In this episode of This Is How She Does It, host Angela Lee sits down with Ashley Paré, executive coach, speaker, and CEO/founder of Own Your Worth, for a powerful and grounded conversation about self-worth, compensation, and trusting yourself in your career.
Ashley shares her journey from climbing the corporate HR ladder to burning out, questioning her identity, and ultimately redefining what worth really means—beyond titles, salaries, and external validation. Drawing on her experience negotiating pay, witnessing systemic inequities in the workplace, and navigating motherhood and entrepreneurship, Ashley offers honest insight into why so many women struggle to ask for what they deserve.
Together, Angela and Ashley unpack the invisible forces shaping women’s professional lives—from childhood conditioning and societal expectations to the pressure to perform and prove. They explore practical strategies for salary negotiation and pay transparency, while also inviting a deeper conversation about separating your self-worth from your market value.
This episode is for any woman who is done over-functioning, tired of tying her value to productivity, and ready to trust herself, advocate for herself, and create a more empowering path at work, at home, and within.
Key Takeaways - Why self-worth and market value are not the same—and how confusing the two keeps women stuck
- How external validation, childhood conditioning, and corporate culture shape how women show up at work
- What it really takes to trust yourself when asking for more pay, boundaries, or support
Looking to redefine self worth and success for yourself? Sign up and get access to my new, free Masterclass - The Aligned Advantage: https://angelaleecoaching.com/masterclass
In this Masterclass, you’ll discover:
- How to Stop the Hustle and step into who you really are
- The new formula for success (that doesn't include working harder)
- Your Human Design Type and how to apply it to the new success formula
- How to are here to make decisions and attract new opportunities
Connect with Ashley Paré:
- Book an Own Your Worth® Clarity Call today
- IG: @iamashleypare
- Website: ashleypare.com
Connect with Angela:
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