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Unapologetically AuDHD

Unapologetically AuDHD

Di: Patricia Young Alex McLaughlin
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 Unapologetically AuDHD is a space for neurodivergent folks—especially Autistic ADHDers (AuDHDers)—to feel seen, understood, and know you're not alone. We believe there's nothing wrong with having a brain that's wired differently. Through honest conversations about the highs, lows, and messy in-betweens, we normalize neurodivergent experiences, explore intersectionality, and celebrate the unique & sometimes beautiful ways of thinking, feeling, and moving through the world. Led by two AuDHDers with PDA profiles, and lived experience with OCD, this podcast exists to de-stigmatize neurodivergence; honor both strengths and limitations, and remind us that we don't need to be "fixed"—we just want to be heard. Have you been told you're "too" (fill in the blank)? You're too sensitive; you think/worry too much; you take things too personally; you're too emotional, too finicky, too fragile, too intense, too uptight, too slow. Have you been told you can't take a joke; you can't go with the flow? You can't let go of things? Is making decisions difficult for you? You might have an acute sense of smell, and strong odors, crowded noisy environments and bright lights are just too much! You're in the right place! You may have been diagnosed (or misdiagnosed) with anxiety, depression, bipolar, borderline, having OCD or more. Our brain and bodies are wired differently. There's nothing wrong with you!2025 Igiene e vita sana Psicologia Psicologia e salute mentale
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  • 11 Justice Sensitivity in a Dumpster Fire Timeline: How to Care for Yourself

    11 Justice Sensitivity in a Dumpster Fire Timeline: How to Care for Yourself
    Feb 25 2026
    11 Justice Sensitivity in a Dumpster Fire Timeline: How to Care for Yourself SUMMARY Patricia Young (she/her) and Alex McLaughlin (they/them) have a compassionate conversation about navigating collective stress and uncertainty as autistic, ADHD, AuDHD, and chronically ill adults. Without going into graphic details (ICE occupation, Epstein Files), they acknowledge the emotional weight many are carrying right now and focus on neurodivergent-friendly ways to cope — including managing media consumption, understanding cognitive and emotional exertion, nervous system regulation, medication and supplement support, leaning into routine and predictability, and finding accessible ways to engage in activism without burning out. If you're feeling hypervigilant, exhausted, justice-sensitive, or unsure how to show up, this episode offers validation, practical tools, and a reminder that rest, regulation, and survival are meaningful forms of participation. KEY TAKEAWAYS Collective trauma hits neurodivergent nervous systems differently — and often harder. Justice sensitivity in autistic and AuDHD folks can amplify distress during political unrest. You do not have to consume all the news to be informed. Watching traumatic videos can cause secondary trauma — it's okay to opt out. If media consumption disrupts your sleep or functioning for days, it may be too much. Cognitive exertion (thinking, processing news, socializing) costs spoons. Escapism isn't moral failure — it can be nervous system protection. Comfort shows and repetition regulate the autistic nervous system. Food, TV, sleep, social media — these are tools, not character flaws. Movement can be regulating (if accessible), but there is no one-size-fits-all solution. Medication adjustments during high-stress periods are valid and sometimes necessary. Supplements and integrative approaches can also support regulation. Sleep is activism. Rest is survival. Community care can be asynchronous (text, Marco Polo, Signal, email). Parallel play and body doubling count as connection. Activism does not have to mean protesting. Apps like 5 Calls make political engagement accessible and script-based. Mutual aid, donating, sharing resources, and volunteering are meaningful contributions. Regulation and survival as neurodivergent people is itself resistance. You are not weak for being overwhelmed — you are responding to unprecedented stress. SOUNDBITES "Once you see something, you can't unsee it. Protecting your nervous system is not denial — it's wisdom." "We don't have to show up in the same way for our activism to count." "Regulating your system and surviving as a neurodivergent person is part of the work." "It's not the activity — it's how it impacts you." "We will show up when we can. That's compassion." ABOUT YOUR HOSTS: Alex McLaughlin (they/them) has a Master's in Social Work, and is a licensed independent clinical social worker (LICSW) on Wahpekute land (colonized as MN). Alex is an AuDHDer, PDAer, Queer, non-binary, fat, chronically ill, disabled, & a multi-racial (1/8th Chinese & white passing) human with lived experience of OCD. As a late diagnosed adult, Alex has felt different and embraced their quirky, eccentric nature—what they now recognize as undiagnosed AuDHD. This lifelong experience of masking and curiosity about people inspired their passion for understanding and serving others, ultimately shaping their path today. Alex provides neurodivergent and Queer-affirming therapy and Autism and ADHD assessments on Wahpekute land (colonized as Minnesota). Their work is grounded in intersectional feminism, ecological systems theory, and a commitment to decolonizing mental health care. They support clients in exploring how interconnected systems shape their experiences, while fostering resilience, empowerment, and self-understanding—especially for Neurodivergent, 2SLGBTQIA+, BIPOC/POGM, and disabled communities. Trained in ERP, I-CBT (including ND-affirming I-CBT), sand tray therapy, TF-CBT, and somatic approaches, Alex also brings lived experience and is pursuing IFS to deepen their parts-informed practice. Coaching, consulting and training coming soon! Head here to be notified when this practice opens! Head to Alex's website here to connect further: Here Patricia Young (she/her) has a Master's Degree in Social Work, and was a Licensed Clinical Social Worker for over 17 years, but she is now exclusively providing coaching. She knows what it's like to feel like an outcast, misfit, and truthteller. Learning about the trait of being a Highly Sensitive Person (HSP), then learning she is AuDHD with a PDA profile, OCD and RSD, helped Patricia rewrite her history with a deeper understanding, appreciation, and a sense of self-compassion. She created the podcast Unapologetically Sensitive and Unapologetically AuDHD to help other neurodivergent folks know that they aren't alone, and that having a brain that is wired differently ...
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    36 min
  • 10. When Consistency Meets Chronic Illness

