Have you ever poured your heart into a long message — explaining, defending, clarifying — only to feel dismissed, misunderstood, or attacked all over again?

If so, you're not failing.
You're stuck in a communication trap that almost every well-meaning mom falls into.

In this episode, I explain why explaining yourself to your adult child actually makes things worse, especially when the relationship is strained or estranged. You'll learn about the JADE pattern — Justifying, Arguing, Defending, and Explaining — and why it fuels conflict instead of resolving it.

More importantly, I'll show you what to say instead so you can:

• Stop walking on eggshells
  
  

• Protect your peace and dignity
  
  

• Respond from strength instead of fear
  
  

• Validate emotions without accepting accusations
  
  

• Break the cycle of endless arguments
  
  

If you're exhausted, confused, or feel like you're losing yourself trying to keep the peace, I invite you to book a Heart-to-Heart Consultation — a guided call to help you find clarity and direction in your healing process.

This is not a coaching session.
It's a real conversation to explore what kind of support would best serve you right now.

👉 Book your Heart-to-Heart Consultation here: https://calendly.com/sallyharris-discoverycall/30min

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"She won't leave." It is every parent's nightmare: your adult child is living in your home, refusing to respect your rules, and you are forced to make the heartbreaking decision to evict them. In this raw and real episode of The Sally Harris Show, we discuss the devastating reality of evicting your own daughter and the legal boundaries you never thought you'd have to set.

If you are dealing with disrespectful adult children, squatting in your home, or feeling held hostage by your own child, this interview will validate your pain. We explore the deep financial betrayal, the guilt of "tough love," and how to find the courage to choose faith over fear when parenting goes wrong.

In this episode, we cover:

• The reality of evicting an adult child from your home.

• When "helping" becomes enabling: Recognizing financial abuse.

• How to set boundaries with adult children who refuse to leave.

• Overcoming the guilt of involving the law and lawyers.

• Finding strength in God during family estrangement.

About The Sally Harris Show (NEW!)

The Sally Harris Show is a faith-centered show featuring guest moms of estranged adult children sharing their real stories—voice only, names protected, and hearts honored.

Each episode offers an honest conversation with a mother navigating estrangement, limited contact, broken trust, or the slow and uncertain path toward healing. These are not scripted interviews or polished success stories. They are real moms bravely sharing what this season has been like, what they're learning, and how they're finding strength and faith along the way.

By keeping voices anonymous, this show creates a safe space for truth, vulnerability, and reflection—without fear of judgment or exposure. Together, we explore grief, guilt, hope, self-reflection, accountability, and what it means to keep going without giving up hope.

If you're a mom who feels unseen, overwhelmed, or caught between hope and heartbreak, The Sally Harris Show is here to remind you: you are not alone, your story matters, and healing is possible—even in the waiting.

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Feeling attacked, blamed, or misunderstood by your adult child can make any mom go into defensive mode.
When they say things like:
"You ruined my childhood."
"You never listened."
"You were never there for me."

…it hits a place in you that runs deep — your heart, your identity, your motherhood.

In this video, we're unpacking why defensiveness shows up so quickly, what it's really protecting inside of you, and how to respond in a way that keeps your peace and keeps the door open for future healing.
No perfection, no pressure — just grace, truth, and calm strength.

You'll learn:
• Why their criticism hits you harder than anyone else
• How shame, fear, and hurt fuel defensive reactions
• What defensiveness sounds like to your adult child
• How to respond without losing yourself or accepting false blame
• A faith-centered reframe that brings clarity and peace

You're not a bad mom.
You're a mom who cares — and that's why this is so painful.

I offer a Heart-to-Heart Consultation — a guided call where you and I look at your situation together and figure out what route would be best for you moving forward.

This isn't a coaching session.
It's a safe, calm space to talk openly, sort through what's happening, and explore what kind of support could finally bring you the clarity and peace you've been craving.

➡️ Book your Heart-to-Heart Consultation here: https://calendly.com/sallyharris-discoverycall/30min

EMPOWER MOM QUIZ: www.sally-harris.com/EmpowerMom

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If your adult child only reaches out when they need money — but avoids real relationship with you — you're not alone. So many moms are stuck in this painful pattern where they've become the ATM, not the parent.

In this episode, I'm breaking down why your adult child wants your $ but not your relationship, what this pattern is really about, and how you can lovingly step out of it without cutting them off or causing more distance.

You'll learn:
💛 The real reason they turn to you for money but not connection
💛 Why financial support becomes the only door they'll open
💛 The emotional and spiritual cost of transactional contact
💛 How to stop the cycle with calm, confident boundaries
💛 What to expect when you finally say "no more"
💛 And how to reclaim YOUR peace, stability, and future

This isn't about blaming your child or calling them manipulative.
This is about breaking an unhealthy pattern that hurts both of you —
and choosing a healthier way forward.

1️⃣ Be a Guest on The Sally Harris Show
If you want to anonymously share your story and receive real-time support from me on the show, you can apply here. It's powerful, healing, and helps you and other moms feel less alone. Email team@sally-harris.com

2️⃣ Book a Heart-to-Heart Consultation
If you prefer private guidance, you can book a Heart-to-Heart Consultation. It's a guided call to determine what is best…1:1 or group coaching fo ryou. Its for Moms who are ready to dive in

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If you've said any of these four phrases to your adult child — even once — you may have pushed them farther away than you ever intended. Not because you're a bad mom… but because hurt, fear, and confusion can make any of us speak from pain instead of calm.

