In this episode of Transformative Escapes, I’m joined by writer and traveler R. Thaddeus Lech, the mind behind The Adventures of Alexander Dixon: Podcasts from the Edge of Decency.

I had the opportunity to read the book as an advanced copy, and from the very first pages it was clear—this isn’t a traditional travel narrative. It’s a sharp, witty, and deeply honest exploration of what happens when travel stops being curated and starts being consequential.

We dive into the origins of Alexander Dixon, a self-made character who believes authority comes from experience—not permission. Thaddeus shares how confidence earned the hard way shaped both the character and his writing, why an impulsive TikTok led to the purchase of a crumbling villa in Southern Italy, and how Venice during Carnival became Alexander’s natural habitat for indulgence without apology.

We also explore the humbling moments—like being taken down by a Venetian mosquito—and how vulnerability sharpens creativity, the power of cuisine and place (including a deep love for Harry’s Bar in Venice), and the difference between destinations that call us back and those that feel complete after one visit.

From Italy to New Mexico, this conversation uncovers how place quietly rewires our definition of success, identity, and what it means to live well. We close with a powerful reflection on why true transformation doesn’t happen on a checklist—but in the ordinary moments of life lived somewhere else.

If you’ve ever felt pulled toward a place you couldn’t explain, this episode is for you.

In this episode of Transformative Escapes, Rebecca Housley sits down with Paulina Ember to explore how travel can become a powerful catalyst for reinvention, healing, and bold new beginnings.

Rebecca and Paulina first met by chance while traveling in Istanbul — sharing a long limo ride, stories over Turkish tea, and an instant connection rooted in curiosity and independence. Since then, Paulina’s journey has continued to unfold in remarkable ways, including her decision to book a one-way ticket to Dubai and fully step into a life aligned with her purpose.

Together, they reflect on solo travel, listening to intuition, and the moments when the world gently — or loudly — nudges us toward change. Paulina shares how certain destinations have shaped her confidence, expanded her worldview, and helped her trust herself more deeply.

This conversation is an invitation for anyone standing at a crossroads, feeling the pull of something more, or wondering what might happen if they said yes to the journey calling their name.

Because sometimes, one trip can change everything.