    10. When Consistency Meets Chronic Illness
    Feb 13 2026
    10. When Consistency Meets Chronic Illness SUMMARY Patricia Young (she/her) explains why she and Alex haven't been able to release podcast episodes consistently and shares the very real impact of living with chronic illness as AuDHD adults. Patricia speaks openly about recording challenges, fluctuating capacity, and the grief that comes with no longer being able to push through fatigue, pain, and sensory overwhelm. She reflects on internalized ableism, late diagnosis, and common autistic comorbidities such as POTS, MCAS, chronic pain, and exhaustion, and why showing up sometimes looks inconsistent, imperfect, and deeply human. This episode centers self-compassion, disabled realities, and the reminder that doing your best doesn't always look productive. KEY TAKEAWAYS Living with chronic illness makes consistency genuinely hard—not morally hard, physically and neurologically hard Many autistic and ADHD adults carry grief for what they used to be able to do Late diagnosis often comes with the realization that "pushing through" had a cost Fatigue, pain, and sensory overwhelm compound over time Internalized ableism can show up as guilt for needing rest Podcasting, creativity, and work don't exist outside health realities Chronic conditions like POTS, MCAS, fibromyalgia, and migraines are common autistic comorbidities Capacity is not static—it fluctuates day to day Losing tolerance for crowds, noise, and standing isn't a failure Disability doesn't always look the way we expect it to Grief deserves space, even when it isn't the focus of the episode Self-compassion is a necessary skill, not a luxury Showing up "imperfectly" is still showing up Productivity culture clashes hard with disabled bodies Sometimes the most honest content is naming limitations out loud SOUNDBITES "There is a lot of grief in realizing your body can't do what it used to do." "Many of us pushed through for years, and eventually the body says no." "Internalized ableism brings guilt when rest is actually necessary." "Sometimes being disabled means things don't look the way you want them to." "We haven't given up—we're just showing up the best we can." ABOUT YOUR HOSTS: Alex McLaughlin (they/them) has a Master's in Social Work, and is a licensed independent clinical social worker (LICSW) on Wahpekute land (colonized as MN). Alex is an AuDHDer, PDAer, Queer, non-binary, fat, chronically ill, disabled, & a multi-racial (1/8th Chinese & white passing) human with lived experience of OCD. As a late diagnosed adult, Alex has felt different and embraced their quirky, eccentric nature—what they now recognize as undiagnosed AuDHD. This lifelong experience of masking and curiosity about people inspired their passion for understanding and serving others, ultimately shaping their path today. Alex provides neurodivergent and Queer-affirming therapy and Autism and ADHD assessments on Wahpekute land (colonized as Minnesota). Their work is grounded in intersectional feminism, ecological systems theory, and a commitment to decolonizing mental health care. They support clients in exploring how interconnected systems shape their experiences, while fostering resilience, empowerment, and self-understanding—especially for Neurodivergent, 2SLGBTQIA+, BIPOC/POGM, and disabled communities. Trained in ERP, I-CBT (including ND-affirming I-CBT), sand tray therapy, TF-CBT, and somatic approaches, Alex also brings lived experience and is pursuing IFS to deepen their parts-informed practice. Coaching, consulting and training coming soon! Head here to be notified when this practice opens! Head to Alex's website here to connect further: Here Patricia Young (she/her) has a Master's Degree in Social Work, and was a Licensed Clinical Social Worker for over 17 years, but she is now exclusively providing coaching. She knows what it's like to feel like an outcast, misfit, and truthteller. Learning about the trait of being a Highly Sensitive Person (HSP), then learning she is AuDHD with a PDA profile, OCD and RSD, helped Patricia rewrite her history with a deeper understanding, appreciation, and a sense of self-compassion. She created the podcast Unapologetically Sensitive and Unapologetically AuDHD to help other neurodivergent folks know that they aren't alone, and that having a brain that is wired differently comes with amazing gifts, and some challenges. Patricia works online globally working individually with people, and she teaches Online Courses for neurodivergent folks that focus on understanding what it means to be a sensitive neurodivergent. Topics covered include: self-care, self-compassion, boundaries, perfectionism, mindfulness, communication, and creating a lifestyle that honors you Patricia's website, podcast episodes and more here! Additional LINKS Email us with questions related to the podcast
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    7 min
  • 9. The Change Episode: Why Even Tiny Shifts Can Feel Like Major Plot Twists

