Michelle and Nicola spot a menopause shower gel on TV and tumble down a rabbit hole of menopause-branded everything. From £74 sleep candles to menopause chocolate (now discontinued), they ask: are these products genuinely helpful, or just a cynical cash grab riding the menopause conversation?

In this episode:

• Open banter: cat fantasies, ADHD tangents, and whether Nicola should vary her intro delivery (0:00)
• Michelle's renovation saga — the boudoir, the divan that won't fit, and the 10mm that ruined everything (2:34)
• Nicola's chaotic award-season schedule, forgotten dinner parties, and a pasta-bake rescue (5:20)
• A salad-storage tip that Michelle can't explain scientifically (6:44)
• The menopause shower gel that started it all (7:28)
• "We see you" or "We see your bank card?" — the explosion of menopause marketing (10:10)
• Vegan water, menopause shampoo, and why Michelle's hair looks like Aslan (12:10)
• Menopause chocolate — yes, it was real, and yes, it's been discontinued (13:58)
• A £74 menopause sleep candle — a fire hazard and a health hazard (15:50)
• Menopause tea, green tea, and a consultant's cancer-prevention advice (20:15)
• Hormone-balancing room mist — imagine your partner spraying it at you (23:14)
• "Would you rather" — menopause adverts everywhere vs. advertisers pretending women over 45 don't exist (29:20)
• Friends in menopause denial, and whether social media makes us over-identify with symptoms (30:40)
• What actually helps: lion's mane, magnesium, HRT, and doing what works for you (31:40)
• Final takeaway: you don't have to buy a whole new identity to get through menopause (34:50)
• Listener call to action (35:20)

Get in touch:

• Email: studio@thereinventiondiaries.co.uk
• Instagram: @thereinventiondiariespodcast
• Website: thereinventiondiaries.co.uk, nicolauacklandphotography.co.uk, mrsstylewright.com

Listener challenge: What's the most ridiculous menopause product you've spotted? And what has genuinely earned a place in your life? Michelle and Nicola want to hear from you.

Hosts: Michelle & Nicola Guest: Karolyn Gamble (Carolyn with a K!)

Episode Summary Karolyn Gamble joins Michelle and Nicola to share her decade-long journey from corporate marketing executive to self-determined entrepreneur. After 15 years working with major brands like McDonald's, Starbucks, and Boots, the arrival of her daughter made her question the trade-off between time and money that the 9-to-5 demands. Rather than quitting overnight, Karolyn built a gradual exit plan — starting with a single buy-to-let property and growing into a portfolio of four properties plus an Airbnb business. Along the way, she discovered that the hardest part wasn't the logistics — it was the mindset shift required to stop measuring her worth by hours sat at a desk.

Key Topics & Timestamps

• The wake-up call: When having a daughter changed everything about how Karolyn viewed work and time (approx. 5:00–6:30)
• "You're expected to work as if you're not a parent, and parent as if you don't have a job" — the impossible juggling act working mums face (approx. 9:30–10:30)
• How Audible turned car journeys into a "mobile library" for mindset growth (approx. 12:30–14:00)
• The loss of Karolyn's father-in-law — he gave 45 years to teaching, retired at 65, and passed away within 18 months, never enjoying the retirement he'd planned for (approx. 15:00–17:00)
• Building an exit plan: starting a side hustle alongside the day job rather than burning bridges (approx. 18:00–19:00)
• Why it took three full years to shake the 9-to-5 employee mindset (approx. 19:30–20:00)
• Life now: four properties, an Airbnb, and income that isn't tied to working hours (approx. 20:00–21:30)
• Karolyn's two passions today: proactive health for women in perimenopause and advocating for accessible residual income (approx. 22:30–26:00)

Free Resource from Karolyn Karolyn's free e-book: "The Universal Dilemma of Parenting — How Parenting Impacts Your Life, Work, and Relationships, and What You Can Actually Do About It." It's not a parenting tips book — it's about understanding the impact parenting has on you and giving yourself permission to want more. Link available via Karolyn's socials (see below).

