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  • Pearl Street to Purpose: Pastor Jay Grant on Laguna’s Heart, Hope, and Love That Holds -- Fr. Will Crist and Jay Grant, December 31, 2025
    Dec 31 2025
    Episode DescriptionWhat makes Laguna Beach more than a postcard? In this episode of The Heart of Laguna, Fr. Will Crist sits down with Pastor Jay Grant, a 55-year Laguna Beach resident and a pastor at Networks Community Church. Jay takes us back to the early days—renting an ocean-view place on Pearl Street for $60 a month, the rise of the Sawdust Festival out of the counterculture, and the way Laguna’s creative soul became a magnet for people from all over the world. But this isn’t just nostalgia. Jay speaks candidly about the difference between believing in God and knowing God personally, why he insists that love is a choice, and how Laguna’s character showed itself in moments like the 1993 firestorm. Together, we explore what has changed in the last 10–15 years, the challenge of affordability, the role local churches play in caring for “street friends,” and why Jay still calls Laguna “a city of hope.” If you care about community, resilience, spirituality that actually works on a Tuesday, and the kind of leadership that begins with simple faithfulness—this conversation will land.Show Notes A Laguna beginning: Pearl Street and the old days Jay starts with a story that instantly puts you in another era: moving into the old Harper House on Pearl Street—$60 a month, ocean view, single-wall construction, and using calendars on the wall to cut the wind. It’s funny, specific, and deeply Laguna. The “two-lane” life: work in town, ministry in town Jay shares a core conviction: the best ministry often comes from people who serve God in and work in the community. He describes decades of life that braided together church leadership, the Sawdust Festival, family life, and coaching kids—an everyday, embodied spirituality. The Sawdust Festival origin story: counterculture, craftsmanship, and a “happening.” Jay gives a vivid history lesson on the Sawdust: artists juried out of the Festival of Arts, precursor shows, the move to the Funk property, buying the land, and the “unthinkable” moment—charging admission. He paints the early years as electric: late-night hours, huge crowds, and a cultural mix that made the Sawdust feel like an open-air experiment in freedom, art, and searching. Faith that’s personal, not just inherited Jay tells his own spiritual arc—from being raised in a faith tradition to exploring Eastern spirituality to the moment when faith became relationship. He describes it like walking into a dark room, and suddenly the lights come on: “I believed in God… then I met God.” “Love is a choice”: marriage, faith, and staying power One of the strongest segments is Jay’s insistence that love—human or divine—is not built on feeling. Feelings fluctuate. Commitment endures. He connects this to marriage and to the life of faith: choosing love when the “warm glow” isn’t there. A portrait of Laguna: beauty, people, and the everyday saints Jay’s love letter to Laguna is concrete: not just beaches and canyons, but the people and places that make a town feel like home—shops, neighbors, Friday night football with Catalina in the distance, shared rituals, and the small interactions that create belonging. The 1993 firestorm: where Laguna’s heart showed itself Jay speaks personally about losing his home in the 1993 fire and what happened next: strangers handing him money, people showing up with supplies, leaders “adopting” streets, and the community rallying. It’s a reminder that resilience is not abstract—it’s relational. What’s changed: affordability and the loss of “regular life.” Jay doesn’t romanticize the present. He names the big shift: affordability. What used to be possible with a normal job now feels out of reach for the next generation. He frames it as a community adjustment—real, ongoing, and defining. Networks Community Church: worship, breakfast, and “street friends.” Jay describes Networks as a low-key church with a strong emphasis on worship, scripture, and practical care—especially welcoming “street friends” for breakfast, providing clothing and toiletries, and partnering across churches to support people in need. The tone is simple: “We want people to know there’s a place they can go.” A different kind of “icon.” Fr. Will offers a striking reframing: icon not as celebrity, but as someone through whom a glimpse of the holy becomes visible—humility, nonjudgmental presence, kindness, and the quiet power of being a gift to others. He identifies Pastor Grant as an icon in Laguna.Failure, grace, and the hope that doesn’t collapse Jay leans into a theme that lands hard for a lot of people: Scripture is full of failures, and that’s not an embarrassment—it’s the point. “God is a God of failures,” he says, meaning: God meets people honestly, in the mess, and doesn’t wait for perfection. “One day at a time” Jay closes with a steady, 83-year-old wisdom: he stays grounded...
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  • Belonging, Civic Responsibility, and the Kind of Leadership that Starts Small -- Fr. Will Crist and Slade Carlton, December 24, 2025
    Dec 27 2025
    Laguna Beach is famous for beauty—but the real story is how a small town holds together when things don’t “work on paper.”