    9. The Change Episode: Why Even Tiny Shifts Can Feel Like Major Plot Twists
    Dec 5 2025
    9. The Change Episode: Why Even Tiny Shifts Can Feel Like Major Plot Twists SUMMARY This episode explores why managing change can feel so intensely dysregulating for autistic and AuDHD folks. Patricia (she/her) and Alex (they/them) talk openly about post-holiday burnout, the emotional and sensory cost of social expectations, and the internal pressure to appear flexible even when our nervous systems are screaming for predictability. helm — and they offer compassionate, practical ways to support yourself through it. At its heart, this conversation is about honoring your wiring, trusting your needs, and creating more permission to navigate change on your own terms. BRIEF EPISODE SUMMARY This episode digs into why change—big or small—can feel overwhelming, exhausting, or destabilizing for autistic and AuDHD folks, even when the change is positive or desired. Patricia and Alex talk about post-holiday burnout, sensory overload, emotional fatigue, and the crash that happens after pushing through social expectations. Patricia explores the internalized pressure to be "easygoing," the shame around needing predictability, and the resentment that builds when needs aren't voiced directly. Patricia and Alex break down how inconsistency, unpredictability, and last-minute shifts can send the nervous system into overdrive. Alex and Patricia share practical, compassionate strategies for navigating change: pacing, lowering expectations, sensory supports, scripting, noticing your body's needs, and honoring what actually helps instead of what you think you "should" be able to handle. Ultimately, the episode is about self-trust, emotional honesty, and building a life that respects your neurodivergent wiring — especially during seasons of chaos, transition, and holiday noise. KEY TAKEAWAYS Autistic sensory and emotional fatigue after holidays ("harvest feast" instead of Thanksgiving). How pace points/spoon theory help track energy during social and holiday events. Autistic overwhelm from holiday prep, socializing, and changes in routine. The emotional impact of not being direct about needs (resentment vs depression). Feeling "grinchy" and why the Grinch may resonate with autistic and AuDHD folks. Autistic need for sameness, repetition, and predictability for nervous-system regulation. How even positive change can be dysregulating for autistic people. Overwhelm from visual clutter and environmental shifts (decorations, bedding, etc.). The emotional exhaustion of people coming and going in a household. Autistic challenges with transitions, unexpected additions/subtractions of people, and last-minute plan changes. How autistic people mentally prepare and why sudden changes feel destabilizing. Internalized ableism and external criticism around being "rigid," "negative," or "not chill." How trauma, masking, and accuracy needs affect responses to change and inconsistency. Partner dynamics around inconsistency, communication, and misremembered conversations. Observing family dynamics that others don't notice — a common autistic experience. Post-holiday shutdown mode: pajamas, no shower, comfort foods, and rest. Shame around "basic adulting" when autistic burnout hits. Chronic fatigue, post-exertional malaise, and the overlap with AuDHD burnout. How habits, sensory items, comfort objects, and small routines restore predictability. Strategies for managing change: reducing expectations, movement, comfort shows, pacing, sensory support, and compassion. SOUNDBITES Even things that you enjoy can be dysregulating and overwhelming, and change can be difficult." "I think what I call depression is really resentment for not being direct." "If someone could respond differently, they would. We're not choosing to have difficulty with change." "Inconsistency is very difficult for me — it's not about the tree, it's about the mismatch." "Change really affects me. I overdid it, and now my body is telling the truth." ABOUT YOUR HOSTS: Alex McLaughlin (they/them) has a Master's in Social Work, and is a licensed independent clinical social worker (LICSW) on Wahpekute land (colonized as MN). Alex is an AuDHDer, PDAer, Queer, non-binary, fat, chronically ill, disabled, & a multi-racial (1/8th Chinese & white passing) human with lived experience of OCD. As a late diagnosed adult, Alex has felt different and embraced their quirky, eccentric nature—what they now recognize as undiagnosed AuDHD. This lifelong experience of masking and curiosity about people inspired their passion for understanding and serving others, ultimately shaping their path today. Alex provides neurodivergent and Queer-affirming therapy and Autism and ADHD assessments on Wahpekute land (colonized as Minnesota). Their work is grounded in intersectional feminism, ecological systems theory, and a commitment to decolonizing mental health care. They support clients in exploring how interconnected systems shape their experiences, while ...
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    35 min
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