• 232: Stephen Jenkinson - What is the role of ritual in love and life?
    Apr 24 2026

    Stephen Jenkinson is a Canadian writer, teacher, and grief-whisperer. He holds master's degrees from Harvard (theology) and the University of Toronto (social work), spent years directing palliative care at Mount Sinai Hospital in Toronto, and has worked intimately with dying people and their families. He's the founder of the Orphan Wisdom School and the author of seven books, including the award-winning Die Wise and Come of Age: The Case for Elderhood in a Time of Trouble. He's also the subject of the documentary film Griefwalker. His work asks hard questions about what it means to live well, and he doesn't let any of us off easy.

    Keywords: love, matrimony, ritual, culture, grief, wisdom, transformation, relationships, tradition, initiation

    Key Topics

    • The meaning of matrimony as a cultural and generational act
    • The relationship between grief, gratitude, and love
    • The importance of tradition and formality in modern relationships
    • The concept of matrimony as mothering and culture-building
    • The Deep Wisdom of Matrimony and Culture
    • Embracing Limitations: The Heart of Love and Ritual

    Chapters

    00:00 Introduction to Stephen Jenkinson

    05:21 The Journey to the Orphan Wisdom School

    07:47 Farming and the Art of Attention

    12:16 Confronting Acceptance and Heartbreak

    15:53 Gratitude Born from Heartbreak

    20:24 Awareness and Change

    22:21 The Nature of Matrimony

    30:22 Longing for Real Connections

    32:30 The Evolution of Wedding Ceremonies

    36:30 Challenging Traditional Templates

    40:27 Rethinking Seating Arrangements

    44:29 The Role of Formality in Matrimony

    48:37 Patrimony vs. Matrimony

    52:32 The Nature of Rituals vs. Celebrations

    56:08 Embracing Limitations in Relationships

    58:41 The Grief of Transitioning into Marriage

    01:00:29 The Wisdom of Elders in Matrimony

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  • 231: Tad Hargrave - Where's the line between persuasion and coercion?
    Apr 6 2026
    In this episode, Dr. Jeremy Goldberg sits down with Tad Hargrave, founder of Marketing for Hippies, to explore how marketing can be practiced ethically, beautifully, and effectively. Tad breaks down the distinctions between coercion and persuasion and shares practical ways to build trust, integrity, and reputation in business.Topics covered include:The fundamental difference between coercion and persuasion in marketingThe importance of ethics, truth, and alignment before sharing offersThe seven fundamentals of ethical marketing, including clear niching, compelling point of view, and filtering clientsHow to lower client risk cleverly with filtering and 'Are You Sure' pagesThe influence of reciprocity, social proof, and reputation in long-term successThe impact of coaching space, financial stability, and reputation managementCritique of manipulative tactics like urgency, scarcity, and high-pressure salesThe importance of authenticity, empathy, and beauty in marketing practicesA few things we discussed:Tad's website: Marketing for HippiesLock the Game: Ari GalperRobert Allen's Sales Letter ExampleBig Dream Program by Alex BasleyTad's Instagram_______________________________________Follow me on Instagram, @LongDistanceLoveBombs: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/longdistancelovebombs⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Read my Substack: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://substack.com/@longdistancelovebombs⁠⁠⁠⁠Sign up for my weekly newsletter! Click here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://longdistancelovebombs.mykajabi.com/email⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. It's easy and takes five seconds.Check out a list of my favorite books here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.amazon.com/shop/longdistancelovebombs_______________________________________Timestamps:00:00 - Welcome and guest introduction02:09 - Who is Tad? His background and mission03:40 - Targeting resistant holistic practitioners and ethical marketing06:03 - Shift from "get the sale" mentality to honest alignment07:26 - Distinction between coercion and consent-based sharing08:58 - The role of ethics, space, and clear niches in marketing success10:22 - Building compelling points of view and filtering clients effectively11:31 - The metaphor of the spear: fundamentals and sharing12:11 - Persuasion vs coercion explained15:02 - Using worldview, diagnosis, and premises in marketing15:55 - The problem with gimmicks like urgency and scarcity16:43 - The ethics of scarcity and genuine urgency18:20 - The structure of effective marketing involving attention, filtering, and lowering risk21:49 - Empathy and speaking to clients' pain, fear, and desire points23:01 - Building credibility and value in offers24:00 - Managing high-risk scenarios ethically25:31 - The danger of exploiting pain or manufactured discontent27:48 - The importance of honesty and authenticity over tricks28:09 - The long-term value of reputation and integrity31:39 - Respectful, opt-in approach at workshops and events36:26 - Critique of manipulative marketing videos37:28 - How false promises and "automatic compliance" are unethical40:45 - The impact on self-respect and industry trust43:43 - Filtering clients through transparent pages and vetting processes45:04 - The power of honesty and clarity in decision-making46:35 - Ethical reflection in client engagement and pricing48:49 - Long-term reputation and sustainability in business53:05 - The collective importance of industry reputation55:46 - Final thoughts on ethical leadership and industry pitfalls56:17 - Common pet peeves: rationalizing coercive tactics58:40 - The lies behind "light" versus "dark" marketing approaches60:17 - The visual and linguistic errors in marketing that undermine trust61:55 - Cues from indigenous elders vs industry norms for ethics63:05 - Closing remarks and how to connect with Tad
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  • 230: Nikki Weaver - Can you speak your truth and survive it?
    Sep 25 2025

