Sometimes I miss being someone's child.
Not in a childish way.
Not because I want fewer responsibilities or someone else to solve my problems.
But because there was once someone in the world whose role it was to worry about me, check on me, notice when I was carrying too much, and remind me that I didn't have to hold everything alone.
In this episode of The Motherless Mother Podcast, Tishka Moss explores one of the quieter realities of motherhood after losing your mother: missing the person who knew you first.
For many motherless mothers, grief isn't only about missing a parent. It's about missing the one relationship where you didn't have to explain yourself, perform, or carry everyone else's needs before your own. It's about longing for the woman who noticed when you were tired, checked in without being asked, and loved every version of you.
Whether you've lost your mother, are grieving the gradual loss of the mother you once knew, or are navigating motherhood without the mothering you needed, this conversation is for you.
In this episode:
• What it really means to miss being someone's child
• Why motherhood can make the absence of our mothers feel more visible
• The hidden weight of always being the one who holds everything together
• Missing the person who knew every version of you
• Why strong, capable women still need care too
• The unique intersection of grief, daughterhood, and motherhood
If you've ever found yourself thinking, "I wish I could call my mom," this episode will likely feel familiar.
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