(featuring Steven Bradley, “The Tech Cowboy”)

Hannah sits down with former FBI investigator and certified “Tech Cowboy” Steven Bradley — a digital safety expert who has seen every trick, trap, and tech-enabled manipulation used in divorces and abusive relationships.

If you’re anywhere near divorce — contemplating it, in the thick of separation, or rebuilding after — this episode is a wake-up call you cannot skip.

Steven exposes the invisible ways technology gets weaponized:
tracking, cloning phones, spying through Alexa, manipulating text messages, hijacking your Wi-Fi, pulling your location from your AirPods, and even rewriting the narrative inside co-parenting communication.

If you’ve ever had the gut feeling he knows too much… or things just feel off… you’re not crazy.

And you’re not helpless.

This episode teaches you the digital safety steps every woman should take — with or without conflict — so you can reclaim your privacy, your safety, and your peace.

00:00 – Why Technology Is the New Battlefield in Divorce

02:00 – Steven’s Background in FBI Cyber & Domestic Crimes

03:00 – How Your Passwords, Security Questions & Shared Accounts Put You at Risk

05:40 – What’s at Stake If You Ignore Digital Safety

08:50 – Lock It Down: The First Safety Steps Every Woman Should Take

12:10 – The One Thing Almost Everyone Forgets to Change

14:35 – How to Time Your Security Changes Without Starting a War

17:52 – When You’re in a High-Conflict Situation: Advanced Protection

20:25 – Spyware, Stalkerware & Phone Cloning

23:00 – The First 3–4 Months After Separation: The Most Dangerous Window

29:19 – Car Trackers, AirPods, and “Find My” Manipulation

31:59 – Validation: You’re Not Crazy

34:37 – What Lawyers Don’t Understand (Yet) About Tech Abuse

38:09 – Preventative Tech Boundaries for Healthy Marriages & New Starts

42:54 – The Co-Parenting Tool That Changes Everything: OurFamilyWizard

49:48 – Real Talk: You Don’t Have to Be Techy to Stay Safe

54:32 – Not Saving It for Later: What Steven Learned the Hard Way

56:00 – The Thought That’s Been Circling Steven’s Mind

57:02 – What’s Shaking Him Lately

58:07 – His One Message for Women in Divorceland

Connect With Steven:

LinkedIn → https://www.linkedin.com/in/steven-bradley-10136022/

OurFamilyWizard → ourfamilywizard.com/HHB
(The co-parenting tool used by courts nationwide — and the one Hannah personally swears by.)

Mentioned In This Episode

The Circle — Weekly live coaching + The My Confident Divorce course
→ myconfidentdivorce.com/circle

Hembree Bell Law Firm (Texas)
→ hembreebell.com

Follow Hannah on Instagram & TikTok → @hannahhembreebell

This podcast is for education and inspiration only — not legal, medical, or mental health advice.
If you’re in Texas and need legal support, consult a licensed attorney.
If you’re in danger, call 911 or the National Domestic Violence Hotline: 800-799-SAFE (7233).