Episodi

  • Dating After Divorce with Guest, Rosalind Sedacca

    Dating After Divorce with Guest, Rosalind Sedacca
    Jan 23 2026
    💖 Dating After Divorce — Join Guest Rosalind Sedacca, CDC, Divorce, Dating & Empowered Living Show Host, Divorce & Co-Parenting Coach, and Author, together with Host Mardi Adams, Divorce Coach, on UnDoing We. This insightful conversation explores how to re-enter the dating world with confidence, clarity, and emotional readiness after divorce. Learn how to heal, set healthy boundaries, and build meaningful relationships while honoring your personal growth and life transitions.

    Streamed on www.NEWStreamingNetwork.com.

    About the Host Mardi Winder-Adams is a certified divorce transition and high-conflict divorce coach, credentialed mediator, and international speaker. With over 30 years of experience, she helps people navigate conflict, manage divorce challenges, and create positive transitions. She is the best-selling author of From I Do to I’m Done and The Other Side of Divorce.

    Connect with Mardi: Email: Mardi@poscs.com Website: divorcecoach4women.com More about Rosalind: Rosalind Sedacca, CDC is recognized as The Voice of Child-Centered Divorce. She is a Divorce & Co-Parenting Coach and founder of the Child-Centered Divorce Network which provides advice, programs, coaching and other valuable resources for parents who are facing, moving through or transitioning after a divorce.

    She is the author of How Do I Tell the Kids About The Divorce? an internationally acclaimed ebook designed to help parents get through the tough divorce talk with the best possible outcome for themselves and their children. Rosalind has created several ebooks and e-courses on co-parenting success strategies including an 8-hr Anger Management For Co-Parents Course. She also hosts the Divorce, Dating & Empowered Living Radio Show & Podcast.

    Learn more about Rosalind’s services at www.childcentereddivorce.com - Email rosalindwrites@gmail.com
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    30 min
  • Understanding Social Security Rules In Divorce

    Understanding Social Security Rules In Divorce
    Jan 23 2026
    This is an important episode of UnDoing We for women and men who are going through a “grey divorce”. Mardi Winder sits down with retirement expert Marcia Mantel, founder of Mantel Retirement Consulting, for an illuminating and practical conversation about one of the most critical, and often confusing, topics for people facing divorce: getting your financial affairs in order, with a special focus on what you can expect from Social Security. Marcia shares how she fell into the world of retirement planning and uncovers the surprising gaps in financial literacy that affect women and men alike.

    Together, Mardi and Marcia break down the essentials of Social Security—how benefits are calculated, the impact of years spent as a stay-at-home parent, and the often misunderstood rules around claiming benefits on an ex-spouse’s work history. They shed light on "spousal top ups," eligibility hurdles, common misconceptions, and address current worries about the future of Social Security, while offering reassurance based on historical precedents. If you’re feeling lost when it comes to planning for retirement after divorce, or simply want straight talk about Social Security, this episode is packed with practical insights and empowering advice for moving forward with confidence. Stay tuned for golden nuggets that every woman (and man!) should know when navigating financial independence and security beyond divorce.

    About the Host Mardi Adams is a certified divorce transition and high-conflict divorce coach, credentialed mediator, and international speaker. With over 30 years of experience, she helps people navigate conflict, manage divorce challenges, and create positive transitions.

    She is the best-selling author of From I Do to I’m Done and The Other Side of Divorce. Connect with Mardi: Email: Mardi@poscs.com Website: divorcecoach4women.com About the Guest Marcia Mantell is the founder of her own small business, Mantell Retirement Consulting, which is celebrating 20 years this year. Marcia is known for taking the complicated retirement,

    Social Security, and Medicare rules and translating them into language we can all better understand. And she’s the author of 4 retirement books, a long-time blogger, a media columnist, and a podcast guest. Whether writing about or talking about retirement, she takes the opportunity to share as many helpful tips and tricks as possible. It’s all about making a successful transition into retirement.

    To connect with Marcia and access her complimentary resources: https://boomerretirementbriefs.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/marciamantell/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/search/top?q=boomer%20retirement%20briefs
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    21 min
  • Marriage Crisis Management Explained - Dr. Becky Whetstone

    Marriage Crisis Management Explained - Dr. Becky Whetstone
    Jan 18 2026
    In this episode, Mardi Winder sits down with Dr. Becky Whetstone for an honest and down-to-earth chat about what really happens when a marriage is on the rocks. Dr. Becky Whetstone, who’s open about her own history of four marriages, shares her personal story, full of ups, downs, and real-life lessons. She explains how her own tough experiences pushed her to become a therapist dedicated to helping others through the messier moments of relationships and divorce.

