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The Power of Embracing Discomfort with Jessica Ateman, LMFT

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Jessica Ateman in her own words: Lady. Wife. Mother. Daughter. Sister. Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist. Art Therapist. LatinX. Marathon Runner. But who am I really? Those are labels that others have used to describe me or to describe accomplishments at various points in my life. I am a human, seeking to grow and help others grow. I am a nomad at heart. I love experiencing - good and bad - very much the existentialist. I believe the only person you are racing to the finish line is the person you were yesterday and I live by that. On a more professional note: I am currently working in IBH part time in California and I am also running a private practice part time. I have spent the majority of my career in pediatric behavioral health, but have spent the last two years focused on family and couples treatment from the Gottman Perspective sprinkled with the Fair Play method. Having worked in community mental health throughout my career, I believe cultural competence and trauma informed care are essential. I also believe that the therapy world is evolving and am very much looking forward to its continued evolution. Jess is an unapologetic powerhouse, a forward-facing, direct-speaking, no bullshite, first generation LatinX woman who also happens to be a great marriage and family therapist. In this episode we discuss: creativity as self-carehow comfort can actually cause anxiety and depressionhow discomfort can be an evolution factor to foster our own growthThe Comfort Crisis and the Misogi Challengethe discomfort of not doing things well and not being a naturalJessica’s professional shift to seeing mental health as a holistic treatment that includes biological factorsice baths to reduce anxiety and depressionthe search to find the right place to live, and to settle downthe importance of place and natural setting, and the grounding of returning to naturethe repercussions of technology on youth; Jess recommends the book iGen the feedback loop of information from social media and the effects on developmentfeeling like an impostor in your own culture due to the mixed messages of social mediaAnthony Bourdain on the displacement of Chicanos in American societythe pressures of being a first generation citizen from a family of immigrantsthe dynamics of living in a mixed-race family in our current political atmosphereraising children with radical honesty regarding race and culturethe importance of having the hard conversations, particularly regarding racehow saying “I don’t see color” is actually saying you don’t believe the different lived reality of people of color and not acknowledging the truth of their lived experiencehow Americans lack a sense of place and how the “I don’t see color” attitude connotes a lack of understanding of an individual’s place of roots, family, and originthe “rape-colored skin” article and how people become ‘white-presenting’how representation in popular culture is a key piece of opening discussions around race and culture, particularly with childrenhow being a part of the generation breaking the legacy of intergenerational trauma requires constant learning and evolving attitudes and understandingthe habits of thought, attitudes, and assumptions about reality that are passed down through generations without conscious knowledgethe year of fearlessness and living without shamethe therapist as healer and the modern version of the brujaThe Gift of Fear - how women are taught not to trust their own intuitionthe internal compass of safety and how to treat it as a reliable source of informationthe consequences of denying experiences and emotions and how we do this to our kidsgiving the grace of unconditional positive regard to the people we lovethe way that we unconsciously give our children conditional love without even realizing itthe ripple effect of learning how to feel a change in development in ourselves and how to resource that feelthe monkey mind and circling back to the enlightenment of discomfortgiving yourself the gift of being seen by stating your needs and following throughthe importance of comparing yourself not to others but to who you were yesterdayThe Power of Now - mindfulness and presence as a route to knowing your own needsthe internalized cultural constructs of what it means to be a woman and the importance of challenging those ideas through practiceThe Gottman Institute framework of couple’s therapy and the freedom of moving from conflict resolution to conflict managementthe Fair Play method of division of labor and why it’s so freaking useful to get support from your partnerthe minimum standard of care - what it means and how to negotiate itthe resilience factor of humor and why it’s so important to relationship longevitythe mental load of everyday life and the metaphor of holding boxes and the 13th rabbit aka trigger stacking (Warwick Schiller ) (Equusoma ) (Dr.Dan Siegel )the power of ritualization and how to metabolize difficult ...
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