    In this episode of The Heart of Laguna, Fr. Will Crist sits down with Slade Carlton, Outreach Volunteer at Laguna Beach United Methodist Church, a local builder-turned-community leader who has devoted himself to serving neighbors on the margins and strengthening civic life.

    Slade shares how a simple “blessing bag” idea became a four-year movement of relationship-based outreach—109 Saturday beach cleanups and counting—built in partnership with local churches, Friendship Shelter, and the Laguna Beach Police Department. Together, they explore what makes Laguna’s interfaith spirit so unusual, why affordable housing is now a defining challenge, and how the ASL (Alternative Sleeping Location) reflects the values we refuse to let go of: dignity, compassion, and practical care.

    This isn’t a debate about politics. It’s a conversation about belonging, civic responsibility, and the kind of leadership that starts small—one relationship, one project, one neighbor at a time.

    Show notes

    Guest: Slade Carlton — Outreach Volunteer, Laguna Beach United Methodist Church
    Host: Fr. Will Crist — St. Mary’s Episcopal Church, Laguna Beach


    In this episode
    • Slade’s path: builder/entrepreneur → community outreach leader after selling his company
    • The “blessing bag” project revealed how personal homelessness is for many families
    • Why relationship-based outreach matters: learning names, building trust, creating community
    • How Laguna’s Saturday Main Beach cleanups began—and why they’ve continued for four years (109 events)
    • Laguna’s unique “weird and wonderful” tradition: embracing people on the margins (Joe Lucas, Eiler Larson, and more)
    • Why Laguna “doesn’t work on paper”—and how churches help bridge divides
    • Housing & Human Services: what Slade is learning about preserving affordability and community life
    • The ASL (Alternative Sleeping Location): what it provides, why it matters, and what’s changing
    • Why affordability is the long-term issue: “not enough homes,” “not enough affordable homes,” and what it means for teachers, police, workers, and artists
    • ADUs (Accessory Dwelling Units): promise vs. reality in Laguna
    • A leadership challenge: how to welcome new residents into Laguna’s civic story—not just its amenities
    • Signs of hope: the Cold Weather Shelter, interfaith collaboration, and younger leaders shaping the future
    Memorable lines
    • “Laguna Beach doesn’t work on paper… but somehow we make it work.”
    • “It’s what you do, not what you say.”
    Get involved
    • Interested in volunteering or learning more about outreach at Laguna Beach United Methodist Church? Visit their website or stop by on a Sunday—ask about outreach opportunities, beach cleanups, and service partnerships.


    About the Show
    The Heart of Laguna is a weekly conversation from KXFM in Laguna Beach. Each episode explores what holds us together when the world feels like it’s coming apart—through stories, spirit, and service from the soul of the city.🎙 New episodes every Wednesday morning on KXFM at 8:00.
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    42 min
  • I Want to Do Something About That — Global Outreach from the Heart of Laguna -- Fr. Will Crist and Barbara Van Gaasbeek, December 17, 2025
    Dec 26 2025
    Description

    From Siberia to Sudan: how one lay leader turns compassion into action—and invites Laguna to go bigger. What happens when a lifelong “can-do” spirit meets real human need?

    This week on The Heart of Laguna, Father Will Crist welcomes Barbara Van Gaasbeek, Chair of Outreach at St. Mary’s Episcopal Church in Laguna Beach. Barbara’s story is a masterclass in compassionate leadership—starting with her years leading national sustainability and green building programs at Honda, and continuing into “retirement,” where she’s helped mobilize St. Mary’s for bold, practical service locally and around the world.

