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In this bold and unfiltered episode of The Dirty Side of Leadership, Kristin Sokoloff and Ron Ward unpack a concept no one talks about out loud — leadership libido. Not sexual desire, but the psychological and biological craving that fuels ambition, dominance, influence, and legacy-building.

What You’ll Hear:

• The hidden hunger behind high performance
• Dopamine and the neuroscience of pursuit
• When ambition turns into ego or control
• The dangers of unregulated drive in leadership culture
• Masculine vs. feminine expressions of leadership energy
• The difference between authentic leadership and “leadership porn”
• Practical steps to channel ambition without burning out your team

Kristin and Ron share personal stories about chasing validation, mistaking restlessness for vision, pushing back on powerful personalities, and learning to regulate drive with self-awareness and accountability.

Key Takeaway:
Libido isn’t the enemy, but if it isn’t anchored to mission, integrity, and humility — it will eventually burn the very thing you’re trying to build.

Sources Referenced:

• Berridge, K. C., & Robinson, T. E. (1998). What is the role of dopamine in reward: hedonic impact, reward learning, or incentive salience? Brain Research Reviews, 28(3), 309–369. (Foundational research on dopamine as the “wanting” system driving pursuit and motivation.)
• Rock, D. (2008). SCARF: A brain-based model for collaborating with and influencing others. NeuroLeadership Journal, 1, 1–9. (Explores status, reward, threat, and the neurological drivers behind leadership behavior and social dynamics.)

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