Feeling attacked, blamed, or misunderstood by your adult child can make any mom go into defensive mode.
When they say things like:
"You ruined my childhood."
"You never listened."
"You were never there for me."

…it hits a place in you that runs deep — your heart, your identity, your motherhood.

In this video, we're unpacking why defensiveness shows up so quickly, what it's really protecting inside of you, and how to respond in a way that keeps your peace and keeps the door open for future healing.
No perfection, no pressure — just grace, truth, and calm strength.

You'll learn:
• Why their criticism hits you harder than anyone else
• How shame, fear, and hurt fuel defensive reactions
• What defensiveness sounds like to your adult child
• How to respond without losing yourself or accepting false blame
• A faith-centered reframe that brings clarity and peace

You're not a bad mom.
You're a mom who cares — and that's why this is so painful.

I offer a Heart-to-Heart Consultation — a guided call where you and I look at your situation together and figure out what route would be best for you moving forward.

This isn't a coaching session.
It's a safe, calm space to talk openly, sort through what's happening, and explore what kind of support could finally bring you the clarity and peace you've been craving.

➡️ Book your Heart-to-Heart Consultation here: https://calendly.com/sallyharris-discoverycall/30min

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