This is Part 2 of our relationship advice series and this is where we cover the most controversial advice (per ChatGPT lol)

We're breaking down some of the most debated, misunderstood, and often repeated relationship advice including the phrases people swear by and the ones that may be quietly sabotaging relationships.

We're coming into this conversation from two very different perspectives, which is why we're here and what we love!!! Lahana has been with her husband for 17 years and married for most of that time, while Meagan has been divorced multiple times and is currently dating. Between long-term commitment, heartbreak, rebuilding, and learning through experience, we've seen how relationship advice actually plays out in real life not just in theory.

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Everyone has relationship advice ~ from your friends, your parents, the internet, and random TikTok therapists. But how much of it is actually helpful… and how much of it quietly ruins relationships?

In this episode, we break down some of the most common relationship advice phrases you've heard your entire life and give our honest, unfiltered thoughts on them.

We're coming into this conversation from two very different perspectives, which we love and why we're here! Lahana has been with her husband for 17 years and married for most of that time, while Meagan has been divorced and is currently dating. Together, we've experienced long-term commitment, heartbreak, growth, starting over, and everything in between.

This is Part 1 of this series, where we cover everything from communication to effort. Tune in next week for part 2!

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In this episode, Meagan breaks down what she's learned from dating in Austin — from the things she notices immediately when meeting someone in person, to her favorite types of dates, and yes… a few dates that ended up in just a new friendship (shared without naming names 👀, so don't worry boys!)

As Meagan reflects on her experiences, Lahana jumps in to call out red flags, questionable behavior, and patterns that too often get normalized in dating, turning the conversation into equal parts insight, validation, and real talk. The focus isn't on specific people — it's on awareness with some tea LOL.

If you're dating, redefining your standards, or just love a good dating debrief with perspective, this one will feel like a girls' night conversation you didn't know you needed.

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