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Choosing what comes after high school can feel overwhelming—for teens and parents.
In this episode, Cynthia Coufal breaks down the most common post-secondary planning mistakes families make and explains how to make calmer, more thoughtful decisions about college, gap years, work, or other paths.

If you’re feeling pressure to “just decide,” comparing yourself to others, or worrying that one choice will determine your entire future—this conversation is for you.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

Why there is no single right decision after high school
Why college is often treated like a test—and why that creates anxiety
How deadlines increase pressure (and how to plan without panic)
What teens should consider before choosing college
Why this decision is not permanent—and never has to be

This episode is designed for:
✔️ High school students
✔️ Parents of teens
✔️ Families navigating college or post-secondary planning
✔️ Anyone feeling anxious about “what comes next”

🔗 RESOURCES & SUPPORT

If you’d like support with:

Post-secondary planning
Understanding strengths and decision-making
Reducing anxiety around college and life after high school

You can:

Contact me and ask questions.

Feeling unsure doesn’t mean you’re behind—it means you haven’t been given the right tools yet.

YouMap® helps you understand:
• what energizes you
• what drains you
• how you make decisions
• what environments fit you best

That self-awareness makes college and life decisions lighter.

👉 Start with YouMap® here:
https://cheerful-writer-462.kit.com/products/takethe-you-map-assessment

00:00 – Take a breath: There is no one right decision
02:00 – Why pressure makes decisions harder
05:00 – Why confidence doesn’t mean certainty
08:00 – Mistake #1: Treating college like a test
10:00 – Choosing college for the wrong reasons
12:00 – Mistake #2: Deciding to reduce anxiety
15:00 – Mistake #3: Confusing confidence with certainty
18:00 – Mistake #4: Not knowing your “why”
22:00 – Independence, stress, and readiness
26:00 – Mistake #5: Believing this decision is forever
30:00 – My own college story (0.0 GPA → 4.0)
34:00 – The “next best environment” question
38:00 – What parents can do differently
42:00 – Final reassurance + support options

Struggling with anxiety in your family? If anxiety is causing tension, fights, or disconnect in your home, you don’t have to face it alone. I help parents bring more peace, confidence, and connection to their families. Let’s talk—schedule a free consultation today or email me: ccoufal@cynthiacoufalcoaching.com

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I didn’t disappear—I slowed down on purpose.

In this episode, I’m sharing where I’ve been, why I took a step back, and what’s changing in the new year. I’ve truly missed this space and the conversations we’ve had here, and this pause gave me time to get clear about what I want to focus on and how I want to do this work.

Starting now, I’ll be releasing one podcast episode a month—on purpose. Slower. Deeper. More intentional. Episodes you can actually sit with instead of rushing through.

Most importantly, this episode is an invitation.

I want to hear from:

Teens: What do you need most right now when it comes to anxiety, stress, and feeling understood?

Parents: What feels confusing, overwhelming, or lonely in supporting your teen?

School counselors & educators: What support, tools, or conversations would actually make your work more sustainable?

I don’t want to guess what you need anymore—I want to listen.

If this episode resonates, I’d love for you to:
👉 Comment below
👉 Send me a message
👉 Share what you’d like me to talk about this year

Thank you for being here. I’m really glad we’re doing this together.

💛
Cynthia

Struggling with anxiety in your family? If anxiety is causing tension, fights, or disconnect in your home, you don’t have to face it alone. I help parents bring more peace, confidence, and connection to their families. Let’s talk—schedule a free consultation today or email me: ccoufal@cynthiacoufalcoaching.com

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Email me: ccoufal@cynthiacoufalcoaching.com
Text me: 785-380-2064
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What if one simple question could help your teen break free from anxiety, self-doubt, and the negative stories they’ve been carrying all year?

In this powerful end-of-year episode, we revisit one of the most transformational tools I’ve ever used as a school counselor and teen anxiety coach: the story your teen is telling themselves — and how to help them rewrite it for 2026.

Teens are living with heavy narratives like:
“I’m the anxious one.”
“I’m always behind.”
“I mess everything up.”
“Everyone else has it together except me.”

These aren’t truths — they’re stories, often written by fear and anxiety.
And parents have more influence than they realize in helping teens choose a healthier, braver, more grounded identity.

Inside this episode, you’ll learn:

✨ The #1 question every family should ask before the year ends
✨ How anxiety quietly rewrites your teen’s identity
✨ A 3-step reflection activity you can do together this week
✨ How school counselors and educators can use this in January
✨ How to help your teen name the story they WANT to live in 2026
✨ Why chapter-title exercises build confidence, clarity, and emotional resilience

This is a gentle, hopeful reset — for you and your teen — before the new year begins.

If you want to build connection, calm anxious patterns, and support your teen’s confidence in 2026, this episode will walk you step-by-step into the conversations that change everything.

If you want deeper support as you raise a teen who struggles with anxiety, join Parenting Through the Maze — my private parent community where I teach calm communication, confidence-building strategies, and practical tools to help your child grow into their strongest, healthiest self.
https://www.betterregulatethannever.com/parenting-through-the-maze

I also work 1:1 with young people to help them write a new story. If you would like me to be a story guide for your child, set up a time for us to talk about the details.
👉 Here is my calendar: https://calendly.com/ccoufal/yourfamilysnextstep

And if this episode helped you, please LIKE, SUBSCRIBE, and SHARE it with another parent who could use a little encouragement today.

Your teen’s story isn’t finished — and neither is yours. Let’s write the next chapter together.

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Email me: ccoufal@cynthiacoufalcoaching.com
Text me: 785-380-2064
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