9 years in the marriage game. Seems like just yesterday we were bombarded with marriage pessimism. The "oh you just wait til the honeymoon phase is over". Marriage is hard at times, but hard in the way that anything worth having is hard. Everyone says the first few years are the hardest, yet Travis and I are facing the hardest years yet. The hard times don't come with arbitrary dates. They come with experience, life changes, and unpredictably. Why is taking out the trash such a common martial problem? Why does Travis hate cooking? lol . We hope you enjoy this catch up.

A little bit of this, a little bit of that, and some sex stuff cause y’all love it. This week Stephanie and Travis discuss getting the “ick” and how couples should approach feelings of “unattractiveness”.

Stephanie finds some more evolutionary gems relating to the average age between your children and our ancestral and now non-existent “community”.

How are you actively breaking unwanted cycles? Have you taken the type to notice them at all? Travis and Stephanie realize gentle parenting isn't for the weak.

In an “Oh So Y’all Can Relate” submission, a listener expresses her resentment for her partner's employee. Are there some jobs that make outside of work superior-subordinate friendships okay?

If you would like to add “sexting” as a way to spice things up in your relationship, listen to some of the things our listeners sext. Some are funny, some are straight to the point, and some are SPICY!

Wow, has it really been a month since the last episode? Well Stephanie and Travis are back this week and you might wanna buckle up. Stephanie vents about a lazy performance by Busta Rhymes, compares Missy Elliot to Beyonce and discusses Eli’s first concert performance experience with Young Miko.

Travis is very proud of an intimate moment they shared, let’s just say it was kinda queer. This was a moment Travis’ humor was appreciated, but that’s not always the case.

Oh So Y’all Can Relate is BACK with a TRIPLE HITTER. Yes 3 back to back submissions. First, a woman questions if her long-term relationship is holding her back, despite her boyfriend ‘trying’ to improve. Another listener is worn out from constantly seeking emotional support from a partner who doesn’t seem to notice her needs. Lastly, an engaged woman feels the pressure of societal expectations and wonders how to balance giving and receiving in her relationship.

Of course Travis and Stephanie do their best to advise and encourage them, they might not always agree, but in the end give unified consult.