Episode 101

It’s been a while since I did an “Ask Me Anything” episode, so here we are!

This episode is all over the place, which only makes sense because you listeners gave me the topics to talk about. And you are all different and want to know different things. I love that!

So in this episode I shared about hormones and perimenopause, favorite books, raising young adults, my women’s walking retreat in the Cotswolds, and more. I hope you enjoy another little peek into my life.

Putting links to the walking retreat below, as well as a link to the book you need to read in 2026, It’s Time to Talk to Your Kids About Porn. I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again, make this the year you have one of the most important conversations in modern day parenting with your kids. Don’t worry, I wrote a guide to help you.

Resources mentioned in this episode:

Get info on my Women’s Walking Retreat in the Cotswolds here

Get my book here

The Greta Eskridge Podcast is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. For more information visit www.ChristianParenting.org

Episode 99

If you had told me 15 years ago, or even 5 years ago that I’d be doing a podcast episode on masturbation, I’d never, ever believe you. But here we are, 99 episodes into my podcast having a conversation that I couldn’t imagine having. But over the years as I have talked with parents about creating a healthy sexual culture in their homes, one of the most common questions I get is: how do I talk about masturbation with my kids?” So it is something we absolutely need to talk about. But I’ll be the first to admit, it is a challenging topic.

That’s why I appreciate people like Molly Bertles and her boldness and vulnerability in writing an entire book on the topic of masturbation. And more specifically on women and masturbation, which is even less talked about. In fact, the topic of women and masturbation often has so much shame and loneliness attached to it. And that is part of the reason it is hardly ever talked about. Molly bravely and compassionately steps into this topic in her book and in this podcast episode with me.

Our goal is to help women find freedom from the shame and the addiction of masturbation and instead experience the goodness God is offering. This episode might be one you need to listen to for yourself, or to offer understanding and hope to a friend, or to equip you to talk about this with your own daughters and sons. I hope you’ll listen to this episode and hear in our voices and conversation that you don’t have to be embarrassed or uncomfortable talking about this topic. God cares about every part of our lives, our struggles our heartaches, our questions and our confusion. So yes, He cares about this. And we do too. So join us for episode 99, the one where we talk about masturbation.

Important things we talk about in this episode:

*That kids using masturbation is most often not a sexual act, but simply a kind of self-soothing.

*When masturbation does changes into a sexual activity.

*How so many of us never had parents or anyone talk about it with us as kids or teens.

*The way we act like masturbation is a male problem only and how that impacts women.

*Why people use masturbation and how it is often used to numb negative feelings.

*How masturbation is unhealthy and even harmful.

*How culture tries to make us think masturbation is perfectly fine and healthy.

*How masturbation hurts others.

*The danger of fantasy and masturbation.

*Why the gospel isn’t about performance or working for God’s love, but accepting the free gift God gave us.

*How some people choose masturbation after they’ve been hurt sexually and how God loves you so much in that place and why there is hope in this place!

Resources and other important things mentioned in this episode:

*Find Greta’s book, It’s Time to Talk to Your Kids About Porn here

*Quote from Molly’s professor: “Sex in marriage is as holy as prayer.”

*The 2 lies Satan wants people to believe when they are stuck in sexual sin: “you are uniquely ruined by this and no one can ever find out.” Sam Alberry

*“The gospel applies to every part of our life, even our sex life.” Greta Eskridge

*We can, through Christ, renew our minds. That is spiritual and scriptural and scientific! Romans 12:2 is a good place to start with this understanding from a scriptural standpoint.

*Find more on the topic of women using masturbation and porn in this episode right here that I recorded with Joy Skarka and in Joy’s book here.

Where to find Molly

Find Molly’s book here

Find Molly on Instagram here

The Greta Eskridge Podcast is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. For more information visit www.ChristianParenting.org