    From sending humanitarian aid to radiation-impacted communities in Siberia, to funding a deep-sea fishing boat after the 2004 Indian Ocean tsunami, to supporting clean water, shoes, and mobility solutions—Barbara keeps coming back to one phrase: “I’m going to do something about that.”

    The conversation also turns to Laguna Beach’s unique potential: the creativity, expertise, and resources already here—and the possibility of bringing together the wider community (faith-based or not) for big, “outrageous” projects that restore purpose and save lives.

    Featured current focus: Sudan and South Sudan, where famine is devastating communities. Barbara shares St. Mary’s effort to fund Plumpy’Nut, a life-saving therapeutic food that can restore a starving child in about two weeks.

    If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed by the world’s problems, this episode offers a different path: move from “ain’t it awful” to “let’s do it.”


    Show notes


    Guest: Barbara Van Gaasbeek — Chair of Outreach, St. Mary’s Episcopal Church (Laguna Beach); former Honda national administrator for green building programs.
    In this episode:
    • Barbara’s path from corporate sustainability leadership to community outreach
    • Responding to a crisis in Siberia/Chelyabinsk with humanitarian aid (three 40-foot containers)
    • Post-tsunami rebuilding: funding a deep-sea fishing boat to restore livelihoods
    • Practical innovations that save lives: LifeStraw, The Shoe That Grows, and more
    • Local service in Laguna Beach: pantry support, Thanksgiving produce in-gathering, community partnerships
    • The big question: why logistics fail the poor while commerce moves luxury with ease
    • A challenge to Laguna: gather leaders and creatives for larger “city-sized” projects
    • Current urgent focus: Sudan & South Sudan famine relief
      • St. Mary’s goal: $4,000 to save 80 lives
      • Funding Plumpy’Nut through trusted relief partners
    Get involved: To support St. Mary’s Sudan/South Sudan relief effort, contact Ryan Martin, Parish Administrator at St. Mary’s: (949) 494-3542 (Mon–Fri, 9am–3pm).

    About the Show
    The Heart of Laguna is a weekly conversation from KXFM in Laguna Beach. Each episode explores what holds us together when the world feels like it’s coming apart—through stories, spirit, and service from the soul of the city.🎙 New episodes every Wednesday morning on KXFM at 8:00.
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    47 min
  • Faith, Suffering, and the Courage to Build Community -- Fr. Will Crist and Rabbi Marcia Tilchin, December 10, 2025
    Dec 10 2025
    🎙 Episode Description

    Faith, Suffering, and the Courage to Build Community

    Fresh from London, Rabbi Marcia Tilchin—founder of the Jewish Collaborative of Orange County—joins Father Will Crist for a wide-ranging, deeply human conversation about Jewish identity, interfaith friendship, suffering, spirituality, and the holy work of building community in a transient world. From Detroit to Orange County, from synagogue life to hidden seekers in Laguna Beach, this episode explores what it truly means to belong—and how faith communities can meet people where they are with humility, love, and presence.

    📝 Show Notes
    Guest: Rabbi Marcia Tilchin Founder, Jewish Collaborative of Orange County Former congregational rabbi | Interfaith leader | Community builder