    Nikki Weaver teaches writing, yoga, and self-expression to women in prisons. She is the founder of On The Inside, an organization that builds a creative connection for incarcerated women, both individually and collectively, by telling stories, igniting hearts, and sparking dialogue. They aim to spread creative connections for women on the inside and outside by breaking down the walls that keep us apart.

    In this episode, we discuss the transformative power of creativity and poetry, the importance of community and connection, and the need for rehabilitation over punishment in the prison system. Nikki shares her personal journey, the impact of her work on her parenting, and the lessons learned from the women she teaches. The conversation emphasizes the humanity of incarcerated individuals and the potential for healing through storytelling and creative expression.

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ontheinside2

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Ontheinside.space

    Website: https://www.ontheinside.space

    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/on-the-inside2/

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    CHAPTERS

    00:00 Introduction to Creative Healing in Prisons

    05:41 The Evolution of Nikki's Work

    08:29 Transformative Power of Poetry and Movement

    11:26 Personal Growth Through Incarceration

    14:30 Understanding Incarcerated Individuals

    17:21 Building Community and Connection

    20:21 The Importance of Forgiveness and Healing

    23:30 Navigating the Prison System

    26:23 The Role of Choice and Agency

    29:34 Creating a Culture of Care

    32:29 The Power of Play in Healing

    35:34 Logistics of Teaching in Prisons

    38:39 The Impact of Consistency and Reliability

    41:35 Empowerment Through Shared Stories

    43:12 Empowering Women Through Lived Experience

    45:44 The Somatic Experience of Healing

    50:37 Finding Voice Through Movement

    56:23 Parenting Through Trauma and Healing

    01:03:47 The Need for Rehabilitation in Prisons

    01:07:19 Stories of Transformation and Healing

    01:13:59 Exploring Truth and Survival

    01:14:58 Compassion and Connection in Challenging Environments

    KEYWORDS: prison education, creativity, healing, poetry, yoga, rehabilitation, women's rights, storytelling, community building

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  • 229: Blake Kasemeier - Is art anything you can get away with?
    Sep 10 2025

    Blake Kasemeier tells stories, mostly with words, and also makes videos you've probably watched on your phone before. He is a multifaceted content creator, writer, and poet, and in this chat, we dive into authenticity in art, the journey of content creation, and the importance of perspective. Blake shares his experiences navigating vulnerability in his work, the pressures of audience expectations, and the evolution of his creative expression. The discussion also touches on the shifting mindsets around success and the value of ordinary experiences in storytelling.

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    Keywords: content creation, art, authenticity, vulnerability, storytelling, social media, personal development, creativity, fatherhood

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  • 228: Kendra Adachi - What's our birth story?
    Aug 8 2025

    In this conversation, we share our intimate journey through pregnancy and childbirth, discussing the emotional and physical challenges we faced and reflecting on the support from family, the decisions made during labor, and the transition from a home birth to a hospital setting.

    Kendra Adachi⁠⁠ is walking a path of deep service to awaken a remembrance of the divinity within while encouraging connection with the divinity around us. She practices reverence for the body through emotional, physical, and spiritual modalities and feels our consumption is a choice that creates expansion or depletion.

    As a certified health coach with the Institute for Integrative Nutrition (click here to learn more: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bit.ly/36Ctqhr⁠⁠⁠⁠), having completed the four levels of personal development through Integrity Seminars (click here to learn more: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bit.ly/39A3HrJ⁠⁠⁠⁠), and having the gift of experiencing depression and mental illness, she has chosen to love her unique story and utilize its lessons to support others on their journey.