Connect with Karolyn

• Website: karolinjgamble.co.uk
• Facebook: Karolyn J Gamble
• LinkedIn: Karolyn J Gamble
• TikTok: Karolyn J Gamble
• Instagram: Karolyn J Gamble

Guest Quick-Fire

• Favourite colours: Purple (always) and bright pink (to wear) — also her brand colours alongside blue and yellow
• Random act of kindness: Booked and paid for her solo-parent best friend to go to a spa while her son was away at camp

Connect with The Reinvention Diaries

• Email: studio@thereinventiondiaries.co.uk
• Instagram: @thereinventiondiariespodcast
• Website: thereinventiondiaries.co.uk, www.nicolaaucklandphotography.co.uk, www.mrsstylewright.com
• Want to be a guest? Visit the website to submit your application!

Reinvention Diaries — "I Swear My Brain Didn't Use to Work Like This"

Michelle and Nicola dive into how their brains seem to be working differently these days — from procrastination and deadline panic to losing words and walking into rooms with no idea why. They explore how perimenopause may be reshaping their mental strategies, what ADHD actually looks like in women (it wasn't even recognized in women until 2018), and why so many women are receiving late diagnoses in midlife.

Topics covered:

• Recording at 3pm instead of 9am — when brains stop cooperating
• Michelle's business retreat in Corfu (not a holiday!) and a lightbulb moment about her photography business
• Transitioning away from wedding photography due to physical strain — "my back can't take it anymore"
• The "busy fool" feeling: knowing what needs doing but not doing it
• Tips from a neurodivergence/menopausal brain coach: identify the boring part of a task, and stop shaming yourself for last-minute work — lean into it and plan for it
• Masking: how fitting in to feel "normal" erodes your identity over time
• Different learning styles — "elephants can't climb trees, so why ask them to?"
• ADHD in women: hereditary, lifelong, and often masked until perimenopause shakes coping strategies apart
• Michelle's two children with ADHD and what she's learned about the wide range of symptoms — internal hyperactivity, avoidance, eye-wandering, fidgeting
• The debate: is a formal diagnosis worth it if you don't plan to medicate?
• Men's vs women's brains: linear thinking vs. mental plate-spinning — learned behaviour or biology? (They'd love to find an expert to weigh in)
• Random act of kindness: rescuing a stranger's dropped noodles in Lidl

Listener question: Has your brain been less helpful lately? Have you looked into ADHD or neurodivergence as a possible explanation? Would you get diagnosed, or skip it?

Get in touch:

• Email: studio@thereinventiondiaries.co.uk
• Instagram: @thereinventiondiariespodcast
• Website: thereinventiondiaries.co.uk, Nicolaaucklandphotography.co.uk, mrsstylewright.com
• Want to share your story on the show? Visit the website for info on becoming a guest.

Hosts: Michelle Wright & Nicola Auckland

Summary: This week Michelle and Nicola tackle another "Would You Rather" question: Would you rather know what people think of you or never know anything? The conversation explores how much of our behaviour is shaped by wanting to be liked, whether we truly care less about others' opinions as we get older, and the difference between constructive criticism and hollow judgement.

Topics & Timestamps:

• Magnesium before bed and the placebo effect that works
• The "Would You Rather" question: knowing what people think vs. knowing nothing
• Whose opinion actually matters — friends and family vs. work colleagues vs. strangers
• The pie analogy: how much of someone's opinion you should weigh depending on how close they are to you
• Celebrities and opinions: Andre Agassi on why young people have it harder with social media
• Online cruelty and reactive comments — people don't think twice before posting
• Bad reviews vs. good reviews: why negative experiences are overrepresented
• How compliments can feel uncomfortable, and learning to take them
• Being less bothered by others' opinions as you age — the "don't give a shit phase"
• When someone's opinion hits home: attacks on your values, business, or children
• Michelle's story: discovering someone openly disliked her — "Because I hate her"
• Nicola's surprise: being told she's a role model, and practicing accepting it
• Social media silence, ghosting, and the spotlight effect — assuming people are judging when they're barely thinking about you
• Telepathy as a superpower? Why eavesdroppers never hear anything nice
• Heatless overnight curls — Michelle's big reveal

Question for listeners: Would you rather know what people think of you or never know anything? Get in touch and let us know.