    🔹 In This Episode, We Explore:
    • Marcia’s Journey to Orange County: From Detroit, New York, and Washington, D.C., to Tustin’s Congregation B’nai Israel—and what makes Jewish life in Orange County uniquely challenging.
    • What “Conservative Judaism” Really Means: Conserving tradition while interpreting it for modern life in a rabbinic—not fundamental—faith.
    • Growing Up the Only Jewish Child: How isolation shaped identity, resilience, and calling.
    • American Jew vs. Jewish American: The difference between faith as culture and faith as identity.
    • Women in the Rabbinate: Marcia’s calling shaped during a time when women were still barred from ordination.
    • Jewish Life in a Transient Culture: Why Orange County lacks the deep-rooted communal loyalty found in New York, Chicago, Detroit, and Los Angeles.
    • The Hidden Jewish Population of Laguna Beach: Why many Jews here feel spiritually curious—but disconnected from organized religious life.
    • Spiritual but Not Religious: How ancient Jewish mysticism and spiritual practice are quietly returning for a new generation of seekers.
    • Interfaith Friendship After 9/11: The powerful story of St. Mary’s Episcopal Church, the Mosque on Madero Street (Orange County Islamic Foundation), and Temple Beth El building homes together in Mexico.
    • Faithfulness Without Dominating: Learning to stand with people in suffering without trying to fix, convert, or control.
    • Antisemitism in the Modern Era: How the events of October 7 and global tensions are reshaping Jewish life and identity for a new generation.
    • Religion in a DIY World: How digital culture has changed the way people seek spirituality and community.
    • What Built the Megachurch Movement in Orange County: Lessons from Saddleback and the Crystal Cathedral—meeting suffering before promoting doctrine.
    • The Mission of the Jewish Collaborative: Creating a big tent for Jewish service, spirituality, social justice, support groups, burial society, and meditation.
    • The Quiet Suffering of the Affluent: Why loneliness is not limited to poverty—and how presence matters more than programs.
    💬 Memorable Lines from the Episode
    • “We are here to learn how to love amidst suffering.”
    • “Judaism is not a fundamental religion—it’s a living rabbinic conversation.”
    • “People don’t need to be fixed. They need to be accompanied.”
    • “You can be surrounded by wealth and still be profoundly alone.”
    • “Anytime you call a meeting in the name of God, the right people will show up.”
    🌊 Core Themes
    • Interfaith friendship
    • Jewish identity in modern America
    • Spiritual seeking beyond institutions
    • Suffering as sacred ground
    • Community in a transient culture
    • Tradition and interpretation
    • Presence over performance


