Are you driven by ambition... or by fear?

In this episode of Get Over It, Drew and Heidi dive into one of the biggest questions facing high achievers: When does healthy ambition become hustle fueled by fear?

From chasing career goals and financial success to navigating relationships, self-worth, and even social media, they explore the hidden pressure of feeling like you're never doing enough—or that you are never enough.

Together, they unpack the difference between measurable growth and the internal stories we tell ourselves, why so many of us tie our worth to productivity, and how learning to define "enough" for ourselves can lead to greater peace, healthier relationships, and a more fulfilling life.

If you've ever struggled to slow down, felt guilty for resting, or wondered why success never seems to feel like enough, this conversation is for you.

• In This Episode, Drew & Heidi Discuss:

  • The difference between healthy ambition and fear-driven hustle
  • Why high performers often believe they're never doing enough
  • The connection between productivity, self-worth, and shame
  • How childhood experiences shape our relationship with success
  • Why rest can feel uncomfortable—even when we desperately need it
  • The hidden cost of chasing "more" in work, money, and relationships
  • Defining what "enough" looks like in different areas of life
  • How clarity can replace the constant pressure to achieve

  Practical questions to help you recognize when you're hustling from fear instead of purpose

  • Key Takeaways

    • "Enough isn't a number—it's a decision."
    • "Healthy ambition moves you forward. Fear convinces you you'll never arrive."
    • "Rest isn't something you earn. It's what allows you to keep growing."
    • "The standard you live by should be yours—not someone else's."