In today's episode, I'm breaking down four common phrases that deeply impact adult children, especially during tension, low contact, or estrangement. These phrases often come from love — but are received as pressure, invalidation, or criticism.

If you're noticing any of these patterns in yourself, take a breath.
Self-awareness is the turning point.
And it is not too late to repair this.

You'll learn:
✨ Why certain phrases trigger shutdown or distance
✨ How adult children interpret these messages
✨ What to say instead to create emotional safety
✨ How to begin repairing communication — even after years of strain

These four phrases include:
• "After everything I've done for you."
• "You're too sensitive."
• "You're not parenting them right."
• "When I was your age…"
• "Why don't you love me?"

Each one hits a different emotional nerve — and today, I'm going to show you exactly how to replace them with calm, healthy communication that invites respect instead of pushing them away.

If you're hurting, confused, or feeling stuck in your relationship with your adult child… you are not alone. There is a path forward.

💛 Ready for clarity, healing, and support?
Book a Heart-to-Heart Consultation — a guided call to help you find direction and emotional peace, even in the waiting.
https://calendly.com/sallyharris-discoverycall/30min

You can also:
→ Take the EmpowerMom Quiz to identify your healing phase: www.sally-harris.com/EmpowerMom

You deserve peace, hope, and a life that continues to move forward — no matter what season your child is in.

Are you afraid that if you stop chasing your estranged adult child… you'll lose them completely?
So many moms feel that same fear — but constant reaching out, overexplaining, and emotional messages often push them farther away instead of opening the door.

In today's episode, I'm breaking down how to stop chasing your adult child without giving up hope, and how to shift into calm, steady, pressure-free communication that protects your heart while leaving the door open for them.

You'll learn:
✨ The real difference between chasing and loving presence
✨ Why pressure makes adult children pull away
✨ What healthy, faith-based hope actually looks like
✨ Gentle ways to reach out that don't feel like chasing
✨ How to build a life that isn't on pause while you wait

If you're emotionally exhausted, anxious, or constantly second-guessing yourself… this episode will help you breathe again.

I offer private Heart-to-Heart Consultations —
A guided call to help you find direction and peace in your healing process.
This isn't a coaching session, but a safe conversation where we explore what kind of support can truly strengthen you.

➡️ Book your Heart-to-Heart Consultation here:
https://calendly.com/sallyharris-discoverycall/30min

You can also volunteer to be a guest on The Sally Harris Show if you'd like your story to help another mom walking this road. Email us at team@sally-harris.com for that.

Subscribe for more faith-centered guidance on estrangement, boundaries, emotional healing, and reclaiming your life as a mom who loves her child deeply.

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If you're stepping into a new year feeling worn out from the emotional weight of estrangement… this video is for you.

Today, we're talking about the five powerful goals you can set for your healing in 2026 — goals that have nothing to do with fixing your adult child, chasing them, or waiting for them to change.

Because your life is allowed to move forward… even if they're not ready to come back yet.
This can be your healing year.

Inside this episode, you'll learn:

💛 How to build emotional strength so you don't spiral every time you're triggered
💛 How to reconnect with God and stop carrying this pain alone
💛 How to rediscover who you are outside the role of "mom trying to fix everything"
💛 How to rebuild your health, energy, and peace
💛 How to create real support, so you're not walking this road isolated anymore

These goals will help you move through 2026 with more clarity, more peace, and more purpose — even if nothing changes with your estranged adult son or daughter.

Book a Heart-to-Heart Consultation:
A guided call to help you find clarity and direction in your healing process.
This call is for moms who are ready to explore coaching and want to discuss what support fits their situation best.

👉 Book here: https://calendly.com/sallyharris-discoverycall/30min

Take the EmpowerMom Quiz — 20 quick questions to help you understand what support you need based on where you are in your estrangement journey.

👉 Take the quiz: www.sally-harris.com/EmpowerMom

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Are you terrified to reach out to your estranged adult child because you're afraid of being ignored… or rejected all over again?
You're not alone. And you're not weak. This fear is real, and it comes from the deep pain of loving someone who keeps their distance.

In today's episode, we'll talk about:

🌿 Why rejection from your adult child cuts so deeply
🌿 The freeze response—and why moms shut down instead of reaching out
🌿 How to send gentle, safe, no-pressure messages
🌿 How to reach out without chasing, overwhelming, or setting things back
🌿 Why your worth is NOT tied to their silence

This isn't about convincing your child to respond.
It's about helping you feel grounded, steady, and hopeful again — without losing yourself in the process.

If you're feeling stuck, hurting, or unsure what to do next, I'd love to talk with you.
I offer a Heart-to-Heart Consultation — a guided call to help you find clarity and direction in your healing process.

👉 This private conversation is for moms who are ready to consider coaching and want personal guidance on their next best step.

https://calendly.com/sallyharris-discoverycall/30min

🎙 Want to Share Your Story on The Sally Harris Show?

You can be a guest with audio only — no video required.
Email: team@sally-harris.com

Real moms.
Real stories.
Real healing.

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