Episodi

  • Your Pain Is Not Up for Debate
    Feb 21 2026

    Medical trauma isn’t always a procedure. Sometimes it’s disbelief.

    In this episode, we talk about what happens when women are cast as unreliable narrators of their own bodies—and how to reclaim the story. From birth injury dismissal to neurodivergent ableism, this is about power, authorship, and refusing to let someone else define your pain.

    You are not a faulty narrator.

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    11 min
  • AI Relationships: When Therapy Meets the Algorithm
    Nov 12 2025

    Sam Altman says 2025 is the year people start using ChatGPT for their emotional lives — to process relationships, rehearse hard conversations, and even find comfort. So what happens when your clients start doing therapy with an algorithm?

    In this crossover episode of TwoX Labs x The Soft Science, Dr. Erika Miley breaks down: 🧠 What AI actually is (and isn’t) — and why it can sound empathetic without ever understanding you. 💬 How clients are turning to AI for emotional support — and what needs that really meets. ⚠️ Why therapists must start asking about AI use the same way we ask about coping skills. 🛑 What harm reduction looks like when AI becomes part of the therapy process. 🧩 How professional associations need to protect the field — before insurance companies decide AI can replace human care.

    This episode is for therapists, clients, and anyone trying to navigate the messy new frontier where care meets code.

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    32 min
  • Welcome to The Soft Science
    Oct 30 2025

    Where pleasure is data, shame gets dissected, and your executive dysfunction is just another reason to question everything you've been told.

    I'm Dr. Erika Miley—licensed therapist, clinical sexologist, professor, and your favorite neurodivergent bisexual MILF with a brain that won't shut up and a mouth that refuses to cooperate (ask any teacher I've ever had).

    This space is for:

    • The curious and the kinky
    • The overstimulated and the over it
    • Women over 35 who are done playing small

    We're talking about sex without purity politics, trauma without making it your whole identity, and desire without a single apology.

    Because here's what I know: So many of us are living in bodies that were never taught to rest, feel, or want. We're out here raising kids, running businesses, surviving late-stage capitalism, and trying to remember what turns us on besides iced coffee and morally grey book boyfriends.

    The Soft Science is where we unpack all of it—your mental health, your sexual health, and everything in between. No shame, no bullshit, just research-backed real talk for women who are ready to reclaim their pleasure.

    Previously known as Sex Talk with Erika Miley—now evolved, expanded, and even less filtered.

    Let's get into it. 💋

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    2 min
  • Do we know what women want? | Interview ft. Dr. Meredith Chivers
    Dec 15 2022

    Does research in sex tell us what women want when it comes to pleasure? Dr. Meredith Chivers shares her 20 years of research. Join me on Patreon: https://patreon.com/sextalkwitherikamiley

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    20 min
  • Getting deeper with money and relationships ft. Kate Dorman
    Dec 8 2022

    Let’s talk about how money impacts your sex life, relationships, and power dynamics. Featuring the awesome Kate Dorman. | Join Patreon

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    31 min
  • How Can Your “Woo Woo” Support Your Pleasure ft. Erica Wiederlight
    Dec 1 2022

    Erika and Erica talk about how things seen as “woo woo” can really help you have a better sex life. Help support this podcast by joining my Patreon: https://patreon.com/sextalkwitherikamiley

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    31 min
  • From Shy Bisexual Kid to Sex Therapist ft. Dr. Lindsey Brooks
    Nov 24 2022

    Bisexuality, what is it and what are the myths around it. Featuring Dr. Lindsey Brooks, a licensed sex therapist. Want more content? Join me on Patreon: https://patreon.com/sextalkwitherikamiley

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    22 min
  • Is giving up sex and masturbation healthy? | No Nut November
    Nov 17 2022

    Masturbation is a healthy activity and the data just shows that there's no benefit to stopping. Do you help with sexual compulsion (addiction)? : https://mentalandsexualhealth.com

    Don't forget the lube: https://amzn.to/3AeuB4U

    Patreon: https://patreon.com/sextalkwitherikamiley

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    17 min