Nobody can manifest their way to a million dollars.

But a lot of people are selling the course anyway.

Think about it. Promise someone money and they’ll buy. Promise fame and they’ll buy. Promise a bigger following and they’ll buy. It is the easiest thing in the world to sell.

I used to follow a woman who sold a manifestation course. Called herself a Christian. And her biggest win of the year was that the year she divorced her husband was the year she made the most money.

At what cost?

In this video, I’m getting honest about the pull every one of us feels. More success. More followers. More money. I feel it too. I run a company. I have a channel. Of course I want it to grow.

But I’ve watched creators hit a million subscribers by telling people to leave their marriages. And the comments prove it works.

You can gain the whole world and lose your soul.

I’ll tell you the story of how God called my husband and me to adopt, why I know that wasn’t manifestation, and what the prophets teach us about chasing a vision that was never about getting rich.

I don’t have all the answers. These are just my musings. But before you spend $49 to manifest your future, it’s worth asking what it’s doing to your soul.

I'm Dr. Kimberly Beam Holmes. After a decade transforming marriages at Marriage Helper, I've realized that the greatest tragedy isn't a failed relationship; it's the person who stays stuck and never experiences the fullness of all God intended.

The Way You Show Up is for the high-achiever who is tired of "fine."

We're dismantling the average life to build an exceptional one—using the science of the PIES: Physical, Intellectual, Emotional, and Spiritual health.

If you want to save your marriage, go to Marriage Helper. If you want to master yourself and lead your legacy, stay here.

New episodes every Thursday.

Don't just exist. Show up.

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How do you prove to your spouse that you’ve really changed?

It’s one thing to say you’re different. It’s another thing for your spouse to actually believe that the change is real, especially when there have been years of hurt, broken trust, or patterns that keep resurfacing.

In this episode, I’m taking live calls from people facing difficult situations in their marriages and their lives.

One caller has been separated from his wife for eight months and is now facing divorce. He believes he’s made significant changes in how he handles his anger, but his wife still isn’t convinced. So what does she actually need to see from him? And how can he begin rebuilding a sense of safety without constantly trying to convince her to save the marriage?

I also talk with a woman whose struggle with holding onto years of papers and belongings is keeping her from moving forward with her husband, and we break down how to make progress when you know what you need to do but still struggle to do it.

Then, I talk with a woman whose husband left during an affair. Now the affair may be over, his behavior toward her has started to change, and she’s wondering whether it’s time to tell him again that she still loves him, forgives him, and wants their marriage to work.

I'm Dr. Kimberly Beam Holmes. After a decade transforming marriages at Marriage Helper, I've realized that the greatest tragedy isn't a failed relationship; it's the person who stays stuck and never experiences the fullness of all God intended.

The Way You Show Up is for the high-achiever who is tired of "fine."

We're dismantling the average life to build an exceptional one—using the science of the PIES: Physical, Intellectual, Emotional, and Spiritual health.

If you want to save your marriage, go to Marriage Helper. If you want to master yourself and lead your legacy, stay here.

New episodes every Thursday.

Don't just exist. Show up.

🔗 Website: https://kimberlybeamholmes.com

🎥YouTube https://youtube.com/@kimberlybeamholmes

📱 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kimberlybeamholmes

Stop labeling people.

Narcissist. Toxic. Gaslighter. Whatever the new pop psychology word is this week.

I found a channel over the weekend. Christian branding. Millions of views. The whole message was the same: if your relationship is hard, it’s the other person. Cut them out. God will judge them.

That’s not what scripture says.

Micah 6:8 is simple. Act justly. Love mercy. Walk humbly with your God.

Simple. Not easy.

It’s easier to diagnose someone than to have the hard conversation. It’s easier to hold a grudge than to ask for forgiveness. It’s easier to cut people off than to look at what you did.

But easy is a lie. The easy way out leaves you lonelier, angrier, and more walled off than before.

I know this because I lived it. Twenty years of bitterness toward one person. Every right to feel it. And a couple of years ago, I finally forgave. Not because they earned it. Because carrying it was killing me.

In this video, I break down why the “cut them out” message is spreading so fast, what narcissism actually is from a psychological standpoint, and what to do instead when a relationship that matters to you gets hard.

Some relationships aren’t healthy. Some need distance. That’s real.

But the mindset matters. Us versus them will poison everything it touches.

There’s a better way. It’s narrow. It’s hard. And it’s the only one that actually works.

I'm Dr. Kimberly Beam Holmes. After a decade transforming marriages at Marriage Helper, I've realized that the greatest tragedy isn't a failed relationship; it's the person who stays stuck and never experiences the fullness of all God intended.

The Way You Show Up is for the high-achiever who is tired of "fine."

We're dismantling the average life to build an exceptional one—using the science of the PIES: Physical, Intellectual, Emotional, and Spiritual health.

If you want to save your marriage, go to Marriage Helper. If you want to master yourself and lead your legacy, stay here.

New episodes every Thursday.

Don't just exist. Show up.

🔗 Website: https://kimberlybeamholmes.com

🎥YouTube https://youtube.com/@kimberlybeamholmes

📱 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kimberlybeamholmes