    They talk about that crucial moment when someone in a marriage makes the call to stay or go, and how those first reactions can set the tone for everything that follows. Dr. Becky offers practical advice on how to figure out whether your marriage still has a chance, and she’s clear about the situations, like abuse or infidelity, when it’s time to walk away for good.

    The conversation covers what happens emotionally when divorce starts looming, and the ways people can get stuck in “divorce fantasy” thinking. Throughout, both Mardi and Dr. Becky stress how important it is not to rush, but instead to make thoughtful decisions, especially for families with kids. Listeners get plenty of straightforward, compassionate tips for handling everything from those tricky first conversations to staying calm in the chaos. It’s a genuine look at the realities of divorce, filled with hope that even hard endings can be managed with care, honesty, and respect.

    More about Mardi: Mardi Winder-Adams is a certified divorce transition and high-conflict divorce coach, with experience as a domestic violence client advocate and behavioral consultant for schools. She is a credentialed mediator with over 30 years of experience in helping people navigate conflict, manage the challenges of divorce, and focus on creating positive transitions, even at very stressful times in life. Mardi is the best-selling author of From I Do to I’m Done and The Other Side of Divorce. She speaks internationally on conflict resolution, divorce, communication, and developing emotional intelligence and resilience.

    Connect with Mardi: Email: Mardi@poscs.com Website: https://www.divorcecoach4women.com/

    About the Guest Becky Whetstone, PhD, is a Marriage and Family Therapist and Life Coach specializing in marriage crisis counseling. Based in Arkansas, she developed Managed Separation (MS), an intervention guiding separated couples with purpose and timelines. Inspired by her own marriage crisis, Dr. Whetstone created tools to help couples navigate turmoil. A former journalist, she has authored the book, “I (Think) I Want Out”, aiming to reduce marital chaos and foster healthy relationships.

    To connect with Dr. Becky: Website: https://marriagecrisismanager.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/relationshipcrisismanager/ X: https://x.com/DoctorBecky
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    27 min
  • Spotting Financial Red Flags During Divorce - Tracy Coenen

    Spotting Financial Red Flags During Divorce - Tracy Coenen
    Jan 17 2026
    Today, Mardi Winder welcomes forensic accountant Tracy Coenen, who has spent more than 25 years investigating financial fraud and uncovering the secrets hidden in divorce finances. Tracy brings her wealth of experience to the table, sharing why what you don’t know about the money in your marriage can absolutely hurt you during divorce, and how you can take proactive steps to protect yourself. If you’re feeling overwhelmed by the thought of navigating joint accounts, credit cards, or potential “money shenanigans,” you’re not alone. Tracy explains how financial confusion is common and nothing to be ashamed of, especially if you weren’t the one managing the money in your relationship.

    She breaks down her practical approach to taking charge with her Divorce Money Guide, designed to put powerful tools and knowledge into the hands of everyday people, no advanced math skills required. Together, Tracy and Mardi dig into the common tactics used to hide assets, how to recognize signs of secret accounts, and what documents you need to gather when divorce is on the horizon. They touch on important topics like home equity lines of credit, early withdrawals from retirement accounts, and even cryptocurrency, debunking myths and sharing how to spot clues in financial records. If you suspect money is being hidden or moved, or you’re just trying to get your financial bearings, you’ll find step-by-step guidance and a reassuring message: you can take control and secure your future.

    Plus, Tracy Coenen shares resources, including free tools and online courses, to help you get started, and offers advice on when it makes sense to invest in a forensic accountant or handle things yourself.

    About the Guest Tracy Coenen has been investigating fraud for more than 25 years, but she didn’t always want to be a forensic accountant. With a dream of one day being a prison warden, Tracy went to Marquette University in Milwaukee, WI to get a criminology degree. A class on financial crime investigations reminded her how much she loved Encyclopedia Brown books as a kid. She continued her criminology degree, but added accounting and economics courses so she could become a CPA… and here Tracy is, finding money in cases of corporate fraud, high net worth divorce, and other financial shenanigans.

    For Tracy’s complimentary resource: https://divorcemoneyguide.com/plan/

    To connect with Tracy: https://www.divorcemoneyguide.com
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    27 min
  • Understanding Highly Sensitive People - Sue Bruckner

    Understanding Highly Sensitive People - Sue Bruckner
    Nov 29 2025
    Welcome to another episode of UnDoing We. Today, we're diving into the world of highly sensitive people, and what it really means, why it isn't a diagnosis, and how it shapes the experience of divorce and relationships of all kinds. Joining host Mardi Winder is special guest Sue Bruckner, who specializes in supporting highly sensitive individuals through life’s most challenging transitions.