Contact:

• Email: studio@thereinventiondiaries.co.uk
• Instagram: @thereinventiondiariespodcast
• Website: thereinventiondiaries.co.uk (find out how to be a guest!)
• Website: www.mrsstylewright.com
• Website: www.nicolaaucklandphotography.co.uk

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Hosts: Michelle (Style Coach & Colour Analyst)) & Nicola (Brand Photographer)

Episode Summary: Michelle and Nicola catch up after their holidays — Nicola's relaxing caravan trip to Scotland and Michelle's whirlwind 48 hours in Porto — before diving into a juicy hypothetical: Would you rather have financial security but answer to someone else, or financial uncertainty but answer only to yourself?

Key Topics:

• Holiday catch-up: Nicola's Scotland caravan getaway (laptop never left the bag), Michelle's quick Porto trip and the debate around "extreme day trips"
• The big question: A £100K employed job vs. £40K self-employed income — the initial "ick" reaction to working for someone else, and how the conversation shifts as the pros of employment start to sound appealing
• The pull of financial security: Guaranteed monthly income, pension contributions, sick pay, holiday pay, and the relief of not constantly chasing clients or worrying about marketing
• The reality check: A £100K salary likely means high pressure, long hours, limited holiday (20 days plus bank holidays), meetings, and someone else controlling your diary
• What self-employment really costs: Decision fatigue, wearing every department hat, the constant hustle for leads, and the guilt of watching Netflix on a workday
• The litmus test: Would you take the same job at £40K? If the answer is no, it's not the work calling you — it's the money
• Imposter syndrome: The creeping doubt of "why would they want me?" and the pressure of walking into an existing workplace culture as the "new whiz kid"
• What they wouldn't give up: Autonomy, flexibility, setting their own hours, being recognised for their expertise, and the freedom that both have built over years of self-employment
• Defining success: For both hosts, it's not about the money — it's freedom, recognition, and being the first name that comes to mind when someone needs a stylist or a photographer

Takeaway: Both hosts ultimately turn down the hypothetical £100K job — even doing what they love — because the freedom and autonomy of self-employment outweigh the comfort of a guaranteed paycheck.

Get in touch:

• Email: studio@thereinventiondiaries.co.uk
• Instagram: @thereinventiondiariespodcast
• Website: reinventiondiaries.co.uk (info on hosts, past episodes, and how to apply as a guest), www.mrsstylewright.com. www.nicolaaucklandphotography.co.uk

Hosts: Michelle & Nicola | ~39 min

Summary: Michelle and Nicola explore why September—not January—is the real season for reinvention. From the back-to-school feeling hardwired into all of us to an Instagram post about women who launched businesses after 45, they unpack confidence, thicker skin, changing definitions of success, and why it's never too late to start something new. They wrap with a Stop/Start/More challenge for listeners.

Topics:

• Travel catch-up: Porto, Greece, and Scotland
• Why September feels like a fresh start (school system + new stationery!)
• September as the "soft launch," January as the "hard launch"
• Nicola's August business lull vs. September surge in leads
• Michelle starting courses with Claire Lockie and fashion psychology
• Why we wait for arbitrary dates to give ourselves permission
• Women over 45 starting successful businesses: Vera Wang, Samuel L. Jackson
• 3+ years industry experience = 2x more likely to build a top company
• Why 45+ is better equipped: expertise, time, money, contacts, resilience
• UK stat: 17% of 50–64yr olds self-employed vs 12% of younger people
• Changing definitions of success: from money & status to time & freedom
• Things still on the list: knitting, piano, ballroom dancing, drawing
• Michelle's commitments: start workshops, return to Reformer Pilates & gym

Key Quotes: "September is the soft launch, January is the hard launch." — Michelle "They're not winding down, they're winding up." — Nicola "Your time just hasn't come yet." — Nicola

Listener Challenge: If September is your new January—what will you start, stop, and do more of? Don't wait for a date. Just do it now.

Connect: studio@thereinventiondiaries.co.uk · Instagram @thereinventiondiariespodcast · thereinventiondiaries.co.uk (apply to be a guest!) www.nicolaaucklandphotography.co.uk, www.mrsstylewright.com

Guest: Wendy Hill, Nutritional Therapist, founder of Hillstart Nutrition, author of Nourish to Flourish, and host of the Fab Female Nutrition podcast.

Episode Summary: Michelle and Nicola are joined by Wendy Hill, who spent 27 years in the building trade running a family business before reinventing herself as a nutritional therapist at 45. Wendy shares her journey of leaving a male-dominated industry, losing her work identity, and slowly discovering a new path rooted in her lifelong passion for food. The conversation covers body image, midlife nutrition, the frustration with wellness marketing, and practical steps women can take to feel better.

