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In this episode of Unapologetically Whole, host Lola Dada-Olley engages in a heartfelt conversation with Victoria Petelin, the creative director of Wise Ink Media. Wise Ink is the publisher of Lola's upcoming book. Lola and Victoria discuss the journey of writing and publishing a memoir, the complexities of the publishing industry, and the importance of authenticity in storytelling. Victoria shares insights into the hybrid publishing model and the creative process behind memoir writing, emphasizing the significance of personal narratives and the transformations that occur during the writing journey. The episode also touches on the design of the book cover and the importance of accessibility for readers.

Lola's book, Unapologetically Whole: A Memoir About Autism, Caregiving, and Owning Your Story will be available on Amazon.com and ItascaBooks.com on May, 12, 2026! Be on the lookout for updates at loladadaolley.com/book.

Takeaways

• Your story matters, and you are allowed to be whole without apology.
• Publishing is a spectrum, with traditional, independent, and hybrid options.
• Hybrid publishing offers a balance of creative control and professional support.
• The writing process can be therapeutic and transformative.
• Authenticity in storytelling resonates more with readers than broad generalizations.
• The design of a book cover can reflect the author's journey and message.
• Accessibility in publishing is crucial for reaching diverse audiences.
• The journey of writing a memoir often reveals deeper truths about oneself.
• Success is subjective and should be defined on one's own terms.
• Community and hope are essential in navigating life's challenges.

Sounds Bites

"Your story matters, your voice matters."
"It's almost like being a therapist."
"It's a jungle out there."
"It's a form of therapy."
"I love it, I love it every time I see it."
"What does success look like in this moment?"
"The process is needed."
"We gotta give each other hope."

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Most caregivers lead quietly, often unseen, but their daily acts of purpose shape future generations. On this episode of Unapologetically Whole, Lola Dada-Olley reveals the profound leadership hidden within everyday caregiving and how purpose over perfection is the true mark of a whole family. Lola shares her own journey navigating systemic obstacles for her children with autism, illustrating how advocacy is not just a skill, but a form of leadership that transforms lives.

You’ll discover how purpose sustains us through the most challenging moments, from early therapy hours that drained resources to redefining success as access, dignity, and belonging. Three powerful messages emerge: the leadership of presence in difficult conversations, the importance of purpose-driven resilience, and how small daily acts can build systemic change. Lola emphasizes that caregivers are not just holding families together, they are architects of systems that didn't exist before, leading with quiet strength and intention.

Why does this matter? Because in a world that often overlooks the power of caregiving, understanding the leadership within your daily efforts unlocks profound opportunities. A caregiver's role isn’t just pivotal, it’s revolutionary. If you’ve ever questioned whether your contributions matter, this episode will empower you to see your work as leadership that shapes future generations.

Perfect for anyone navigating caregiving, leadership, or systemic change or those seeking to understand the unheralded work of building wholeness in every act of care. Tune in to see how purpose, not perfection, makes a family whole and how your own daily leadership can create ripple effects beyond what you imagine.

Lola Dada-Olley is an attorney, advocate, and storyteller dedicated to illuminating the quiet strength of caregivers and systemic leaders. Her work champions dignity and belonging for families navigating disability, advocacy, and societal systems. If you’re ready to see caregiving as leadership and your purpose as a powerful force for change, this episode could inspire your next move. Your story matters. Your purpose matters. And the leadership you practice every day is transforming the future, one act at a time.

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In this engaging conversation, Lola Dada-Olley speaks with Michael and Julie Thomas, co-founders of ConnectIDD, a disability empowerment agency. They discuss their journey as a married couple, the challenges faced in the nonprofit sector, and the importance of community support in advocating for individuals with disabilities. The Thomases share insights on transitioning from nonprofit leadership to entrepreneurship while raising children, navigating uncertainty in the disability space, and the significance of joy and resilience in their work. They also touch on their family mission statement and future goals for both their family and ConnectIDD.

Takeaways

• ConnectIDD is a disability empowerment agency changing lives.
• Michael and Julie's journey began during a snowstorm in 2011.
• They emphasize the importance of community support for families with disabilities.
• The nonprofit sector faces significant challenges, including funding issues.
• Vulnerability is essential in the disability advocacy space.
• Joy is a form of resistance against societal challenges.
• Building strong networks is crucial for navigating uncertainty.
• Transitioning from nonprofit leadership to entrepreneurship can be rewarding.
• Their family mission statement is 'do good, be good, have fun.
• They aim to expand ConnectIDD's reach across the U.S. and beyond.

Sound Bites

"It's okay to be vulnerable."
"We have people who deserve better."
"We are ready to be in every state."

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Team Thomas and Their Mission
02:01 The Journey of Michael and Julie Thomas
05:53 Understanding Connect ID's Unique Approach
11:00 Challenges in the Disability Nonprofit Sector
20:16 Finding Purpose in Disability Advocacy
28:39 The Decision to Move On
31:21 Finding a New Home
33:03 The Call of Nature
35:52 Navigating Neurodiversity
37:50 Growth Amidst Uncertainty
43:00 Staying Nimble in Parenting and Business
48:11 The Thomas Family Mission Statement
51:29 Goals for 2026

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