    In this thought-provoking conversation, Sue Bruckner explains how being highly sensitive is a biological trait, not a weakness, and breaks down the key characteristics using the acronym DOES: Deeply feeling, Overstimulation/Overwhelm, Emotional responsiveness, and Sensitivity to subtleties.

    The episode explores how these traits influence empathy and boundaries, both in personal relationships and the workplace, and why learning self-compassion is essential for thriving as a highly sensitive person. Together, Mardi and Sue discuss practical strategies for creating healthy boundaries, embracing self-love, and rewriting the narrative for sensitive individuals navigating divorce, career challenges, and life as a whole.

    Whether you identify as highly sensitive or are seeking to better understand someone who does, this episode is packed with insight, encouragement, and helpful advice to empower you on your journey.

    About the Guest: Sue Bruckner, a Licensed Professional Counselor turned Holistic Relationship Coach, is the founder of With Intention, a transformative personal development company created specifically for sensitive women who experience life deeply and often find their depth undervalued in relationships.

    After walking through the fire of an unhealthy marriage, navigating a challenging divorce, and facing unexpected widowhood, Sue transformed these profound experiences into her life's calling. Sue's signature program, Tribe Rising, is an intimate online sanctuary where sensitive women navigating relationship transitions find not just healing but also profound transformation and authentic sisterhood.

    This unique membership platform operates at the community, group, and individual levels, meeting women exactly where they are on their journey. Through a powerful blend of growth mindset principles, spiritual awareness, and positive psychology, Sue guides women to transform emotional chaos into the intentional creation of their next chapter—where relationship endings become the most profound beginnings they could imagine.

    For Sue’s gift Core Value Inventory: https://wonderful-dawn-34642.myflodesk.com/et5zo892qv

    To connect with Sue: LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/suebruckner/ Community: https://wonderful-dawn-34642.myflodesk.com/i4jpplh08t
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    26 min
  • Strategies for A Goal Focused Divorce - Dr. Robin Buckley

    Strategies for A Goal Focused Divorce - Dr. Robin Buckley
    Nov 21 2025
    In this episode, host Mardi Winder sits down with acclaimed clinical psychologist and coach, Dr. Robin Buckley, to unravel the complexities of divorce through a different lens; one that’s strategic, goal-driven, and future-focused. Dr. Robin Buckley shares how her journey from clinical therapy to coaching opened up new possibilities for helping people proactively address challenges in their relationships. Unlike therapy, which looks to the past for healing, coaching begins in the present, guiding individuals towards their desired futures.

    Together, Mardi and Dr. Robin discuss why this approach can make a powerful difference, especially for those navigating the emotional storm and decision-making hurdles of a divorce. Through personal anecdotes, practical advice, and candid stories, they reveal the importance of controlling our brains’ reactions to stress, prioritizing strategic thinking over impulsive responses, and defining clear outcomes for the divorce process.

    The conversation deep-dives into the concept of mission statements for couples, helping to align intentions and minimize conflict, whether the goal is effective co-parenting, maintaining a respectful friendship, or simply parting ways as amicably as possible. This episode is not just for those experiencing divorce but also for coaches, therapists, and anyone seeking healthier paths through relationship transitions. Discover why goal-focused divorce is about more than ending a marriage, it’s about shaping what comes next with clarity, purpose, and resilience.

    About the Host Mardi Winder-Adams is a certified divorce transition and high-conflict divorce coach, credentialed mediator, and international speaker. With over 30 years of experience, she helps people navigate conflict, manage divorce challenges, and create positive transitions. She is the best-selling author of From I Do to I’m Done and The Other Side of Divorce.

    Connect with Mardi: mardi@poscs.com https://www.divorcecoach4women.com/ https://www.newstreamingnetwork.com/team-1/mari-winder-adams Connect with our channel - https://www.newstreamingnetwork.com/

    About the Guest Dr. Robin Buckley holds a PhD in clinical psychology with specialized training in cognitive behavioral methodology and executive coaching. Through her data-driven, strategic coaching model, she helps individuals, couples, and organizations achieve personal and professional goals. Her expertise has been featured by Entrepreneur, Chief, Nike, and TED. Robin's coaching empowers clients to move beyond insight into actionable, lasting success.
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    27 min
  • Create Intentional Focus In Parenting - Guest, Maria Riegger

    Create Intentional Focus In Parenting - Guest, Maria Riegger
    Nov 15 2025
    🎙️ Mardi Winder sits down with Maria Riegger to explore the unique challenges high-achieving parents face in today’s fast-paced, competitive world. Together, they discuss how to balance career demands with family life while fostering healthy, meaningful relationships at home. Maria shares practical strategies for reducing parenting stress, managing social media pressures, and supporting teens in developing independence and emotional resilience.