    She holds space for women and men as a conduit to reconnect with their erotic truth through ⁠⁠1-1 mentorship⁠⁠ and group containers. She believes the body is a sacred guide and that as we choose to worship it with acceptance, approval, and permission, we become unwavering in our agency and sovereignty. Kendra believes in honoring our true appetite and savoring life, that food is an extension of our divine experience. She's leading a movement where women are coming together to dismantle the narratives that have starved us and reclaim our innate hunger and satiation with our bodies, expression, and primal power. Email Kendra at ⁠⁠hello@adachikendra.com⁠⁠ to learn more.

    Follow her on Instagram here: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/adachikendra⁠⁠⁠

    Check out her website here: ⁠⁠⁠http://www.adachikendra.com⁠⁠⁠

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    Chapters

    0:00 Introduction to the Journey of Parenthood

    2:24 Preparing for Birth: Insights and Experiences

    5:14 The Anticipation of Labor Begins

    8:01 The Early Stages of Labor

    10:56 Navigating the Challenges of Contractions

    13:30 The Emotional Rollercoaster of Labor

    16:09 The Transition to the Hospital

    19:11 Facing the Unknown: Decisions in Labor

    21:42 The Hospital Experience Begins


    Keywords: birth, labor, home birth, hospital, parenting, family support, emotional journey, childbirth, pregnancy, decision making


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  • 227: Janne Robinson - How do you cultivate truth beyond reason?
    May 28 2025

    Janne Robinson is a poet, author, coach, and the founder of Your Truth is Your Medicine, a year-long program that has supported over 1,000 people in creating authentic belonging across every area of their lives: career, relationships, family, place, voice, and self.


    For over a decade, Janne has guided people in building lives and businesses rooted in truth and meaning. Through more than 200 one-on-one purpose sessions, she helps entrepreneurs and CEOs identify their authentic gifts and shape careers that align with who they truly are. She also works within organizations and companies to foster cultures of meaning and belonging.


    Janne’s work lives at the intersection of truth, purpose, and meaning. Whether she’s working with someone individually or speaking to thousands through her programs, her mission is to help people come home to who they uniquely are and build lives from that place.


    She is the author of two books of poetry, ‘This is for the Women Who Don’t Give a Fuck’ and ‘There’s Cobwebs on Her Vagina’ with over 23,000 copies sold globally and some poems read 2 million+ times. Her work has been featured on The Today Show, in Women’s Health Magazine, The Sydney Morning Herald, Forbes, CBC, The Huffington Post, and Inc. Business Magazine.

    Sign up for the free online program, Meet Yourself In Truth: https://janne-robinson.mykajabi.com/a/2148081458/R34b9Hpz.

    Follow her Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jannerobinson

    Scope her website: https://www.jannerobinson.com

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  • 226: Amy Young - How do you cultivate trust beyond reason?
    May 22 2025

    Amy Young is a speaker, intuitive, and coach who helps women unravel old narratives, reclaim their power, and rise into the most authentic, unstoppable version of themselves. Known for her fierce honesty and depth-meets-humor style, Amy draws on her connection with the Divine Feminine to guide transformational breakthroughs. She is the creator of INVINCIBLE, a rite-of-passage experience for women who are navigating the Unknown and ready to embody their full expression. Whether through her online content or signature programs, Amy is here to remind you that the sun will rise again, and so will you.

    Follow her Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/amyyoungco

    Check out her website: https://amyyoungcoaching.com⁠

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  • 225: Jason Markow (TEKST) - What's the difference between courage and stupidity?
    Feb 18 2025

    Jason Markow (known around the web as '@TEKSTartist') has been slinging designs from his southern California studio since 2011. His techniques often combine digital and traditional mediums to create visual representations of powerful quotes.

    His work hangs in the homes and offices of Jason Mraz, Chuck Palahniuk, Alexis Ohanian, Gary Vaynerchuk, and fans across all 50 US States and 34 countries around the globe.

    Use coupon code JEREMYWASRIGHT to get 25% off, i.e., save some cash, at his TEKSTARTIST website: https://tekstartist.com/products/ascent-jeremy-goldberg-collaboration?variant=45273417613474

    His Instagram, which is full of amazing work: https://www.instagram.com/TEKSTartist/

    His Twitter: https://twitter.com/tekstartist

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