Corey Warren had it all: money, a family, and 10 years sober. Then he drank one beer.

In this episode, Corey joins Patrick Custer to dismantle the myth that you can "outgrow" addiction. We discuss the terrifying speed of his relapse—from one drink at a bar to blacking out daily in just 60 days—and the "successful failure" that nearly cost him his family.

Corey reveals the specific moment that broke him: sitting on a luxury boat he bought to win his daughter’s affection, only to hear the six words that money couldn't fix. If you are chasing success to quiet your shame, or navigating the guilt of co-parenting, this conversation is the wake-up call you need.

In this episode, we cover:

1. The "10-Year Lie": Why long-term sobriety doesn't mean you're cured.
2. The Boat Story: How trying to buy his daughter's love backfired.
3. The "Radio Glitch": The unexplainable moment that forced Corey back into recovery.
4. "Work Sobriety": Why trading alcohol for 80-hour work weeks is just a different form of sickness.
5. Parenting Through Guilt: How to stop performing for your kids and start connecting with them.

Quotes from the episode:

Connect with Corey:

1. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/icoreywarren
2. TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@icoreywarren
3. YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@icoreywarren
4. Website: https://www.coreywarren.com

Connect with Patrick:

1. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepatrickcuster/
2. TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thepatrickcuster
3. YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thepatrickcuster

CHAPTERS:

0:00 - The "Do It For Yourself" Lie

01:16 - Welcome to The Patrick Custer Show

05:20 - "If I Had Cancer, I'd Ask For Help"

11:26 - "Dad, I Need My Tablet": Parenting & Addiction

20:22 - The "Normal Drinker"...

From "Slide Singing" Beyoncé to battling autoimmune disease—this is the wildest journey of healing you'll hear this year.

Patrick sits down with viral comedian Andi Marie Tillman (and her alter-ego Aunt Pam) for a masterclass in satire and survival. We laugh at the absurdity of religious performance ("Belinda the Interpreter") so we can heal from the trauma of it.

We Cover:

1. The Comedy of Dogma: Why we laugh at the culture we grew up in.
2. The "Victorian Woman": Andi’s hilarious take on chronic illness.
3. Reconstruction: How to keep your faith when the system breaks.
4. Sobriety: The reality of facing life without a buffer.

Mentioned in this Episode:

1. "All Her Fault" (Peacock)
2. The "Skibidi Toilet" Phenomenon

We dive into a hilariously candid conversation with comedian Andi Marie Tillman, who joins me, Patrick Custer, for a wild ride through her comedic journey and the ups and downs of life. Right off the bat, we chat about her unique approach to comedy, including her quirky tales of having a tongues interpreter who hilariously flips the script, interpreting her everyday chat into something utterly nonsensical. We also touch on her experiences with gratitude, health challenges, and the rollercoaster of recovery, all while keeping the laughs rolling. Andi's vibrant personality shines through as we explore her adventures in navigating life, relationships, and the struggle between public persona and personal reality. So, grab your favorite snack, kick back, and get ready for some belly laughs and heartfelt moments that remind us all that life is a beautifully messy journey! Diving into the vibrant world of comedy, this episode features a delightful chat between host Patrick Custer and the witty Andi Marie Tillman. From the get-go, the banter flows like a refreshing glass of lemonade on a hot summer day, as they explore the ups and downs of life, laughter, and everything in between. The conversation kicks off with Andi’s humorous take on the intricacies of life’s everyday challenges, including her witty commentary on being a mother and the delightful chaos that comes with it. With her unique perspective, Andi shares anecdotes that have the audience chuckling, all while weaving in meaningful insights about gratitude and resilience. “We have no idea what our life is going to actually look like,” she remarks, reminding us all to embrace uncertainty with a smile. As the episode progresses, Patrick and Andi delve into the nuances of self-identity, the importance of authenticity in comedy, and how humor can be a powerful tool for healing. Andi’s candidness about her own struggles with addiction and mental health adds depth to the conversation, making it not just a light-hearted romp but also a heartfelt exploration of overcoming adversity. She shares her journey of personal growth, emphasizing that while laughter is essential, acknowledging our struggles is equally crucial. “I want to cross between the Wiz and, like, gutter slut,” she quips, showcasing her ability to blend humor with real talk effortlessly. Listeners are treated to an emotional rollercoaster as Patrick and Andi navigate topics like societal expectations, the often unrealistic portrayal of life on social media, and the pressure to maintain a certain image. The episode wraps up on a high note, leaving audiences not only entertained but also inspired

For nearly two decades, the official story was that Michael Passons left the multi-platinum group Avalon to "pursue other interests." Today, the silence ends.

In this conclusion to our interview, Michael takes us inside the room on June 30, 2003, detailing the unannounced "intervention" at his home that erased him from the band he helped build. He opens up about the industry ultimatum - "get cured or get out" - and the reality of the "reparative therapy" sessions that failed to change who he was, but succeeded in breaking his spirit.

But the trauma is only half the story. This episode is a masterclass in survival and healing. Michael shares how he navigated the "dark night of the soul" after being muzzled by NDAs and management , how he deconstructed the narrative that he was "broken," and how he finally made peace with the "boy in the mirror."

The truth was brutal, but the healing is beautiful.

00:03. - The Ambush: "June 30, 2003: They Came to My House"

01:54. - The Secret: "I'm Gay" (Admitting the Lie)

05:20. - Family, faith and the barrier to belonging - the "othering" of LGBTQ+ people

08:47. - Reaching Out for Help

09:16. - Reparative Therapy: Calling Mike Malloy & The "Cure" That Failed

12:30. - The Process: Weekly Sessions at Reparative Therapy

17:10. - The Duality of Self

21:15. - The Spy: "Someone Saw Me at a Club" (The Beginning of the End)

23:02. - The "Purple Mirror": Industry Hypocrisy & Fake Marriages

23:18. - The Impact of Public Perception

30:20. - The Campaign: "Either He Go or I Go" (The Ultimatum)

30:39. - The End of the Road: Facing theConsequences

34:00. - The Aftermath: Becoming a Shell of a Person

34:48. - The Turning Point: Identity and Loss

40:31. - Deconstruction: Flattening the Boxes of Belief

41:02. - Rebuilding Belief Systems

44:50. - The Last Prejudice of the Church (Divorce vs. Gay Rights)

47:51. - Faith and Acceptance: A Journey of Understanding

54:12. - Navigating Identity and Belonging

58:10. - The "PR" Lie: "Pursuing Other Interests" & The NDA

59:25. - Reclaiming My...