatiwantmykidstoknow.com