    About the Show
    The Heart of Laguna is a weekly conversation from KXFM in Laguna Beach. Each episode explores what holds us together when the world feels like it’s coming apart—through stories, spirit, and service from the soul of the city.🎙 New episodes every Wednesday morning on KXFM at 8:00.
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    51 min
  • The Power of Presence: Hunger, Hope, and Human Connection--Fr. Will Crist and Maurice Baz, December 3, 2025
    Dec 4 2025
    Episode Description The Heart of Laguna – “The Power of Presence: Hunger, Hope, and Human Connection” What if addressing hunger isn’t only about food—but about restoring dignity, belonging, and hope? In this deeply moving episode of The Heart of Laguna, I sit down with Maurice Baz, Co-Chair of the Laguna Beach Interfaith Council and Data Project Manager at the Laguna Food Pantry. Maurice brings us inside the quiet, transformational work happening every morning behind the pantry doors—where groceries are shared, but so are stories, courage, and second chances. From a barefoot boy on the streets of India, to a life-altering family medical crisis in Europe, to a simple jacket placed on a stranger’s shoulders outside the pantry—Maurice traces the moments that forged his calling to serve. Together, we explore hunger not only as a social problem, but as a sacred space for encounter. We talk about presence as a spiritual discipline, volunteering as a form of resistance against division, and Laguna Beach as a microcosm of both beauty and hidden need. This episode is a powerful invitation: not simply to help, but to belong—to step into the shared human circle where no one is invisible and everyone matters.Show Notes Guest: Maurice Baz Data Project Manager, Laguna Beach Food PantryCo-Chair, Laguna Beach Interfaith CouncilVolunteer, humanitarian, technologist, and lifelong advocate for inclusive community serviceBackground in machine learning, physics education, disability advocacy, and global volunteer workIn This Episode, We Explore: 1. A Life Formed by Service Across the WorldGrowing up across cultures—from Washington, DC to London and the Middle EastEarly volunteer work in Lebanon, Colombia, and the UKMusic, disability, and the neurological power of human connectionFrom machine learning engineer to grassroots community servant2. Five Defining Moments that Shaped a CallingIndia, age 7: Witnessing joy and dignity in profound povertyDr. Martin Luther King Jr.: Learning to hold “infinite hope” amid finite disappointmentA mother’s catastrophic injury: Learning that dignity is not lost in sufferingThe Fundamental Attribution Error: Why we misjudge people in hardshipA winter morning at the pantry: A stranger gives his jacket to a homeless man—no words exchangedEach story reveals the same truth: “Service isn’t about fixing people. It’s about walking beside them.”3. The Laguna Beach Food Pantry: More Than a Food ProgramFounded after the 1993 Laguna firesGrew from serving 80 families per day pre-COVID to nearly 290 families per day todaySupported by 28 grocery partners through California’s SB1383 food recovery lawBacked by 200 active volunteersWho the Pantry Serves:Working familiesSeniors on fixed incomesHospitality workersSchool bus driversSingle parentsPeople living in their carsDistribution: 🕗 Monday–Friday | 8:00–10:30 AM🌐 www.lagunafoodpantry.org🔗 Resource Guide: bit.ly/ocresources4. Hunger as a Doorway to Human EncounterHunger as quiet trauma—not just empty stomachsWhy behavior often hides unseen painHow a simple “How are you really doing?” changes everythingThe pantry as a place where:Guests become volunteersVolunteers become neighborsReceiving help becomes an act of courageOffering help becomes an act of respect5. Volunteering as a Spiritual & Moral PracticeService as presence—not performanceVolunteering as a reset for the human soulOne hour can change:How you see othersHow you see yourselfHow you see your city“We don’t need to save the world. We need to touch it.”6. Laguna Beach: Beauty, Disparity, and Shared ResponsibilityExtreme wealth and hidden hunger existing side by sideHousing as both an economic and emotional crisisThe grief of displacementThe danger of invisibility in a thriving cityWhy the “other” is always already part of “us”7. The Interfaith Council: Where Faith Becomes ActionLeaders from churches, synagogues, Baha’i community, shelter services, and nonprofitsMonthly gatherings grounded in prayer and real-world needsSupport for:Cold weather sheltersFriendship Shelter day servicesPantry distributionYouth unhoused outreach“It’s the only room where you hear ‘Amen,’ ‘Baruch Adonai,’ and ‘Do we have enough folding chairs?’ in the same minute.” Signs of Hope & ResilienceA man at the pantry saying quietly: “I’m trying again.”A daily walk to the ocean as an act of defiance against despairNeighbors donating “extra” produce without needing recognitionThe quiet persistence of people choosing to begin againKey Invitation from This Episode If you do one thing this week:Volunteer one hourGo somewhere unfamiliarStand beside someone you don’t usually meetLet yourself be changed by presence—not politicsPractice listening without solvingThat’s how communities heal.About the Show The Heart of Laguna is a weekly conversation from KXFM in Laguna Beach. Each episode explores what holds us together when the ...
