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  • The Realities of a Conservative Single Black Father | Karlin Stanton (E004)
    Feb 2 2026
    "There are no redos."

    What if life, as you know it, crumbled in just one day? What if you became a single father over night? How would your life suddenly change?


    In this heavy-hitting episode of the Kalaj Dame Podcast, we go from the block to the boardroom to deconstruct the hard truths of Black Fatherhood, mental health, and the Pittsburgh experience.


    Host Kalaj Dame sits down with Karlin Stanton—widower, single father, and conservative—to discuss the systemic impact of removing men from the household and the roadmap for personal development. If you’re a man tired of hitting "walls" and ready to "stand straight up," this conversation will give you a whole new perspective on legacy building.


    In this episode, we breakdown the truths on:

    🔥 Ego vs. Leadership: Why you cannot lead a family — or a team — while serving your own ego. Why it’s also important to learn to filter unsolicited advice and focus on the mission.


    🔥 The Systemic Fight Against Fatherhood: The removal of fathers from the home, the impact of government programs, and breaking the cycle of dependency.


    🔥 Mental Health & Therapy: Breaking the stigma of therapy for Black men. How to face your fears, overcome triggers, and find genuine peace.


    🔥 Financial Literacy for the Next Generation: Why money management and emergency funds are mandatory survival tools for our children… and our legacy.


    🔥 Navigating Grief & Single Parenting: Karlin shares his journey of losing a wife and raising a daughter with intention in a modern world.


    🔥 The Pittsburgh Mindset: Shifting from "living to survive" to "living to build" within the Steel City and beyond.

    "We [Men] have never been more important than we are now… We gotta get it together." Stop letting a detour derail your life. It’s your movie—own the script. Whether you're focused on financial freedom, better parenting, or overcoming trauma, this episode is the reality check you need.

    Join Me and My Play Cousins — From the Block to the Boardroom!This isn’t motivational talk. This is a reality check.


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    DISCLAIMER: For educational and entertainment purposes only. This is not financial or legal advice.