    The conversation also highlights the importance of reparenting your inner child — learning to nurture yourself so you can better guide your children. Through mindfulness techniques, emotional awareness, and intentional communication, parents can create calmer, more connected homes. This empowering episode offers perspective, reassurance, and real-life tools for modern parents seeking balance, growth, and stronger family bonds. Streamed on NEWStreamingNetwork.com.

    About the Host Mardi Winder-Adams is a certified divorce transition and high-conflict divorce coach, credentialed mediator, and international speaker. With over 30 years of experience, she helps people navigate conflict, manage divorce challenges, and create positive transitions. She is the best-selling author of From I Do to I’m Done and The Other Side of Divorce.

    Connect with Mardi: mardi@poscs.com https://www.divorcecoach4women.com/ https://www.newstreamingnetwork.com/team-1/mari-winder-adams

    Connect with our channel - https://www.newstreamingnetwork.com/

    About the Guest Maria Riegger is based in the Washington, DC area. She is a banking/corporate attorney as well as author and TEDx speaker. She is a certified Inner Child Reparenting Coach and NLP practitioner. A rocky childhood, including the death of a parent, led Maria to consider how to be a better parent in a crazy world. In short, more laughs and positive connections and less dictating and criticizing.

    Parents should parent with the child's particular needs in mind, rather than the parents' ego needs. In helping parents work on their self-improvement, Maria discovered themes of procrastination, people pleasing, and poor boundaries. Maria draws on her legal and corporate background and her trauma-informed training to speak on topics including optimizing productivity, defeating procrastination, and eliminating defensive behaviors to help professionals prevent burnout and achieve their goals while raising healthy, independent kids. Contemporary romance and romantic suspense, with plenty of sarcasm.

    Connect with Maria: maria@lawschoolheretic.com https://lawschoolheretic.com/
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    24 min
  • Unlocking Joy After Divorce Through Creativity - Guest, Jenny Elinora

    Unlocking Joy After Divorce Through Creativity - Guest, Jenny Elinora
    Nov 7 2025
    In this conversation, Mardi Winder sits down with Jenny Eleanora to explore how creativity and play can change the experience of going through divorce and support healing and joy beyond it. Jenny shares her own journey, describing how the early part of her life was marked by depression and anxiety, and how her divorce became a turning point. With the encouragement of a “creative champion,” Jenny began to rediscover joy by reconnecting with creativity in every area of her life—from making music to starting a business—and learned that play doesn’t have to be reserved for artists or after responsibilities are finished.

    Mardi and Jenny offer practical ways for listeners to find small sparks of joy, such as micro moments of play and making room each day for simple, enjoyable activities. Jenny’s advice extends to both adults and parents, encouraging the integration of play and creative energy into daily routines and relationships. She highlights the importance of giving ourselves permission to experience joy, even when it feels awkward or unfamiliar at first, and explains how these small steps can eventually lead to greater relief and personal expansion.

    Together, they discuss how play and creativity, especially after divorce, create opportunities to rediscover one’s true self beyond traditional roles. Jenny shares the impact of personal losses and the inspiration she found in healing and solo creative expression, reminding listeners that authenticity can feel risky but is deeply rewarding. The episode is an honest, encouraging conversation about finding your own path to joy and creativity, and being a positive example for children during transitions.

    About the Guest Jenny Elinora is a creativity empowerment coach and musician dedicated to helping women over 50 rediscover their voices and live their creative dreams. With decades of performance experience and a deep understanding of how trauma impacts creativity, Jenny’s mission is to inspire women to boldly reclaim their creative power. Her own journey reflects the challenges and triumphs of the women she helps. Silenced by early criticism and life’s traumas,

    Jenny didn’t find her voice until age 33 and only released her first solo project at 50. Along the way, she’s written, performed, recorded and produced 30+ original songs, and earned recognition such as Vermont's Tammie Award for Best Rock Album. Through her holistic approach— somatic practices, sound healing, community support and creative coaching— Jenny has helped 100+ women overcome self-doubt, imposter syndrome, and creative stagnation to help them reconnect with their authentic self and share their brilliance with the world.

    For Jenny’s gift: https://meditation.growyourwholevoice.com T

    o connect with Jenny:
    Website: https://growyourwholevoice.com
    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jelinora

    About the Host Mardi Winder-Adams is a certified divorce transition and high-conflict divorce coach, credentialed mediator, and international speaker. With over 30 years of experience, she helps people navigate conflict, manage divorce challenges, and create positive transitions. She is the best-selling author of From I Do to I’m Done and The Other Side of Divorce.

    Connect with Mardi: mardi@poscs.com https://www.divorcecoach4women.com/

    https://www.newstreamingnetwork.com/team-1/mari-winder-adams Connect with our channel - https://www.newstreamingnetwork.com/
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    23 min