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    51 min
  • From Street to Sanctuary: Faith, Healing, and the Work of Belonging--Fr. Will Crist and Deacon Joe Seminara - Nov 26 2025
    Nov 26 2025
    Episode Description The Heart of Laguna – “From Street to Sanctuary: Faith, Healing, and the Work of Belonging” What does it take to walk with someone from life on the street back into community? In this episode of The Heart of Laguna, I sit down with Deacon Joe Seminara of St. Catherine of Siena Catholic Church, a retired law enforcement officer whose career moved from patrol work into deep street-level outreach with people experiencing homelessness, addiction, and mental illness. Joe shares how his years in a “Quality of Life” unit transformed his understanding of trauma, addiction, and the spiritual hunger beneath human suffering. We explore the devastating realities of fentanyl, untreated mental illness, childhood trauma, and isolation—alongside the power of relationship, community, and grace. From jail ministry to street outreach to his vision for a police chaplaincy in Laguna Beach, Joe offers a grounded, hope-filled view of what real restoration looks like: not just getting people off the street, but welcoming them fully back into community. This episode is about forgiveness already given, dignity never lost, and the radical idea that we don’t rescue people—we walk with them home.Show Notes Guest: Deacon Joe Seminara Deacon, St. Catherine of Siena Catholic Church, Laguna BeachRetired Federal and Municipal Law Enforcement Officer (35+ years)Former Quality of Life Unit Officer, Long BeachJail Ministry Leader | Street Outreach AdvocateCandidate for Laguna Beach Police ChaplainIn This Episode, We Explore: 1. From Badge to Street Ministry35 years in law enforcementTransition from patrol to Quality of Life outreachTrading the uniform for a polo shirt and minivan to build trustWorking directly with:Detox programsRehab centersMental health servicesSocial SecurityHousing placementWhy relationship—not enforcement—creates real change2. Trauma, Addiction, and the Reality on the StreetsChildhood trauma as a primary driver of homelessnessDomestic violence, chaos, neglect, and long-term emotional injurySelf-medication through drugs and alcoholWhy fentanyl has changed everything48,000+ fentanyl deaths last year in the U.S.Addiction as symptom—not identity“People don’t start broken. They become overwhelmed.”3. Living in the Past, Living in the Future, and the Gift of NowGuilt as a prison of the pastAnxiety as captivity to the futureAddiction as an attempt to escape consciousnessWhy sobriety requires more than detox—it requires meaning4. Absolution, Grace, and the End of Spiritual EarningForgiveness isn’t granted—it’s announcedChrist forgave once, for allThe role of confession as liberation from shameWhy guilt empowers despair—but grace restores agencyThe thief on the cross as the Gospel in one sentence“You are already forgiven. The work is believing it.”5. The Hard Road Back: Detox, Rehab, and Rebuilding LifeDetox → Rehab → Sober Living → Medical Care → ID → Income → HousingDental care, disability services, job placementThe critical role of consistent follow-up“What saves people is knowing someone is still there.”6. Why Community Is the Missing Link in RecoveryRecovery doesn’t end with shelterWithout community, relapse is almost inevitableWhy churches must become long-term spiritual homes, not just emergency respondersFaith communities as:AnchorsIdentity-buildersRecovery partnersAccountability without condemnation7. A Vision for Laguna: Police Chaplaincy & Church-Based OutreachRide-alongs with officersPeer counseling for first respondersChurch volunteers in coordinated street outreachScripture, conversation, Bibles, prayer—and presenceA vision for:Mobile outreach teamsShowers & hot mealsWeekend street ministryFaith-based recovery pathways8. The Crisis of Mental Illness & Structural FailureOnly 7 indigent psychiatric beds in all of LA County at one pointLack of long-term stabilization resourcesHow mental illness and homelessness feed each otherWhy this is medical, not moral“We are not doing enough for the mentally ill—period.”9. Housing, Wealth, and the Hidden Struggles of LagunaEquity-rich, income-poor seniorsYoung families priced outThe need for low-income and workforce housingWealth does not equal securitySuccess measured in dollars vs. dignity10. A New Vision: A “Welcome Wagon” for Laguna BeachInterfaith-led community welcome teamsVisiting new residents—regardless of wealth or statusSharing:Faith communitiesVolunteer opportunitiesArts & cultureKXFMThe same welcome offered to:Formerly unhousedNew homeownersLong-time renters“Isolation looks different at every income level.”11. Youth, Faith, and the Generational ChallengeSocial media overloadLoss of faith-based schoolsBiblical illiteracy in jailMoving from judgment to belongingTeaching God’s love—not fearCentral Themes of This EpisodeTrauma and healingGrace over guiltPresence over punishmentCommunity over isolationBelonging as the true goal of recoveryA Key Question This ...