Key Topics:

• Reinvention from the building trade to nutrition: Wendy ran six builders' merchants with her brother before the working relationship broke down. She left at 40, took time to reset, and eventually retrained — completing a biomedicine foundation followed by a three-year nutritional therapy diploma.
• Identity and the masks we wear: Wendy describes how she adopted a hard, sharp persona in a "man's world" and didn't realise until years later that she was still defining herself by her former business. Her husband pointed it out on a train to London — 18 months after she'd left.
• Weight, health, and the "skinny" trend: Wendy pushes back on the return of skinny culture and BMI obsession, explaining that a little extra weight is biologically protective. Nicola shares her own experience of reaching a "healthy" BMI and being constantly cold.
• What brings women to her practice: The most common complaints are weight and a "loss of spark" — not feeling like themselves. Women often say, "What I used to do isn't working anymore."
• Frustration with wellness marketing: Wendy calls out the magic-pill mentality — expensive supplements and trendy shots — and says to start with the basics: a balanced plate of protein, colourful vegetables, fibre, and healthy fats.
• Midlife as a positive transformation: Wendy reframes menopause as a time when women become more regulated, compassionate, and confident — and how a "cloud lifts" on the other side of perimenopause.
• Practical tips from Wendy:
  1. Start with a balanced plate — protein, colour, fibre, healthy fats.
  2. Don't eat between meals — if your meals are balanced, you shouldn't need snacks.
  3. Manage stress — high-intensity exercise on top of a stressful life can backfire. Add yoga, Pilates, or strength work.
  4. Start the day well — don't snooze your alarm, eat a good breakfast within an hour of waking, ideally before 10am.

Wendy's Random Act of Kindness: A woman she'd been cooking for at the Lichfield Food Festival came back the next day with a homemade brownie to say thank you.

Wendy's Favourite Colour: Pink (shocking pink) — formerly red, which she wore for 27 years as her work uniform in the building trade.

Find Wendy:

• Instagram: @hillstartnutrition
• Podcast: Fab Female Nutrition
• Book: Nourish to Flourish — available on Amazon

Connect With Us:

• Email: studio@thereinventiondiaries.co.uk
• Instagram: The Reinvention Diaries podcast
• Website: reinventiondiaries.co.uk, www.mrsstylewright.com, www.nicolaaucklandphotography.co.uk

Michelle and Nicola record from Nicola's house for the first time, accompanied by a pack of dogs (including Betty the drama-queen poodle). This episode covers two main topics: a tribute to Dolly Parton and the month's theme — "the best decisions we nearly didn't make."

Segment 1 — Remembering Dolly Parton The hosts reflect on Dolly Parton's passing and her enormous cultural impact. They discuss her unapologetic authenticity, how she deliberately used her appearance to be underestimated, her sharp business acumen, and her philanthropy (gifting hundreds of millions of books through her Imagination Library). Michelle shares a listener story about a fan meeting Dolly at karaoke in Nashville. The hosts agree: "Be more Dolly."

Segment 2 — Best Decisions We Nearly Didn't Make

• Nicola shares how starting her business in her mid-40s after redundancy was the life-changing decision she almost didn't make. Fear of financial uncertainty and imposter syndrome nearly stopped her.
• Michelle talks about starting her business impulsively — unusual for a self-described procrastinator — and how naysayers only spurred her on.
• Regrets: Michelle wishes she'd skipped university and pursued dance as a child. Nicola regrets not niching into working with women entrepreneurs sooner, wasting 18 months trying to appeal to everyone.
• Fear vs. excitement: The hosts explore how fear and excitement share the same chemical response, and how to tell the difference — if it makes you smile, go for it.
• Current decisions: Michelle feels she's approaching a new phase as her youngest turns 18. Nicola is mulling over levelling up her marketing beyond social media, with plans to explore PR opportunities.

Listener Challenge: What's the best decision you nearly didn't make? Or what decision are you currently trying to talk yourself into or out of?

Contact:

• Email: studio@thereinventiondiaries.co.uk
• Instagram: @TheReinventionDiariesPodcast
• Website: thereinventiondiaries.co.uk
• www.nicolaauckland.co.uk
• www.mrsstylewright.com