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    2 ore e 9 min
  • Is Hustle Culture Dead? Street Hustles to Day Trading | Ray Jones (E003)
    Feb 1 2026
    In the modern economy, the ability to pivot isn’t just a skill—it’s the ultimate requirement of survival.In the latest episode of The Kalaj Dame Podcast, I’m joined by a master of the pivot: Ray Jones (famously known as @RayTryshard). Starting IHateSneakers and IHateVintage from the ground up, Ray proved to the city that he is the living personification of the "Pittsburgh Hustle."Ray’s personal story illustrates the realities of entrepreneurship and the potential for vertical growth by staying ahead of the trend. He didn't start in a boardroom; he started on the block, selling incense, oils, and bootleg movies. But, he didn't just stay there. Instead, he scaled his own operation, dominated the sneaker culture, and took on retail arbitrage, as if his life depended on it. And when the last hustle faded away, he quickly transitioned into high-level Day Trading and Real Estate Development, where he's actively scaling a $6K day trading account to $100K, publicly documenting every trade he makes!If you’ve ever wondered how to transition from a side hustle to a legitimate, scalable business, this episode is your chance to step up your game and really make some change.🔍 Strategy & Execution: What’s Inside? We break down the mechanics of wealth building and the psychology of the "come up," including: The Art of the Pivot: How to recognize market exhaustion and successfully transition into the next high-growth sector.Retail Arbitrage & Strategic Sourcing: Ray breaks down his "undervalued-to-overvalued" pipeline—finding undervalued products and flipping them for massive margins and profits.Day Trading & Market Analysis: An inside look at Ray’s journey to scale a $6K account to $100K, where he discusses a strategy using Technical Analysis and Breaking News Alerts to find an edge in a market now dominated by AI and automated trading bots.The Psychology of Power: How we apply the principles of Robert Greene (48 Laws of Power, Mastery) to bridge the gap between street-level grit and corporate success.Economics of Scarcity: Lessons from the sneaker game on how to manipulate supply and demand in order to drive value.The "Internet" Advantage: Ray stands firm on his philosophy that "If you have the internet, you have no excuse."💡 The Entrepreneurial Mindset: This conversation isn't just about money; it's about the mindset required to sustain success. We explore:Structure & Sustainability: Why "grinding" without a plan is just a recipe for burnout.Personal Branding: Understanding that you are the product. In a digital world, marketing is the engine of your business.Time vs. Equity: Moving away from trading hours for dollars and toward building assets that generate revenue while you sleep.Legacy & Mentorship: The vital role of fatherhood, guidance, and staying humble enough to keep learning.🌆 The Pittsburgh PerspectiveWe also take a hard look at our home base: Are we doing enough for Pittsburgh? We discuss Black Pittsburgh, the necessity of code-switching, and the differences between survival and true financial peace.Are you just working, or are you building? Stop trading your time for a paycheck and start trading your skills for freedom. Whether you are a retail enthusiast, an aspiring trader, or a seasoned business owner, this episode will challenge your definition of what it means to "hustle" and whether dedication is enough to make it in today’s economy.SUPPORT THE MOVEMENT: 📸 Instagram: @KalajDamePodcast | 📸 Guest: @RayTryshardDISCLAIMER: The information shared in this podcast is for educational and entertainment purposes only. It does not constitute financial or legal advice. Always conduct your own due diligence before making investment decisions.#Entrepreneurship #DayTrading #RetailArbitrage #HustleCulture #FinancialFreedom #PittsburghBusiness #MindsetShiftJoin Me and My Play Cousins — From the Block to the Boardroom!This isn’t motivational talk. This is the playbook.Support the movement:FOLLOW THE KALAJ DAME PODCASTFacebook & IG: @KalajDamePodcastVisit us on the web: https://thekalajdamepodcast.comFacebook: https://facebook.com/kalajdamepodcastInstagram: https://instagram.com/kalajdamepodcastThreads: https://threads.net/kalajdamepodcastX.com: https://x.com/kalajdamepodLinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/kalajdamepodcast
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    3 ore e 3 min
  • Marriage, Mental Health & Spirituality | Melanie Dickerson, RN (E002)
    Feb 1 2026
    In the rapidly evolving landscape of healthcare, few voices resonate with the clarity and professional depth of Melanie Dickerson. As a Mental Health Registered Nurse (RN) based in Pittsburgh with over 11 years of clinical experience, Melanie joins The Kalaj Dame Podcast to “bridge the gap” between high-level nursing leadership and the raw, human element of being a mom and wife while providing critical patient care in a busy healthcare environment.


    Holding a Master’s in Nursing and her PMH-BC (Psychiatric-Mental Health Board Certified) credential, Melanie is a true thought leader in behavioral health and nursing. And while her journey—transitioning from a Home Health Aide and CNA to a Registered Nurse and nurse educator— are inspirational for those seeking advice on nursing career development, she provides the audience with an onslaught of invaluable gems on life, love, marriage, and spirituality.


    In this episode, we tackle the critical issues facing healthcare professionals today: nurse burnout, the nursing shortage, and the necessity of civility and support in the workplace.

    Whether you are a new grad nurse navigating nursing school, a nurse practitioner seeking clinical insight, or just a very busy executive focused on wellness and mindfulness, this conversation should be considered a prerequisite for professionalism and personal growth.

    What We Explore:


    🩺 The Nursing Career Path: From nursing student hacks to mastering the NCLEX, we discuss the differences between a Home Aid Provider, LPN, CNA, RN, and Mental Health Registered Nurse.


    🩺 Mental Health & Brain Science: A deep dive into anxiety, neurodivergence (ADHD/Autism), pharmacology, and the cortisol-driven effects of stress on the body.


    🩺 Spirituality in Healthcare: Melanie challenges the medical system by integrating faith, prayer, and God into the healing process. "Some problems are spiritual, not medical."