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    53 min
  • Grace, Guilt, and Getting Real in Laguna Beach--Fr. Will Crist and Bishop Brian Delvaux, St. Francis By the Sea Cathedral. November 19, 2025
    Nov 19 2025
    Episode Description The Heart of Laguna – “Grace, Guilt, and Getting Real in Laguna Beach” What happens when two priests ordained in 1974 sit down and talk honestly about faith, failure, calling, and community? In this episode of The Heart of Laguna, I’m joined by Bishop Brian Delvaux of St. Francis Cathedral in Laguna Beach. Brian tells the story of his winding path—from Roman Catholic priest, to leaving ministry, to marriage and family life, to selling pipe and phones, and finally returning to the priesthood as bishop of a small, independent Catholic community just around the corner from St. Mary’s. Together, we wrestle with what it means to be “real” people of faith in a divided world: how we confuse niceness with love, why disagreement is not hatred, and how guilt and fear have been used to keep people small instead of setting them free. We explore grace as God’s initiative, not a spiritual paycheck, and we ask what it would look like for Laguna Beach to become a place where people can truly listen across differences—political, religious, and cultural—and discover each other’s humanity. If you’ve ever felt like you don’t quite fit the religious box you were handed, or you’re longing for a deeper, more spacious kind of Christian faith, this conversation is for you.Show Notes Guest: Bishop Brian Delvaux – Bishop of St. Francis Cathedral, an independent Catholic community on Park Avenue in Laguna Beach, California.Former Roman Catholic priest (ordained 1974)Husband, father, and grandfatherLongtime pastor, hospital chaplain, and teacher of adult Catholic theologyIn This Episode, We Talk About:A life-long calling with twists and turnsBrian’s early inspiration from a young priest who “poured himself out” for his communitySeminary life as a place of real people—“crazy, fun, and holy”—not plaster saintsLeaving active ministry, working in the secular world, and discovering faith from the pewsThe path back into the priesthood and eventually the episcopacy in an independent Catholic contextGrace, guilt, and the end of religious infantilismThe difference between guilt that crushes and guilt that simply says, “I’m sorry.”Moving beyond a “third-grade religion” where you earn grace by being goodGrace as God’s initiative: “You don’t get grace for helping the lady across the street; you get grace so you can help her across the street.”Confession not as payment, but as shedding the illusion that we are unforgivableDivision, “haters,” and the poverty of nicenessWhy our culture now confuses disagreement with hateHow fear of conflict leads to shallow niceness instead of deep loveThe difference between being a tourist in other people’s worlds and truly entering their culture, experience, and painThe cost—and necessity—of learning to love people we don’t agree withChurch leadership in a new ageThe shift from “sage on the stage” to “guide on the side” for clergy and faith leadersWhy small churches and small groups often shape history more than big institutionsCreating spiritual spaces where people can be honest, imperfect, and welcomed as they areHow an independent Catholic parish seeks to honor Catholic theology while removing unnecessary barriers to belongingLaguna Beach as a spiritual microcosmLaguna as a home for artists and creators who “imitate the Creator”The town as a microcosm of humanity’s larger challenges and hopesSigns of resilience and hope—from interfaith gatherings and shared prayer to community efforts like “Love Laguna”The conviction that this place is not just beautiful, but capable of much more in how we love and listen to each otherBeyond stereotypes: Christians, not just labelsSeeing denominations as “table groups” within the larger Christian communityMoving from “you’re Catholic, so you must be X” / “you’re Episcopalian, so you must be Y” to real encounterThe possibility of groups, like Braver Angels, that help people with different political views move beyond caricatures into genuine relationshipQuestions for ReflectionWhere in your own life have you settled for “niceness” instead of real, honest, loving conversations?What parts of your faith are still stuck at the “third-grade” level—and what would it look like to grow up spiritually?Who have you written off as a “hater” or an enemy before you actually listened to their story?How might you, in your corner of Laguna Beach (or wherever you live), become a facilitator of deeper listening instead of just another advocate for your side?About the Show The Heart of Laguna is a weekly conversation from KXFM in Laguna Beach. Each episode explores what holds us together when the world feels like it’s coming apart—through stories, spirit, and service from the soul of the city.🎙 New episodes every Wednesday morning on KXFM at 8:00.
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    51 min
