This episode is part of a mini series on love and relationships, where we explore what it truly means to be seen and loved for who we are. In this conversation, I reflect on the ways we perform for love and how often we shape shift, self abandon, or compromise our values to be chosen. We dive into the cost of performing for connection and why authentic love can only exist when we show up as our whole selves. If you have ever felt the need to shrink or hide parts of yourself to be loved, this episode will gently guide you back to truth, wholeness, and deeper intimacy.

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• Performing for love disconnects you from your authentic self
• Being loved for who you pretend to be will never feel fulfilling
• Authentic intimacy requires showing all parts of yourself
• You do not need to compromise your values to be worthy of love
• The right relationships see and love you fully

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In this solo episode, I talk about how faith can anchor us during seasons of uncertainty when fear, overwhelm, and the need for control take over. I share personal reflections on motherhood, surrender, and trusting a higher power when outcomes feel unknown. This conversation is for the mom who is carrying too much, worrying about what she cannot control, and craving peace. If you are in a season where life feels heavy or unclear, this episode will remind you that you are supported, guided, and never meant to do this alone.

There are moments in life when uncertainty feels unbearable, especially as a mother. In this episode, I reflect on how faith becomes a grounding force when fear and ‘what if..?’ thinking starts to spiral. I share how releasing control, asking for help, and reconnecting with something greater than ourselves can bring calm and clarity even when nothing feels certain. Faith is not about having all the answers. It is about remembering you are held, supported, and guided through every season, even the painful and confusing ones.

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Key Takeaways:

• Faith helps anchor us when life feels uncertain and out of control
• Fear often shows up as the need to plan, predict, and control outcomes
• We are not meant to carry heavy seasons alone
• Asking for help is a powerful act of surrender and trust
• Mothers set the emotional tone of their households
• Prayer, intention, and collective support can bring calm and healing
• Signs and synchronicities can offer reassurance and guidance
• Letting go creates space for peace, clarity, and trust

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Resources & Links Mentioned in the Show

A Return to Love by Marianne Williamson: A Return to Love Book

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What if the reason your goals feel heavy is because you are gripping them too tightly? In this episode, I invite you into a gentler, more aligned way of thinking about success, goals, and achievement. We talk about control versus surrender, why detaching from outcomes can actually accelerate your growth, and how joy and ease are powerful catalysts for manifestation. This conversation will challenge the hustle mindset and offer a more feminine, soul led approach to creating a life that feels truly successful.

We explore what success really means, how attachment can block flow, and why taking aligned action while releasing control opens doors we never could have planned for. This is an invitation to soften, trust, and redefine success on your own terms.

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Key Take-aways

• Success is personal and must be defined on your own terms
• Being attached to outcomes can block flow and joy
• Taking action matters more than perfectly planned goals
• Surrender does not mean doing nothing, it means releasing control
• Joy, ease, and feeling good raise your ability to attract opportunities
• Living from the feeling of success is more powerful than chasing it
• Letting go can open doors that effort alone cannot

Resources Mentioned

• Forrest Gump (movie)
• Office Space (movie)
• Wayne Dyer
• Weight Loss Mindset Episode on Heart AF Podcast

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