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I invite you to explore with me the difference between fear and awareness, and why planning to live matters more than planning for certainty. Through personal stories, midlife reflections, and moments where life’s fragility becomes impossible to ignore, I examine how fear can offer useful information without being allowed to run the show. Rather than denying that bad things can happen, I encourage choosing curiosity, presence, and small intentional yeses over postponement and avoidance. This conversation is a reminder that life is finite, awareness makes it precious, and living fully begins when we stop waiting for guarantees and start engaging with the life we’re already in.

Key Takeaways:

• Fear isn’t the enemy- letting fear make your decisions is
• Pretending nothing bad can happen doesn’t keep us safe; it keeps us small
• Planning to live means saying yes before certainty shows up

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In this episode, I talk honestly about something so many of us quietly wrestle with: fitting in. I reflect on how belonging isn’t a switch that flips once we’re “in,” but a practice we return to again and again. I explore how connection takes time, repetition, and a willingness to stay present even when it feels awkward or lonely. Sometimes what we call being left out is really us leaving too soon. Belonging has a backstory, and those inside jokes and deep bonds we admire are built through shared moments, not instant chemistry. This episode is an invitation to keep showing up, to be brave enough to be new, and to remember that connection isn’t about perfection—it’s about participation.

Key Takeaways:

• Belonging is not a one-time achievement; it’s a lifelong practice that grows through patience, presence, and repeated participation.
• Every insider was once an outsider who stayed long enough to build connections.
• Deep community doesn’t happen instantly; it’s created by showing up again, reaching out, and choosing to be a friend first.

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I’m gently pushing back on the loud idea that a new year means you need a brand-new version of yourself. I talk honestly about the pressure women feel to reinvent, reset, and overhaul their lives every January—and why I don’t believe growth starts with erasing who you’ve been. Instead, I invite you to slow down, tell the truth about where you actually are, and notice what you’ve already survived, learned, and done well.

Key Takeaways:

• You don’t need a “new you” to grow- real change begins with honesty, self-acceptance, and honoring who you already are.
• Small, intentional steps (taken consistently) create more lasting transformation than pressure-filled resolutions.
• Reflecting on what you’ve done well builds confidence and clarity, helping you move forward with presence instead of perfection.

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I’m inviting you to do something different than making resolutions: I’m inviting you to dream. As we step into a new year, I talk about the difference between fantasy, dreams, and plans, and why dreaming is not frivolous or naive, but deeply foundational to growth and self-discovery. I share how fear, pressure, and “shoulds” can shrink our imagination, and why curiosity is often the first doorway back to ourselves. This isn’t about goal-setting or fixing your life- it’s about giving yourself permission to imagine again, to listen inward, and to let your dreams evolve beyond checklists and timelines.

Key Takeaways:

• Dreaming is not the same as fantasy or planning- it’s an internal, intuitive practice that helps you reconnect with possibility and purpose.
  Fear will try to limit your imagination, but curiosity is often the first step toward reclaiming your dreams.
• You don’t need a resolution to move forward- you just need permission to imagine what could be.

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I recorded this episode from a place built for waiting, and it cracked something open in me- I’ve come to realize how much of life happens in the in-between- the pauses we rush past or try to numb with distraction. Advent isn’t about doctrine for me; it’s about learning how to wait without giving up hope, how to stay present when nothing is resolved yet. I reflect on how technology has trained us to expect everything instantly, even transformation, and how that impatience can rob us of the quiet formation happening underneath. Through stories, memories, and small moments of kindness, I explore how waiting isn’t wasted time-n it’s often where healing, connection, and becoming actually begin. The story isn’t over. It’s still unfolding. And maybe waiting is part of the magic.

Key Takeaways:

• Waiting isn’t a failure or delay- it’s often the space where real transformation quietly takes shape.
• Speed and immediacy don’t create depth; formation happens when we allow ourselves to stay present in the in-between.
• Kindness, storytelling, and hope keep us connected to ourselves and each other, especially during seasons of grief and change.

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In this episode of The Imperfect Prophet, I unpack how memory, emotion, and self-doubt collide. A trip to the Tower of London becomes the backdrop for a deeper reflection on why our memories sometimes feel slippery, why we question ourselves so quickly, and how cultural biases often make women doubt what they know to be true. I share a story about a “missing block,” the way the holiday season can stir up emotional fog, and why trusting your intuition is one of the greatest survival skills women have. This conversation is all about giving yourself permission to honor what you remember, even when the world wants to make you second-guess it.

Key Takeaways:

• Cultural bias affects how recollections are believed.
• Emotional memories are still valid memories.
• Intuition is a real and necessary navigation tool for women.

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I’m getting honest about the “holiday hostage situations” we slip into without noticing: the obligations, the unspoken roles, the traditions that once felt sweet but now feel suffocating. I explore why it’s so easy to regress at family gatherings, how invisible contracts shape our choices, and why advocating for ourselves isn’t selfish- it’s sacred. This episode is an invitation to breathe, renegotiate, release what no longer fits, and create new traditions that honor the woman you’re becoming, not the girl you once were.

Key Takeaways:

• Renegotiate old traditions and release holiday obligations that drain your energy.
• Setting boundaries and asking better questions creates room for joy, not conflict.
• You are not responsible for managing anyone else’s emotions; your peace is a valid priority.

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In this episode, I’m unpacking the messy, tender, complicated truth about family- the stories we inherit, the wounds we carry, and the way time has a funny way of softening what once felt so sharp. I share how much of our family experience is shaped not by what’s said, but by everything we never talk about… the pauses, the assumptions, the myths we quietly accept as truth. And then sometimes, years later, in the most unexpected places- a cabin, a car ride, a holiday kitchen- we finally say the thing we avoided. And suddenly, healing becomes possible. This is a conversation about seeing old stories with new eyes, understanding the emotional layers we’ve been tiptoeing around, and discovering how connection grows when we stop pretending everything is fine and start speaking from the heart.

Key Takeaways:

• The unspoken parts of family life often shape us more deeply than the words themselves.
• Real healing begins when we finally express the feelings we’ve held for years.
• When we allow space for honest communication, even old wounds can find new light.

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