  • Many Faiths, One City: How Interfaith Service Is Holding Laguna Together--Fr. Will Crist and Beth Garlock - Nov 12, 2025
    Nov 12 2025
    Episode Description The Heart of Laguna – “Many Faiths, One City: How Interfaith Service Is Holding Laguna Together” What happens when churches, temples, and spiritual communities stop debating doctrine and start feeding the hungry, sheltering the cold, and showing up for their city—together? In this episode of The Heart of Laguna, I’m joined by Beth Garlock, longtime leader with the Laguna Beach Interfaith Council, whose 16+ years of service have helped shape one of the most quietly powerful networks of compassion in our city. Beth shares how a simple invitation grew into a life of interfaith service—feeding neighbors nightly, sheltering families during storms, supporting hospitality workers, organizing disaster relief, and building bridges across faith lines. We talk about what makes Laguna uniquely kind, the hidden needs beneath the beauty, the power of shared service, and why the future of faith may rest less in belief debates and more in presence, relationship, and responsibility for the whole city. This is a conversation about joint responsibility, practical compassion, youth, recovery from isolation, and why loving your neighbor is no longer optional—it’s survival.Show Notes Guest: Beth GarlockLeader, Laguna Beach Interfaith CouncilLaguna Beach resident for 26 years16–17 years of continuous Interfaith leadershipMember, Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day SaintsCommunity organizer, disaster relief coordinator, and shelter advocateIn This Episode, We Explore: 1. How Beth Found Her Calling in Interfaith WorkMoving to Laguna Beach 26 years agoBeing mentored into Interfaith by the late Ann “Saint Anne” RichardsonAttending one meeting—and never leavingDiscovering a spiritual home in common good, not uniform belief2. What the Interfaith Council Actually DoesNightly community dinners for over a decadeRotating church-based meal sponsorshipsCold Weather Shelter Program hosted by houses of worshipCollaboration with the City of Laguna Beach and Police DepartmentOverflow shelter for rain and cold emergenciesOngoing cooperation with the Laguna Food Pantry3. “Is Anyone Still Hungry in Laguna?”The reality: Food pantry + nightly dinners + morning coffee & sandwichesFormer solo effort now sustained community-wideA model of redundant compassion—no single point of failureHope that no one is falling through the cracks4. Invisible Workers & Hidden NeedsHospitality workers in beachfront hotelsMany commuting in daily, often under economic strainQuiet outreach currently happening through faith partnersChristmas giving extended beyond congregations to worker familiesImmigration anxieties and economic fragility addressed with dignity5. The Power of Community Response in CrisisRapid Interfaith response to the Palisades FireEmergency permits pulled for Main BeachCommunity prayer vigil, cash donations, clothing drivesThe lesson: “People want to help. They just need a way in.”6. Love Laguna & Open Service to the Whole CityCitywide volunteer day open to everyoneFamilies with no church affiliation joining to serveService as the new front door into communityFaith without barriers7. What Makes Laguna Beach UniqueStrong culture of volunteerismReputation as a “Kindness City”A rare non-judgment zoneSmall-town relational feelDeep acceptance across lifestyles, backgrounds, and beliefs8. The Danger of “Checkbook Compassion”Gratitude for generosity—but concern about distance from peopleThe irreplaceable power of:PresenceNaming someoneSitting with painCharity must stay human-sized and relational9. COVID, Isolation, and the Crisis of DisconnectionThe lingering relational damage of lockdownDigital connection ≠ human presenceThe rising urgency of face-to-face communityChurches as vital centers of embodied belonging10. AI, the Future, and Why Faith Still MattersThe coming wave of artificial intelligenceThe emerging role of religion:RelationshipPhysical presenceHuman touchFaith communities as the last non-automated spaces of meaning11. A Radical Idea: The Entire City Is the ParishAncient Anglican vision: Beating the BoundsThe parish defined as geography, not membershipThe Interfaith vision: “We are responsible for everyone inside the city limits.”Hotels, hospitals, restaurants, landscapers, workers, seniors, youth—all included12. Youth, Spiritual Hunger & a Surprising RenewalTeens and young adults returning to spiritual lifeService as the on-ramp to beliefFaith expressed through action before affiliationCore Themes of This EpisodeInterfaith cooperationShared civic responsibilityCompassion without labelsPresence over politicsService as spiritual practiceRecovery from isolationYouth and the future of faithA Central Question This Episode Raises What if loving your neighbor is no longer a religious virtue—but the only way a city survives what’s coming next? About the Show The Heart of Laguna is a weekly conversation from KXFM in Laguna Beach. Each episode explores what holds us ...
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    48 min