    🩺 Work-Life Balance for Nurses: Strategies for self-care, setting boundaries, and maintaining a healthy lifestyle while raising a family.


    🩺 Modern Relationship Dynamics: A candid look at modern love, communication, and the shift from independence to dependence to interdependence in marriage.


    Join Me and My Play Cousins — From the Block to the Boardroom!
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    1 ora e 53 min
  • Pittsburgh Hip Hop & the Independent Music Industry | DJ CHEVY (E001)
    Jan 23 2026
    Pittsburgh Hip Hop & the Independent Music Industry: DJ CHEVY | The Kalaj Dame Podcast (E001)
    Join acclaimed DJ and Pittsburgh Hip Hop pioneer, DJ Chevy, as he sits down with host Kalaj Dame for a real, unfiltered conversation about music, business, and surviving your independent grind. The Kalaj Dame Show explores the world of tastemakers, bootlegs, and product testing—from white labels to the art of DJing and the power of constructive criticism in your network. DJ Chevy breaks down why "artists are weird" and how to take advantage of that energy to make magic really happen — both in the studio and the boardroom.
    We learn the history of DJ Chevy and what he has done for the Pittsburgh Hip Hop community. The two discuss why it’s vital to do your homework when meeting somebody and why to vet out every opportunity for risk and reward while adapting to any situation — even if the opportunity doesn’t seem right at first glance. During this episode, learn the truth about professionalism, why establishing your roles and responsibilities are so essential to any gig or project, and the importance of using business riders when booking acts.
    The two go in on being prepared for costs, budgets, resources, and shortfalls, as well as always having backup plans in case the other side fails you. But most importantly — they point out — you need to stand firm on your price if you ever want to make it ahead in the industry, meaning charge accordingly for your expertise and additional services — and KNOW YOUR DEMOGRAPHICS — learning when to bow out when the gig just doesn't suit you. What your client wants might not be what the audience actually wants. So, avoid being a "Celebrated Jukebox" — your audience is out there, so don’t listen to those who say you’re too expensive. Know your value.
    Every gig is a chance to either build or break your reputation. But there will always be 150 different opportunities to never get hired again. They talk about the power of association and explain how the Grind Hard DJs was the first branded DJ group in Pittsburgh. DJ Chevy goes on to suggest that independent artists should register their business ASAP and employ themselves if they want a shortcut to success. He breaks down fictitious names and trademarks, taxes, and protecting your brand from all liabilities — both physical and intellectual.
    Chevy tells artists not to repeat themselves and that teamwork really does make the dream work — there is collective power in advocating for your community. He also explains why communication and building your skillsets are the key to mastering the game and why the basics are the key to building new lanes.
    As Chevy says, "When you turn the lights on, roaches run." He believes that you should stop going above and beyond for those who don’t appreciate it. DON’T FORGET YOU ARE A BRAND, and to be a leader, you must take accountability for your actions. You’re not allowed to have excuses. Don’t be a victim of the atrophy of convenience — learn how to feed yourself and thrive in today’s microwave society.
    The Kalaj Dame Podcast wraps up with insights on mentorship, social media adoption, revenue-sharing, and a thought experiment on doing what you love for 12 hours a day. The world evolves, but "horses are still here." Be authentic, be supportive, and think for yourself when it comes to AI and educated risks. Protect your brand. Don’t play the lottery.
    From pricing and protecting your brand, to understanding demographics, teamwork, mentorship, and hip hop — this is a masterclass for all creatives and entrepreneurs who want to achieve success and longevity — and know that relying on luck is definitely not an option!
    Whether you’re an artist, DJ, producer, or just business-minded—this episode is about doing it right... the first time!
    Join Me and My Play Cousins — From the Block to the Boardroom!This isn’t motivational talk. This is the playbook.


    Join Me and My Play Cousins — From the Block to the Boardroom!
    This isn’t motivational talk. This is the playbook.

    Support the movement:
    FOLLOW THE KALAJ DAME PODCAST


    Facebook & IG: @KalajDamePodcast


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    3 ore